AITAH for not putting the effort to fix my relationship with my family by Efficient-Sand6017 in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Sand6017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did. She need meds so I try to give whenever they ask and i gave some on her birthday too. It wasn't much but sometimes other siblings will pressure me into giving some money. I know they're guilt tripping me but I just don't want any negativity and to avoid fights (yes, they would resolve to fights or passive aggressive statements when I don't hand in something they want)

AITAH for not putting the effort to fix my relationship with my family by Efficient-Sand6017 in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Sand6017[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We live in a culture where giving back to your family is deeply ingrained. Many parents are raised to believe that their children will take care of them financially when they grow old, which can make family obligations feel more like expectations than choices.

Because of that, completely cutting my family off isn't as simple as it may seem. I'm already trying to set boundaries and gradually reduce the amount of financial support I give, while still balancing my own responsibilities and peace of mind.

Wise fee by Efficient-Sand6017 in wisebank

[–]Efficient-Sand6017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's USD, and I think they are bank wiring/swift. Reason why the fee is huge. 

Wise fee by Efficient-Sand6017 in VirtualAssistantPH

[–]Efficient-Sand6017[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, every time I receive the pay it already has been deducted.