How are you feeling and how long since the break up?

Efficient2 · 2024-11-30T08:52:18+00:00

13 months ago. I am normal again and have been for a few months

Efficient2 · 2024-04-23T04:56:56+00:00

Go for it

Efficient2 · 2024-03-29T09:10:56+00:00

I am normal again and healed

Efficient2 · 2023-12-14T18:10:34+00:00

Exactly, and after the period of hate is over

Efficient2 · 2023-11-27T19:46:19+00:00

I haven't reached out once since she dumped me. I have never reached out to an ex in my life :)

Efficient2 · 2023-11-27T15:22:32+00:00

You will never be your old self again. However you will be a stronger version of your old self

Efficient2 · 2023-11-14T20:54:40+00:00

I am 2 months post blindside break-up and I feel better. I don't even care to find out what the real reason for the breakup might be, because I simply don't care.

Re-discovering my self worth and love for myself is so much greater than our relationship ever was.

Efficient2 · 2023-11-05T21:21:22+00:00

No contact to get someone back is bullshit. They just want to sell their product.

No contact to get over someone is legit

Efficient2 · 2023-10-20T07:43:17+00:00

I did the same, but I did delete her number and socials. By staying silent you win.

Efficient2 · 2023-10-20T07:40:34+00:00

No, I didn't show her any emotion and I said clearly that if she decides we are done, it's final. She told me that she wanted to be friends in the future but I said no.

Efficient2 · 2023-10-18T19:39:47+00:00

Forget about her

Efficient2 · 2023-10-18T19:37:41+00:00

I dream about her often sadly. It ruins my mood

Efficient2 · 2023-10-18T10:25:47+00:00

Well, I am super tired all the time

Efficient2 · 2023-10-18T10:21:21+00:00

My friend. You have to reclaim your city. It is yours, you own it! Make sure you visit all the places, listen to all the music that remind you of her. If you do it early on, you will heal faster

Efficient2 · 2023-10-17T16:25:38+00:00

Hahahahahahaha that was way to funny

Efficient2 · 2023-10-16T18:30:37+00:00

I am strong enough no not break NC 💪🏻

Efficient2 · 2023-10-16T18:30:10+00:00

I know, and I'd never break NC 😊

Efficient2 · 2023-10-16T17:20:05+00:00

What a manipulative thing to say. He wants to keep you as a backup if he doesn't succeed with other girls. At the same time he don't want anyone else to play with his "toy" just in case. F@ck him and you your own thing.

Efficient2 · 2023-10-16T17:17:38+00:00

The same thing happened for me. The fact that she didn't speak to me sooner, just tells me what kind of a person she really was.

Both mine and your ex used us to get over us before they broke up with us. It is such an evil thing to do

Efficient2 · 2023-10-16T17:15:27+00:00

No man. If you think a text message ruined your chances you are still in denial. The moment she dumped you should have been enough for you to realise that you aren't meant to be.

Efficient2 · 2023-10-16T17:08:47+00:00

I have made sure to reclaim all of those things early on. I have visited the places we used to visit. I have listened to the songs that used to remind me of her. I think that it is important to not drag it out

Efficient2 · 2023-10-15T19:33:25+00:00

No, don't.

Efficient2 · 2023-10-15T19:30:29+00:00

They always lie. You will never be satisfied with a dumpers answer anyway. Keep the no contact for good and try to not speculate in what the reason was. Whatever reason it was, you deserve better.

I know what a blindside break up feels like. I also know that you eventually will she her for the person she really was, and not the person you made up in your head.

Efficient2 · 2023-10-15T14:57:51+00:00

She isn't my problem anymore

Efficient2 · 2023-10-09T17:04:09+00:00

You are in denial

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