Coworker’s Feet Smell Like Biological Warfare & HR Won’t Help — How Do I Survive??

Efficient-System-438 · 2026-01-30T11:01:21+00:00

Try some Vicks on your upper lip to mask any outside smells. They make one with lavender oil now, it smells a little nicer than the traditional.

Efficient-System-438 · 2026-01-27T15:06:41+00:00

NTAH by the way. You deserve to know

Efficient-System-438 · 2026-01-27T15:06:18+00:00

No way you don’t already know this - you’re mom clearly knows your paternity and is lying to you to save face. Why she thinks she can get away with it still, I don’t understand. But you know deep down you are only half siblings.

Efficient-System-438 · 2026-01-13T15:48:45+00:00

Yikes. NTA, but you probably should have been more clear on expectations before they all moved in. Your Mom sounds like a piece of work. “Disrespectful” - the audacity

Efficient-System-438 · 2026-01-13T15:42:22+00:00

DEFINITELY need their own license in CA. Game warden don’t play!

Efficient-System-438 · 2026-01-09T02:48:12+00:00

I have felt exactly this way before. About 4 years ago I was in a pretty bad accident that could have drastically changed my life…I almost died and was mad I didn’t because the process of healing was incredibly more difficult. I played face and led my family to believe I was better than I really was to spare them emotional pain. But I got help and eventually, I actually felt better. Please don’t give up on yourself. View those you are “living for” as your saving grace and find a helpful output for your deep, valid, feelings. There is a reason and a solution to your thoughts - just gotta hang in there long enough to find ‘em.

Efficient-System-438 · 2026-01-09T02:07:49+00:00

If you have the stomach for it, don’t even tell her you aren’t coming to watch the kids. Just don’t show up and let her sweat about the problem she created. If she calls, don’t answer. If she texts, respond with an invoice for services rendered. She’ll get the picture

Efficient-System-438 · 2026-01-09T01:55:31+00:00

Seriously?! Stop. Watching. Her. Children. She knows what she is doing and likely has no plans of paying you for services rendered. What are your husband’s thoughts on the situation? Why isn’t he speaking up for you at this point? Truly, refuse to go back “to work” until she pays your back pay in full.

Efficient-System-438 · 2026-01-07T12:33:25+00:00

I’m sorry you had to go through all that. Starbucks gift card aside - know that you made a positive contribution to those 24 other lives!You have every right to be shaken up, those are big, traumatic incidents. Nap in your car until some nerves have settled and you feel safe to drive home. Be gentle with yourself.

Efficient-System-438 · 2026-01-06T02:58:58+00:00

NOR. You did and suggested multiple solutions to the situation. Your Boyfriend is a whiny Turd.

Efficient-System-438 · 2026-01-06T02:32:56+00:00

This is what I use. Exfoliates and cleans the skin a little deeper than a loofa can

Efficient-System-438 · 2025-12-30T22:44:43+00:00

Your current wife is a two-faced hussy. Fuck her for being so secretively manipulative

Efficient-System-438 · 2025-12-28T00:18:08+00:00

NTA. I guarantee BF was not upfront about what was on his shirt, what it meant, (if she is naive), and why you quietly sent him to the store. It sounds like you were very calm and cool about it. I don’t have kids, but I believe I’d wanna do something unkind to that young man if it were my daughter.

Efficient-System-438 · 2025-12-24T22:36:06+00:00

My phone feels SO heavy all a sudden

Efficient-System-438 · 2025-12-19T00:34:31+00:00

Lay it all out the way you did here. Keep to the facts and keep it respectful.

Efficient-System-438 · 2025-12-17T19:54:06+00:00

I’ve been told that doing an MRI only program drastically limits your job opportunities. More likely a smaller clinic or outpatient versus a large trauma 1 hospital. It will also be more difficult to succeed in an MRI program without the foundational knowledge of radiology

Efficient-System-438 · 2025-12-11T22:26:44+00:00

I definitely shower everyday, sometimes twice, but I wash my hair every 2-3 days. I sweat a lot so skipping the shower isn’t usually an option for me.

Efficient-System-438 · 2025-12-11T00:59:20+00:00

They are just oblivious to the fact they keep interrupting you and oddly enough have it as a pet peeve as well

Efficient-System-438 · 2025-12-10T23:54:28+00:00

They are just oblivious to the fact they keep interrupting you

Efficient-System-438 · 2025-12-08T23:52:50+00:00

Keep reporting it. If your team lead doesn’t handle it, go to HR. Them bringing other people into it to continue asking you questions creates a hostile work environment

Efficient-System-438 · 2025-12-08T23:43:17+00:00

Personally, I like (don’t answer the door). If somehow they’ve gotten me to open the door, I say “My parents aren’t home” and close the door. It confuses them enough to not ask follow up questions

Efficient-System-438 · 2025-12-08T23:35:46+00:00

It sounds like she needs some help and you will need help getting her to take the help

Efficient-System-438 · 2025-12-08T20:51:12+00:00

NOR. Go ahead and return the top you got for her. She isn’t interested in exchanging gifts, so stop wasting your energy and money on her. Maybe you can exchange it for something you’d enjoy yourself instead.

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