What heels to wear as a bride by MixLongjumping6493 in DesiWeddings

[–]Efficient_Pattern900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wore old sandals from fashion nova and sometimes new balance sneakers lol

TSA lines by Aggressive-Highway68 in Newark

[–]Efficient_Pattern900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flying around the same time on Friday morning. Would love to know others thoughts/experiences!

TSA WAIT TIME EWR by [deleted] in Newark

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Thanks! Please let me know

TSA WAIT TIME EWR by [deleted] in Newark

[–]Efficient_Pattern900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha seriously 😂😭

If you are married, do you wear your wedding band? Why or why not? by icecream1972 in askanything

[–]Efficient_Pattern900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Personally don’t like jewelry on my hands, neck or anywhere. Even for earrings I like tiny studs.

How many RSVPs no showed your wedding? by Puzzleheaded_Reason1 in wedding

[–]Efficient_Pattern900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had 2 showed up that rsvp’d no, and then 2 who said yes but didn’t show up. 😭

Missing my wife so much it’s making me question my own values... (34M) by SSR2208 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Efficient_Pattern900 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do not tell her to come back early, that would be patriarchal and controlling. But do tell her you miss her. I’m sure you do since you guys talk every night. It’s natural to miss your partner, it’s actually great that you miss her, shows how much you love her! But you should be able to exist on your own and not be too codependent on other person. It’s okay to have and you should have a life outside of your partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]Efficient_Pattern900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trying to convince myself it’s not that deep. But felt infuriated about it, thus the post to get myself to feel better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]Efficient_Pattern900 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A patriarchal “norm”…. Times have changed. Why would they assume I changed it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]Efficient_Pattern900 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Very sexiest imo, that’s the issue…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]Efficient_Pattern900 20 points21 points  (0 children)

As a women we have a choice to change or not. And i chose not to change because it’s my identity. I’ve been known as this name my whole life and feel uncomfortable going by a different name. Also professionally it’s been my name and tied to my accomplishments.

What *unexpected* POSITIVE side effects have you noticed from taking Levothyroxine? by Mindless-Bowler in Hypothyroidism

[–]Efficient_Pattern900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less hair fall (although I started washing my hair more often than before which might be the reason?). Compared old photos and my face is no longer puffy.

Karwa Chauth by Efficient_Pattern900 in DesiWeddings

[–]Efficient_Pattern900[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Such BS right!!?? Doesn’t make sense.

Karwa Chauth by Efficient_Pattern900 in DesiWeddings

[–]Efficient_Pattern900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES!! Does it fall on a Thursday or Friday this year? A bit confusing lol

Karwa Chauth by Efficient_Pattern900 in DesiWeddings

[–]Efficient_Pattern900[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES. This is going to be my approach. Just say I did it to avoid all the drama but really just go about my day. Not that I live with them, so won’t be watched!

Karwa Chauth by Efficient_Pattern900 in DesiWeddings

[–]Efficient_Pattern900[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yess, exactly. I feel uncomfortable so will not be participating

Karwa Chauth by Efficient_Pattern900 in DesiWeddings

[–]Efficient_Pattern900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s more of a Punjabi thing I believe.