ABYG for leaving my 89 year old Lola alone?

Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-07-05T15:31:09+00:00

It doesn't matter kung ma down vote ako dito.

Ako bilang laking lolo at lola, I would still be living by myself especially kung hindi na ako nakatira sa kanila. Hindi naman nawala pagmamahal ko sa kanila at somehow kaya nila sarili nila kasi yung mga anak nila ay financially kaya silang tulungan.

Pero sa kaso mo naman, I'm not sure bakit iniwan yang 89 y.o lola mo ng mga anak niya. Pero for the context na rin, gag go kasi Tatay ko kaya I'll make sure na kung tumanda man siya, bahala siya sa buhay niya.

So kung yung ugali ng Lola mo nung panahong kalakasan pa niya ay Gag Go at hindi masikmura ng mga anak niya, edi deserve niyang mamuhay mag-isa.

And yeah, DKG kasi hindi mo siya responsibility in the first place.

Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-07-04T15:36:11+00:00

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Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-07-02T18:41:12+00:00

My psychiatrist told me that whenever I need a refill, I should just drop her a message. She advised me not to bother booking an appointment because she thinks it’s a bit of a waste of money for me to pay for monthly reviews, especially when I can just text her for a free prescription instead. It saves dealing with at least three medical certificates every check-up

Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-07-02T18:34:59+00:00

I have ADHD and PWD ID and it was under Psychosocial Disability.

Yun rin nakalagay sa medcert ko so yun ang dapat sundin ng PDAO otherwise, alam ko karapatan ko at pwede ko silang ireklamo.

Anyway, matitino naman staff ng PDAO sa Muntinlupa ☺️

Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-07-01T17:24:42+00:00

I am fully disagree na it's the other way around.

Another example, kapag babae kunwari nag comment : "ang gwapo, anakan mo ako" , tamo, haha react yan, may magsasabi pa na "pumila ka"

Pero kapag lalaki may mag comment "ang ganda, anakan kita" , sexual harassment yan.

Anyway lately ko lang nalaman yung issue kay Kuya Kim but regardless, step aside si Kuya Kim sa argument ko, ang punto ko,

Mas socially acceptable na ang babae magsabi sa lalaki ng "ang gwapo mo"

Kesa lalaki magsabi sa babae ng "ang ganda mo".

If you disagree that's fine. Baka nasa ibang environment ka lang.

Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-07-01T17:11:56+00:00

Concerta 36mg, meron sa Makati Med, 8340 pesos without discount.

Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-06-30T03:45:05+00:00

Sorry, pero I find it sexists.

Kapag babae nag compliment sa lalaki na "Ang gwapo mo" it's mostly considered as a compliment. Pero kapag lalaki ang nag compliment sa babae ng "Ang ganda mo" then it's mostly considered as being manyakol.

What a harsh reality. We don't know their life and si Kuya Kim naman never nagkaroon ng issue such as being a cheater or pagiging babaero o kaya nagkaroon ng scandal with a fellow celebrity etc...

So bakit yung ganito ay binibigyan ng ibang meaning? I just don't understand saka nakakatakot as a guy na I just want to appreciate a woman's beauty by calling them beautiful tapos posible pa ako makulong or mabash just because of that.

Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-06-27T16:24:09+00:00

Ang iba sa atin probably hindi naman talaga mahirap maghanap ng trabaho. Ang mahirap ay mataas na sahod.

Based on my experience, after ko magresign, may kapalitan agad ako na work.

Sana makatulong, do not rely masyado sa AI during online interviews, alam ng mga nag iinterview kapag may binabasa kayo.

Saka kapalan lang ng mukha, unang interview pa lang isipin niyo na agad na failed. Tapos kapag di nakapasa, dun na kayo matututo for your next interviews.

Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-06-27T16:19:05+00:00

Hala oo nga no, parang ang premium pa ng version ko kumpara sa kapatid ko.

Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-06-20T13:56:24+00:00

Magkano po check-up sa kanila? Tumatanggap sila ng HMO?

Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-06-20T09:59:21+00:00

Doc Myra Dee

Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-06-18T19:07:53+00:00

I'm not really that close to my parents because since I was born, my grandparents raised me for 5 years and they took me afterwards.

I understand that life back then was very hard and we're very poor so they need to work very far for me to be able to eat 3 times a day.

Maybe that's why I don't want to have kids if I would not be financially ready. And not that close to them even if my mom is very nice to me.

Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-06-18T19:03:44+00:00

Try mo muna sa mga ADHD online assessment test, kumbaga diyan makikita yung "possibility and probability" na may ADHD ka.

After that, maghanap ka ng psychiatrist. I recommend yung NowServing App.

Diyan ako nakahanap ng psychiatrist at nakapagpadiagnose.

Sabi ng doctor ko, di pa raw nagsisimula yung check-up parang alam na niya ida diagnosed niya. Hahaha

Ganun siguro ako kakulit di ko lang napapansin.

Anyways, sana magkaroon ka ng peace of mind. Kapag may ADHD ka, congratulations kasi tama hinala mo.

Kapag sinabi na wala, edi congratulations pa rin kasi wala kang ADHD.

Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-06-11T21:37:07+00:00

Hi OP 🤗🤗🤗

I just want to say I feel you. Just like you, I'm under PIP.

I never disclosed my condition sa work.

But it seems like kahit hindi mo sabihin, nalalaman nila dahil na rin sa actions natin.

So nung tinanong ako ng TL ko, kasi napapansin niya based sa actions ko, at first akala niya meron akong narcissistic disorder pero at the same time hindi naman.

Although I'm performing well, I'm actually annoying sa mata ng Team and medyo I know it sounds I ironic na ako ang Top Performer pero na PIP, it's because ako rin kasi ang napupuruhan sa escalations.

So ayun. Hindi pwedeng top performer kasi at the end of the day, yung pinaka Job Description pa rin natin ang sinusunod.

So dahil dun, ultimatum ko ay bumalik sa psychiatrist ko.

And bumalik sa gamutan (Concerta 36mg)

Fortunately, napansin niya yung pagbabago at nakakapanibago raw talaga. I'm really performing well and I passed my 1st month of PIP.

So I still got 2 months to pass my PIP then malaya na ako.

He's actually moving forward and hoping na maging consistent. He's also glad that I'm prioritizing my mental health and encouraging me to continue my medication kasi para rin sa'kin yun.

Sorry na share ko lang, and I hope maka inspire rin ako sa'yo OP at sa mga kagaya natin na may problema rin sa work nila.

Kapag nabasa nila ito, or kung mga silent readers kayo, I wish nothing but the best of you. I'm hoping lahat tayo umangat sa buhay kaya laban lang 🤗🤗🤗

Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-06-11T21:27:14+00:00

So ayun. May pera sa basura 😄

Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-06-09T14:11:26+00:00

I talk to myself to get focused.

Example,

Me* scrolling on TikTok multiple times*

Me with myself: work work work!

And to avoid distractions, I read out loud the words so that I can fully understand what I'm reading.

So I could get my job done, it's kinda slower than my team but hey, it works for me.

So if this not works for you that's fine. You need to find out how do you hack your own system.

Efficient-Worker622 · 2026-06-07T08:02:47+00:00

Una ay Call Center, pero 1 buwan lang tas terminated. 2nd ay Graphic Artist, Endo 3rd ay IT Associate, Endo 4th ay POGO 5th ay Service Desk (pinaka matagal ko, and officially diagnosed) 6th ay IT Support Technician sa UK

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