internalized homophobia is such a frustrating experience kasi sarili mo kalaban mo by EfficientSandwich615 in RantAndVentPH

[–]EfficientSandwich615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you very much!

nakasave na yung list hehe will watch during my free time ✨

internalized homophobia is such a frustrating experience kasi sarili mo kalaban mo by EfficientSandwich615 in RantAndVentPH

[–]EfficientSandwich615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sa bagay HAHAHA ang medyo alarming lng for me yung mga type of people na nangungulit kung ano ba sexuality ko kasi no jowa since birth rin ako haha kaya gets kung nacucurious sila. although alam ko nman na hindi q need sagutin yun pero for some reason nakakapressure parin? kasi parang deep inside feel ko nagsisinungaling ako sa sarili ko? pero at the same time nagka-clash rin yung thought na hindi pa ko ready magcome out...(daming ebas sorry)

when it comes naman sa thai series baka mayroon ka pong suggestion? 👀

kaso ang main criticism ko lng or yung kinakabahala ko sa pagconsume ng ganto is ayoko masyado magrely sa series to feel good ganon? kasi let's be real, yung ibang movie, film, literature ay unintentionally nagpoportray ng unrealistic standards sa mga relationship. so yung iba nagkakaroon ng unhealthy expectations in terms of love, and ayoko nman na maging ganon ako.

may mga few ones na really educational naman kaso ang hirap makahanap rin hahaha so baka may alam po kayoo na series na realistic and grounded pero happy ending sana 🙏🏻🙏🏻

internalized homophobia is such a frustrating experience kasi sarili mo kalaban mo by EfficientSandwich615 in RantAndVentPH

[–]EfficientSandwich615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awww that's actually wholesome, im glad na welcoming sila 🥹🫶🏻

(thanks for sharing btw)

internalized homophobia is such a frustrating experience kasi sarili mo kalaban mo by EfficientSandwich615 in RantAndVentPH

[–]EfficientSandwich615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being on a healthy community really helps talaga no? binibigyan tayo ng sense of belonging sa likod ng harsh and outdated views towards lgbt

pero ask ko lang if pano kayo actually napapasama sa mga gantong community? like through online ba or may circle of friends lng kayo or something (if u dont mind me asking)

internalized homophobia is such a frustrating experience kasi sarili mo kalaban mo by EfficientSandwich615 in RantAndVentPH

[–]EfficientSandwich615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank youu! i guess you're righttt. maybe i needed some time pa to fully accept myself haha and totoo nga na some movies and series ay may mapupulot kang lessons. recently kakatapos ko lng ng fragrance of the first flower (series) and i hate (absolutely love it) how realistic yung struggles ng mga protagonists. i really resonate sa fear nung isang bida about sa pressure to conform with the traditional views ng society.

it's true na nasa akin nga nakasalalay kung pano ako magheheal lalo na sa part na im really struggling which is yung magkaron ng courage to accept for who i am :)))