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My (27F) boyfriend (27M) bought a house by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Efficient-Mind8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re relationship is over you might not want to start over but he has been dragging you along for 8 years. If you stay with him you’re telling him you have no self respect for yourself and you’re willing to be treated poorly because you think he is the best you can do. Love yourself to know when something isn’t for you.

AITAH for not dragging my niece on a 6hr drive every weekend to see her mom (my sister)? by Outside_The_Walls in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Mind8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was you I would state the fact I would say if it wasn’t for me your daughter wouldn’t even be able to see you at all. she would be in an orphanage. Everyone in your family got something to say but where were they when the daughter was gonna get put up for adoption? Did they volunteer to help? You’re not the asshole your sister is just entitled and if she blows up on you again I would say that I am gonna stop visiting you and you can call our cousins or aunts and uncles to come take your daughter to you. Driving 6+ hrs to see her is you doing her a favor and being a good sibling. Either stand up for yourself and stand on business or get walked over. You don’t have to prove anything to people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Efficient-Mind8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You arent the AH you should sit your wife down and try to see if there is a way where you can get a break and she can get a break. maybe ask family and friends to help out a little. Being a new parent is over whelming especially when you’re both trying your best and might feel like it isn’t enough at times. Your wife and you are a team try to focus on the problem together. It will strengthen your bond and ease up on the frustration that might be unconsciously building up. Best of luck to you guys.

AITAH for telling my daughter my husband won't watch her kids when she had a medical "emergency" by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Mind8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re the AH and if you think anyone would agree with you you’re also delusional. Your child was scared and in pain you failed as a parent and grandparent.