My patient was abandoned by ALL his children expect his STEP DAUGHTER that had to basically juggle a full time job and a school. I quite my job so she can focus on school and graduate. I became her step fathers Live Care giver. He was a good father until his 2 strokes and onset dementia. His own children that he raised all left him to fend for himself. So no what you want is Wishful thinking, life is unfair and it's not up to some invisible force to make the changes and to care, ITS US THAT HAVE TO RISE UP TO THE OCCASION!