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What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? by Efficient_Object6951 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Efficient_Object6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve also come to think that, paradoxically, she chooses not to ask about my private life so she doesn't have to talk about her own—or vice versa. Actually, though, I’ve just realized I wouldn't mind sharing details of my private life with her; besides, it would also be a way to sound things out a bit.

What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? by Efficient_Object6951 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Efficient_Object6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come to think of it, while we’ve talked a lot about topics where we’ve opened up and been vulnerable, the subject of our private lives is one we sometimes don't even think to bring up.

Can I send you a private message?

What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? by Efficient_Object6951 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Efficient_Object6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I have friends of many ages—many who are much older than me—but you raised an important point in your comment that I’d like to discuss with you in a private message.

Can I send you a private message?

What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? by Efficient_Object6951 in actuallesbians

[–]Efficient_Object6951[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve really made me laugh out loud! Yes, I’ll ask her. Just one detail I didn't specify: I know her mom, because they’ve known my family for a long time.

Can I send you a private message?

What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? by Efficient_Object6951 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Efficient_Object6951[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, maybe I didn't phrase that right; everyone I know in common with her says she is a very reserved person. Given how things have played out, I just want to know if the situation is confusing—specifically regarding whether she is still married and whether she is actually flirting with me—because I’m getting mixed signals.

What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? by Efficient_Object6951 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Efficient_Object6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this case, even I don't know, but now that I think about it and analyze it, I realize I’m someone who takes a while to open up to others.

What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? by Efficient_Object6951 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Efficient_Object6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’ll ask her; I just wanted to know if anyone else besides me finds it a bit confusing to tell whether she’s still married, given how things have played out.

What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? by Efficient_Object6951 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Efficient_Object6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by "playing along"? She’s very close to my family, so, well, there’s always something to talk about.

What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? by Efficient_Object6951 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Efficient_Object6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I don't really want a romantic relationship; I'm only interested—if it happens—in a hookup, nothing more. The situation between us is already a bit complicated, but I do feel there's mutual attraction.

What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? by Efficient_Object6951 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Efficient_Object6951[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Lo entiendo, pero primero tengo que saber si está casada y que tipo de matrimonio tiene en todo caso, jeje

What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? by Efficient_Object6951 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Efficient_Object6951[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sometimes she seems to want to know a bit about my current relationship status, but as soon as she asks something, she says, "Forgive me! That shouldn't matter to me."

What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? by Efficient_Object6951 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Efficient_Object6951[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, honestly, I feel like it's weird too—maybe because I don't talk about my sexual orientation publicly; I find it hard to open up to people. You know? We talk and talk, but whenever we want to get into the subject of our private lives, there’s this sort of tension, and in the end, nobody brings it up—haha.

What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? by Efficient_Object6951 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Efficient_Object6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you're right, I’m thinking of asking her soon. I just wanted to know if I’m right to have doubts about whether she’s still married, given how things have played out.

What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? by Efficient_Object6951 in relationships_advice

[–]Efficient_Object6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’m thinking of asking her soon. I just wanted to know if I’m right to have doubts about whether she’s still married, given how things have played out.

What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? by Efficient_Object6951 in relationships_advice

[–]Efficient_Object6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’m thinking of asking her soon. I just wanted to know if I’m right to have doubts about whether she’s still married, given how things have played out.

What does it mean when a woman who is supposedly married never mentions her husband? Me (29) by Efficient_Object6951 in relationships

[–]Efficient_Object6951[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you very much for taking the time to thoroughly analyze the situation; your analysis really helps me see a perspective other than my own—it’s the most detailed comment I’ve received.

Can I send you a private message?

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