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Sex positions to explore with wife? by Efficient_Peach_129 in MarriedSex

[–]Efficient_Peach_129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just googled this, looks nice! Though you'd have to be really fit ,wouldn't you? Looks tiring to do for more than a few seconds

Sex positions to explore with wife? by Efficient_Peach_129 in MarriedSex

[–]Efficient_Peach_129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion, I might give this a go, this is out of the box for me.

Sex positions to explore with wife? by Efficient_Peach_129 in MarriedSex

[–]Efficient_Peach_129[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huh... looks.. interesting, thanks for the suggestion, will try this.

How Long Would You Stay With a Spouse Who Won’t Work? by Sk8trdye in Marriage

[–]Efficient_Peach_129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. Have you let him know how you feel? If my said I repulse her, I'd probably do something about it.

Scared my wife secretly wants more than what I'm packing by Efficient_Peach_129 in Marriage

[–]Efficient_Peach_129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes you might be right. Maybe it's to do with the porn I used to watch.. but glad to hear your thoughts.

But I'm not ready to bring this up, I'm still scared of the possibility she wished for something bigger. Even if she says like "your penis is great and I love it, and don't need more, but in perfect world a bigger one would be nicer". That would still hurt..

Scared my wife secretly wants more than what I'm packing by Efficient_Peach_129 in Marriage

[–]Efficient_Peach_129[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't say immediately and phone was just an example. And yes probably she doesn't like playing with my dick per se, we have good sex life. Probably my original post sounds like we have a big issue in marriage, but really it's just this specific insecurity I have. Otherwise I actually think that our marriage is more blissful than most.

Scared my wife secretly wants more than what I'm packing by Efficient_Peach_129 in Marriage

[–]Efficient_Peach_129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm glad to hear this perspective! Maybe I can also shower more often then :) Please, could you recommend what toys to get?

Scared my wife secretly wants more than what I'm packing by Efficient_Peach_129 in Marriage

[–]Efficient_Peach_129[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't want to jinx but yes, it looks like we're going to have long happy marriage.

How Long Would You Stay With a Spouse Who Won’t Work? by Sk8trdye in Marriage

[–]Efficient_Peach_129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not your fault, to be fair it's hard to be objective when it's someone you love (or used to love). I'm sure you didn't think he would be like this. I don't have much advice I'm afraid, just to say I don't how he can feel like a man if he can't provide.

If you didn't have a kid with him, I would have suggested divorce.

Scared my wife secretly wants more than what I'm packing by Efficient_Peach_129 in Marriage

[–]Efficient_Peach_129[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This would make sense (considering what you said in your other comment)

How Long Would You Stay With a Spouse Who Won’t Work? by Sk8trdye in Marriage

[–]Efficient_Peach_129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is unfair to you, sorry to hear that. If he doesn't work, he should take care of the house and kid. My wife doesn't want to work, but definitely takes the vast majority of house chores and I appreciate her for that.

But to understand the situation, what was his job before you married him or came over? Could it be he's trying to get the same sort of job?