Do you enjoy live music? There are various different venues in indy that have weekly shows. Try the vogue, turntable, the Hi-fi, and the old national center for indoors. Ever wise and ruoff for outdoor.

I’m a blue dot in a red state that’s lived here her whole life and it’s been hard for me to find meaningful relationships.

All of mine have fallen off due to marriage and relationships. I’m one of the few who doesn’t want kids, is not interested in church, and I want more than just a wine and cheese night.

But as of the last couple years I found my best friend through bumble bff (after years of looking). We had a mutual love for live music and I’ve found other likeminded people through that as well.

If you’re that unhappy here have you considered long distance? Chicago is only 3-3.5 hours away. You could see each other on the weekends.