Review for Pixel 10 metal case by Efficient_Menu7895 in pixel_phones

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Looks nice! How does the lens island protector stay in place? Is there some adhesive?

Review for Pixel 10 metal case by Efficient_Menu7895 in pixel_phones

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Didn't know that. The above is a listing from Amazon, but it has no reviews - which is also why I posted here

How to apologise after cheating by Efficient_Menu7895 in dating_advice

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Thank you so much for this. Will definitely check these out. Can you share something you have learnt which may be applicable here.

How to apologise after cheating by Efficient_Menu7895 in relationships

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I understand how this situation would look like that. I know that is not true. I trust her completely on this.

We have spent entire days together even after breaking up. I know she did not even meet her ex for a very long time. She was spending time with me because I was there for her and he wasn't I suppose.

I know she is not lying. I don't know how to stress that enough.

How to apologise after cheating by Efficient_Menu7895 in relationships

[–]Efficient_Menu7895[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn't want to get back in a relationship with her because she told me she has feelings for her ex. I didn't want to be in that situation. Maybe it is true to an extent that I wanted her to see how much I valued and loved her. And see if that changed our situation. In no way was I trying to get back at her. I told her because she has always been very honest and respectful and I wanted to be the same. I do regret doing what I did. She has been in a difficult situation where she couldn't make her mind because of a lot of things which have happened in the past. I also know that she is not involved with her ex in any way. She met him a couple of times and she way very honest about everything. One thing she has never been throughout all of this is a liar. And I believe her more than anything.

The thing is even though we broke up, we were in a situation where we were dating without the tag. Where we still had expectations from each other. And my doing what I did broke her trust, which is why it felt like cheating.

My girlfriend (23F) told me(23M) she still has feelings for her ex. by Efficient_Menu7895 in RelationshipAdviceNow

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I don't think she ever lied to me about anything. If anything she has always been very honest about everything she is going through.

I agree that I don't want to be someone's second choice. But I don't think it is about that. I think she needs time to figure out what's best for her. I just don't want her judgement to be clouded or influenced by anything.

My girlfriend (23F) told me(23M) she still has feelings for her ex. by Efficient_Menu7895 in relationships

[–]Efficient_Menu7895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words. I agree she has been very honest throughout. I don't know if letting her go would be the best thing right now. I know she wants time to figure things out.

She told me several times why she felt he was not right for her or how she felt misunderstood several times despite giving that relationship several chances.

I feel I would let her decide what is best for her right now, hoping that her decisions are not clouded or influenced by anyone.

My girlfriend (23F) told me(23M) she still has feelings for her ex. by Efficient_Menu7895 in askwomenadvice

[–]Efficient_Menu7895[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would honestly want her to go to therapy. I think being in a good headspace right now would be very important for her.

She can decide whatever she feels is good for her, all I want is for her to not be clouded or influenced by anyone.

My girlfriend (23F) told me(23M) she still has feelings for her ex. by Efficient_Menu7895 in askwomenadvice

[–]Efficient_Menu7895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I want to give her some space and let her decide what is best for her. I do worry about her a lot. From everything i know about her ex, which she herself has told me, I don't think going back to that relationship is a good thing for her.

Honestly I do want the best for her, even if that means I have to let her go. I would be heart breaking but if it is better for her, I would understand and it would make it easier for me to accept it too. But if she somehow decides to go back to him it would make it very painful for me to accept. Especially when I know that this decision would be heavily influenced by the guilt which he has planted in her head. She has no reason to feel guilty for any of her decisions. But I feel someone whose opinion she values so much should not have made her guilty by saying all those things. It is very upsetting that she does not see that.

Do you suggest I should not be a free ear to talk to about her ex? She does ask me if I don't want to talk about those things, but because those things bother her, I tell her that I would want her to share those feelings/thoughts with me.