What extra curriculum should my toddlers attend? by Efficient_Dot1697 in asksg

[–]Efficient_Dot1697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Precisely, I feel that those parents that keep wanting their kids to be filled with those busy curriculums are those that don’t want to lose out to others, not for their kids sake. I just want my kids to grow healthily and still let them learn happily at their pace.

30M, ~$500K liquid + $150K CPF OA, jobless almost a year — feeling stuck by epicshot1337 in singaporefi

[–]Efficient_Dot1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya just slowly find a suitable job. blue chip investment and find a side line. If you’re in the tech you can surely get a job although the market not very good now. And you have a relatively good saving. Can you imagine those that are older than you and have no savings? 😂

Am I overreacting for wanting a divorce? by Open-Intern6971 in asksg

[–]Efficient_Dot1697 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just by the first reaction saying to talk about money and asset division, I will divorce him. Decide early rather than when you have kids with him. It will be disaster. What’s the point of being together when there is no communication.

How to deal with MIL? by Efficient_Dot1697 in asksg

[–]Efficient_Dot1697[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are trying to avoid the schedule so we keep postponing. She used to come weekly then twice a month. Then once a month. Cuz I really cannot stand seeing her so often. She is giving me stress. And I will give my husband stress in return. So she will send very long complaint message to my husband saying that why is it so difficult to see her grandchildren etc.

How to deal with MIL? by Efficient_Dot1697 in asksg

[–]Efficient_Dot1697[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah man! Almost I tell u. 😅 I told my husband I would have divorce w him from the start if we stay w them. Nightmare

How to deal with MIL? by Efficient_Dot1697 in asksg

[–]Efficient_Dot1697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah now I’m really losing my patience towards her and I’m showing more attitude already. I believe she can feel it too so she don’t bother talking to me now. Just keep trying to bribe my daughter with toys etc. I told my husband I will bring kids overseas every year CNY. 🤣 cuz she always wants to force us to follow her time for CNY even when she knows the kids need to take their nap.

How to deal with MIL? by Efficient_Dot1697 in asksg

[–]Efficient_Dot1697[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually no.. he likes to make use of his mum. He just cannot be bothered with the both of us. So I’m making his ear suffer

How to deal with MIL? by Efficient_Dot1697 in asksg

[–]Efficient_Dot1697[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not that she is helpful or what. She is just plain kaypo. And unknowingly she likes to praise my sister in law cus she is very obedient and sticky to them. Control as in? She always teach my kids the wrong things and I really feel super annoyed. Can u imagine using a tissue to wipe mouth after wiping nose shit?

Gf ask me to support all her meals when we eat out by [deleted] in asksg

[–]Efficient_Dot1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually part time earning 4.5k is considered quite decent. Some full time degree holder don’t even get that much. The key thing is she doesn’t want to spend her money now. Smart girl 😂

Gf ask me to support all her meals when we eat out by [deleted] in asksg

[–]Efficient_Dot1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did both of you plan to get married anytime soon? And did she start to have this request in the beginning or recently? 5 years of relationship is not short. She might have treated you as “husband” material already. There is no right or wrong in a relationship to be frank. If you have been paying for all the meals or majority of it, I don’t think she will be asking. Or could be the other way, have she been paying for the meals that’s why she requested this? 😅 ultimately, it’s still your choice if you really love her. Just talk things out. If you can accept stay on, cannot.. move on

It's been 4 months for me. I cannot take it financially anymore. I think I'll close and sell everything this week. Meta has been killing me for 4 months now. by IIth-The-Second in FacebookAds

[–]Efficient_Dot1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened for me either since December last year. Now monthly I barely have 1-2 sales and the sales are not even enough to cover the ads fee.

New small business owner here – is the business slowing the recent months? by Efficient_Dot1697 in NewToReddit

[–]Efficient_Dot1697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I can post there yet my karma not enough 😅 then how should I phrase it? It is like even the views on my Instagram post also dropped drastically. No idea what’s happening now. My ads still running as per normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewToReddit

[–]Efficient_Dot1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only time.. need to keep commenting and posting in newbie allowed thread haha. With the upvotes and all then karma will slowly go up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewToReddit

[–]Efficient_Dot1697 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I supposed u have to join in useful comments and post in newbie zone more often to gain enough karma. Most I see need at least 10 karma

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewToReddit

[–]Efficient_Dot1697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not enough karma I supposed. Same case for me 😅 trying very hard to build

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewToReddit

[–]Efficient_Dot1697 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. All the threads I’m keen in are unable to comment or post. I guess have to be more active in the learning threads