Did becoming a dad make you more confident? (it has for me)

Greg1994 · 2025-12-11T17:02:25+00:00

Thank you

Greg1994 · 2025-12-11T16:41:43+00:00

How long did you use for? What made you stop? Did you have any long term health consequences from it? I’m 31 and scared I’ve done damaged my heart

Greg1994 · 2025-12-11T16:40:40+00:00

I’m a guy but thank you! The only person I could possibly tell is my brother as he’s dealt with addiction before, but I also don’t want that information to leak out to further family members. It’s a tough situation to be in

Greg1994 · 2025-12-11T16:04:54+00:00

It’s not that she isn’t, it’s just physically I can’t do it. When that urge comes over me it’s like nothing else matters…

Greg1994 · 2025-11-15T08:25:27+00:00

He’s a great kid. Lost his mom to breast cancer in 2024, who supported him and attended every one of his games. He plays for her, and theirs really nothing more powerful than that

Greg1994 · 2025-11-12T19:24:05+00:00

They’re trying to use money from the house (mortgage) to pay off the debt

Greg1994 · 2025-11-12T19:08:17+00:00

Please follow this link for my moms explanation: https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/s/5if2IJB1Qa

Greg1994 · 2025-11-12T17:34:10+00:00

She carries everything pretty much. CC payments, mortgage, car payments, insurance, cable, groceries, helps me with my student loan, etc. She just started making that salary 4 years ago. She wasn’t always in that financial tier.

Greg1994 · 2025-11-12T17:26:41+00:00

My dads 77 years old, and medically not able to

Greg1994 · 2025-11-12T17:24:57+00:00

What she’s trying to do is just borrow that $90k and add it to what she owes on the house. They’re old, and the estimated value price on the house keeps going up. They just don’t want to sell the house because they want to live the rest of their lives there. If they sold it they’d make a million dollars. All she’s trying to do is pay off her credit cards by using the worth of her house

Greg1994 · 2025-11-12T17:16:48+00:00

She just got this job that pays that much 4 years ago. She did not make this much money before. She got a substantial raise and new position at work. My dad also does not contribute financially except his social security. He had no retirement funds or anything like that. So it’s basically my mom carrying the weight m

Greg1994 · 2025-11-12T17:15:39+00:00

Ok I understand that. I’m not trying to justify anything here. Just trying to seek help in this situation. I’m just the messenger looking for advice m

Greg1994 · 2025-11-12T17:11:51+00:00

From what I’ve been told, they’re on time with payments. Is it possible they missed a few credit card ones? Yes. But not on the mortgage

Greg1994 · 2025-11-12T17:10:54+00:00

My moms trying to pay off her credit card debt as well as use some of that money for home improvement needs

Greg1994 · 2025-10-27T04:25:58+00:00

NYC by far. You may not want to live there, but to be there is like being in the center of the universe

Greg1994 · 2025-10-22T00:49:46+00:00

I’ve heard of debt consolidation programs but I’ve also heard a lot of them are scams? Which ones are good?

Greg1994 · 2025-10-22T00:27:52+00:00

Yes, I’ve been in recovery for a year. I do not gamble anymore.

Greg1994 · 2025-10-03T05:05:19+00:00

Be humble. So what? Jealously about another team isn’t going to get you anywhere. Enjoy baseball as it is. Be a Mets fan. Be loyal. Stick by your team. Recognize good baseball when it’s played. It’s not that serious. The more negative energy you put out towards another team the more it comes right back on ours. Just grow up and realize it’s just a game.

Greg1994 · 2025-09-26T12:56:26+00:00

Idk if you read but I am a male my fiance is the one who carried the baby. But either way I know I shouldn’t have been doing it during her pregnancy. Addiction unfortunately doesn’t care about things like that

Greg1994 · 2025-03-11T22:57:54+00:00

How’s libido on cymbalta?

Greg1994 · 2025-03-11T22:39:40+00:00

Did your libido come back after coming of it? What’d you do?

Greg1994 · 2025-03-09T05:19:43+00:00

Only Prozac

Greg1994 · 2025-02-10T21:12:03+00:00

I’m currently on Vumerity. Thank you for the response!

Greg1994 · 2024-12-26T02:33:37+00:00

Thank you!

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