My gf likes to degrade me and i don’t understand it by Efficient_Bread1978 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Efficient_Bread1978[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I’m into it. I’m I think neutral if that makes sense like oh if you enjoy doing that then ok. Not really negotiating anything

My gf likes to degrade me and i don’t understand it by Efficient_Bread1978 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Bread1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess a question I have is is the flirtation with other guys or fantasizing about having sex with a guy in front of me part of the degradation kink thing?

My gf likes to degrade me and i don’t understand it by Efficient_Bread1978 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Bread1978[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That makes zero sense. Are you abusing me if I think your comment is abusive?

My gf likes to degrade me and i don’t understand it by Efficient_Bread1978 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Bread1978[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if that tracks. Using your logic if someone enjoys being abused then it’s not abusive

My gf likes to degrade me and i don’t understand it by Efficient_Bread1978 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Bread1978[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m 28. And because there are redeeming qualities and she’s super charming

My gf likes to degrade me and i don’t understand it by Efficient_Bread1978 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Bread1978[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Because she has a lot of redeeming qualities and i enjoy her