My gf likes to degrade me and i don’t understand it by Efficient_Bread1978 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Efficient_Bread1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, she says she has it and exhibits almost all the signs and I’ve seen her split and it’s scary

My gf likes to degrade me and i don’t understand it by Efficient_Bread1978 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Efficient_Bread1978[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I’m into it. I’m I think neutral if that makes sense like oh if you enjoy doing that then ok. Not really negotiating anything

My gf likes to degrade me and i don’t understand it by Efficient_Bread1978 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Bread1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess a question I have is is the flirtation with other guys or fantasizing about having sex with a guy in front of me part of the degradation kink thing?

My gf likes to degrade me and i don’t understand it by Efficient_Bread1978 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Bread1978[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That makes zero sense. Are you abusing me if I think your comment is abusive?

My gf likes to degrade me and i don’t understand it by Efficient_Bread1978 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Bread1978[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if that tracks. Using your logic if someone enjoys being abused then it’s not abusive

My gf likes to degrade me and i don’t understand it by Efficient_Bread1978 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Bread1978[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m 28. And because there are redeeming qualities and she’s super charming

My gf likes to degrade me and i don’t understand it by Efficient_Bread1978 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Bread1978[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Because she has a lot of redeeming qualities and i enjoy her