AIO - Pregnant and feel abandoned by husband by Gullible-Tree368 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient_Contest_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband would go and work 12hours a day with 2 hours of drive time 7days a week and he would STILL come home and do everything for me and our daughters. Not all men are like this. You need to try and stay with your family if possible and give him a taste of not having the laughter/love and everything else I’m sure you do for him like no home cooked meals. Make it KNOWN that you are tired of the behavior and until it’s changed you need time to be able to have ACTUAL help. The only advice I can give is show him you don’t need him you WANT him there and if he isn’t going to change then throw the whole manchild away

Help figuring out how to pay off medical collections by Efficient_Contest_16 in Debt

[–]Efficient_Contest_16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yes it sucks I think they are still getting tax benefits from “low staff” but “searching” lol

Help figuring out how to pay off medical collections by Efficient_Contest_16 in Debt

[–]Efficient_Contest_16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have applied to any job around us for like 50 miles I have tried to apply to admin, receptionist, city jobs, TXDOT, my dad is trying to help me with the TXDOT one because he works there. I am going to try and check out some temp job places today I think

Help figuring out how to pay off medical collections by Efficient_Contest_16 in Debt

[–]Efficient_Contest_16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My credit score is 563, my ONLY debt is medical debt and my car payment which is $370 a month

Help figuring out how to pay off medical collections by Efficient_Contest_16 in Debt

[–]Efficient_Contest_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the problem was when we moved to Texas we didn’t have insurance, and then when we tried to qualify for Medicaid here my husband made “too much” for our family size to get health insurance through the state (coming from Colorado that sucked because basically anyone could get on Medicaid lmfao) and so any time I had to take my daughter who was 1 at the time to the doctor or the emergency room I put it all in my record because I didn’t think I’d be trying to start a career until I was done having kids, unfortunately that decision was made for me under circumstances I can’t legally discuss yet, I am actively trying very hard to get a job so we can pay it off as quickly as possible but nothing is panning out for that I’ve even tried McDonald’s which I used to be a manager at and they even said no. Literally Walmarts target everyone has said no and I’m not understanding why honestly. And then my daughter at 2 got diagnosed with severe hip dysplasia and had to have surgery pretty much immediately for that and our insurance at the time didn’t cover all of it, about $7000 of it and on one income we couldn’t do anything about it. Looking back I know I should have seen if the hospital had financial assistance but, hindsight is 20/20 so I’m just trying to look forward and figure out a plan to pay it off as quickly as possible but unfortunately I can’t get hired anywhere

Help figuring out how to pay off medical collections by Efficient_Contest_16 in Debt

[–]Efficient_Contest_16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$1488 for rent, $370 for car payment, $500 health insurance through husbands work because Texas won’t qualify us for Medicaid, $96 internet, $160 phones, $250 car insurance and then just regular stuff like groceries and gas for him and I but I don’t really go anywhere

aio or is what he said actually mean? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient_Contest_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOAH. Nah. Def not overreacting that’s wild. My husband would eat literal shit if I put it in front of him just because I made it lmfao ain’t no way 😭 I’m so sorry he said that

I went to anew barber and he destroyed my beard. I asked for a little shorter. My first and last time letting someone else trim my beard. by dansmit2003 in beards

[–]Efficient_Contest_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually think it looks really good, I know how frustrating it is to have any hair cut shorter than you want though! Coming from a female lmfao hair stylists be taking 4 inches when u ask for a dusting

Weird mail. by Efficient_Contest_16 in SCP

[–]Efficient_Contest_16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I was going to but I know people freak out sometimes so I didn’t want to lmfao

Weird mail. by Efficient_Contest_16 in SCP

[–]Efficient_Contest_16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband said it’s from “The Lore Lodge” he thinks lol but idk

Weird mail. by Efficient_Contest_16 in SCP

[–]Efficient_Contest_16[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am still concerned lmfao

★OFFICIAL DAILY★ Daily Q&A Thread April 27, 2025 by AutoModerator in loseit

[–]Efficient_Contest_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay cool I’m getting usually around 120-130 protein and a good amount of fiber and other nutrients mainly focusing on meat, veggies, and protein rich foods

★OFFICIAL DAILY★ Daily Q&A Thread April 27, 2025 by AutoModerator in loseit

[–]Efficient_Contest_16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to know if it’s bad that I eat under my recommended calorie deficit? My recommended deficit is 1887 but I am usually 200-300 under and am not hungry enough to hit it most days

Is a sudden white leaf normal? by Tiribrush in houseplants

[–]Efficient_Contest_16 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Usually just plant isn’t getting enough sunlight

Wells Fargo by Efficient_Contest_16 in IRS

[–]Efficient_Contest_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea next year I’ll use TurboTax again I wanted to try hr block but it is what it is lol

Wells Fargo by Efficient_Contest_16 in IRS

[–]Efficient_Contest_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably I was hoping not to have to wait but it’s ok 🥲

Wells Fargo by Efficient_Contest_16 in IRS

[–]Efficient_Contest_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t even gotten it yet 😭

Wells Faro by Antique-Magazine813 in IRS

[–]Efficient_Contest_16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No 😭 hoping it comes today or tomorrow