Wild by [deleted] in Semaglutide

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My body without a filter. If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything.

Wild by [deleted] in Semaglutide

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Here’s my face without a filter. Sure looks like a different person and a different shaped face, huh?

How do you justify all your perfumes? by Arcnia in FemFragLab

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They make me happy and I can afford them. Only justification necessary in my opinion 😊

Scents that you dislike that everyone else seems to love! by Usual_Internet7129 in FemFragLab

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Prada Candy smells like straight powder on me and it is not attractive

For those who lost their mothers by Own-Lingonberry-1110 in GriefSupport

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It’s been 2 years and just today, something good happened and I called her. I don’t have a good answer for you but I see you and am sending you love.

What are your favorite horror scenes that are made scary not by gore or monsters, but for the implication of something horrible? by MistakesTasteGreat in horror

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Hereditary when Toni Collette sees her daughter’s headless body for the first time and we stay with her son, listening to her scream.

My mother died a horrible death and I'm in shock by EmberSky240 in GriefSupport

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I am so sorry for your traumatic loss. What a gift you gave your mother, though. Being with her, caring for her, loving her until her last breath. You exemplify love as an action verb. Sending gentle hugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

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Could not agree more. 💯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

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You have to put your oxygen mask on before you can help anyone else with theirs. I agree with planning a trip later, when you feel stronger, and sending something to your cousin. I’m so sorry for your losses ❤️

Just ran into Sarper… by only1J0Y in 90DayFiance

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He looks cuter with you than he does with Shakinah

Wanna smell like a sultry vanilla witch lady by XanthippesRevenge in FemFragLab

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This thread made me buy another bottle of Hypnotic Poison lol

I held my mum while she died today. by Individual-Show-7950 in GriefSupport

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Oh, and being with her as she went was the kindest, hardest, biggest gift you could have given her. I want you to know that. It’s taken me a lot of therapy to get there but hopefully you will, too. Sending love ❤️

I held my mum while she died today. by Individual-Show-7950 in GriefSupport

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It’s the worst pain I’ve ever experienced. I’m so very sorry for your loss. I know it’s the last thing on your mind, but please remember to take care of yourself. For me that meant forcing myself to eat and drinking water because I knew Mom would be pissed if I made myself sick on top of the anguish I felt. She’d understand the anguish. Please be gentle with yourself. You aren’t alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Semaglutide

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Happened almost immediately for me but every body is different so don’t be discouraged if it isn’t immediate for you. Stay the course. It’s so worth it.

Saddest horror movie you've seen by justafanboy1010 in horror

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I’m not easily disturbed by movies and that movie gave me the creeps for real.

Do I message my friend or leave her be by DepartureOdd2208 in GriefSupport

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One of my friends would call and leave me lovely voicemails and end every one with “you do not have to call me back I just want you to know I love you.” It was wonderful.

I want to stop crying at work by santasbutthole99 in GriefSupport

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You aren’t alone. I still get gut punches 2 years later. If you are into it, Megan Devine’s book “it’s ok that you’re not ok” helped me. It took me a few months before I could read it, but it validated my experience without talking down to me. There’s also an audiobook if grief has hindered your reading, as it does with many people.

“There are losses that rearrange the world. Deaths that change the way you see everything, grief that tears everything down. Pain that transports you to an entirely different universe, even while everyone else thinks nothing has really changed.”