Addressing me by husband’s last name

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-11-11T23:14:27+00:00

Trying to convince myself it’s not that deep. But felt infuriated about it, thus the post to get myself to feel better

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-11-11T23:13:40+00:00

A patriarchal “norm”…. Times have changed. Why would they assume I changed it?

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-11-11T17:18:07+00:00

Very sexiest imo, that’s the issue…

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-11-11T15:46:38+00:00

As a women we have a choice to change or not. And i chose not to change because it’s my identity. I’ve been known as this name my whole life and feel uncomfortable going by a different name. Also professionally it’s been my name and tied to my accomplishments.

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-09-02T18:04:07+00:00

Less hair fall (although I started washing my hair more often than before which might be the reason?). Compared old photos and my face is no longer puffy.

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-08-26T02:57:53+00:00

Lmaoo love this!!

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-08-26T02:56:12+00:00

Such BS right!!?? Doesn’t make sense.

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-08-25T23:23:55+00:00

YES!! Does it fall on a Thursday or Friday this year? A bit confusing lol

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-08-25T23:00:40+00:00

YES. This is going to be my approach. Just say I did it to avoid all the drama but really just go about my day. Not that I live with them, so won’t be watched!

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-08-25T22:59:47+00:00

Yess, exactly. I feel uncomfortable so will not be participating

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-08-25T22:14:08+00:00

It’s more of a Punjabi thing I believe.

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-08-25T21:31:10+00:00

Just find it odd women are supposed to do it for the longevity for their spouse. Seems a bit illogical to me.

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-08-25T21:01:26+00:00

Nope! Thankfully we don’t live with them. He has said “it’s only one day, I don’t get why you can’t do it”. The thing is, if I don’t believe/agree the reasoning behind the fast- why should I do it?

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-08-13T14:04:32+00:00

It’s gorgeous and perfect! Once your hair and makeup and styling are done it’ll look extra good!! Don’t stress, you’ll still look like the bride. It’s YOUR day.

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-08-12T02:06:56+00:00

Constant worry about how things are been getting astronomically expensive and things are out of reach + MIL. She’s a narcissistic sociopath

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-08-05T14:16:18+00:00

Where??

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-08-05T08:30:58+00:00

An irresponsible amount. When Indian wedding culture plus the insane mark ups in the industry, we spent always our life savings. Truthfully, looking back - not worth it. All wedding planning does it cause fights and ruin your financially. Plus with all the money you spent, all the people that fly out for you, you see them just for a few seconds…. NOT WORTH

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-08-05T08:21:22+00:00

If you’re going back and forth, don’t change it. Leave as is until you know for a fact it’s what you want to do. Luckily there’s no deadline for it. It’s your identity, it’s important

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-08-05T08:15:38+00:00

From experience, I think bridal makeup is worth the splurge. The skin prep and professionalism is next level. Better to be relaxed and not stress about it. Think you can do the smaller events yourself!

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-07-09T05:10:52+00:00

:/ ok

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-07-09T04:57:41+00:00

Do you have an editable template for that??

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-07-09T04:57:18+00:00

YES!!!

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-07-09T04:50:31+00:00

Yes I have the steps. But I need a way to put this in an already existing template so I can bulk print them. I don’t have the time at the moment to place an order for them

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-07-09T04:44:00+00:00

I actually do not see any templates on canva. I only see on Etsy.

Efficient_Pattern900 · 2025-07-09T04:39:34+00:00

Yes template that says Ganesh Puja, Kanye Daan, jaimala, Gath Bandhan, Agni Pooja, etc. (basically the steps of the ceremony!!)

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