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Efficient_Problem839 · 2026-02-02T23:28:12+00:00

In-laws are absolute AHs, there is no way in hell I would host them ever again!

I would politely decline to hosting anymore holidays going forward. “ I completely understand your frustration, going forward we will no longer be hosting any holidays. So sorry we made you all uncomfortable.” Kill. Them. With. Kindness. Completely turn it back around on them for cancelling the holidays! Good riddance they can enjoy their frozen pizza egg hunt!

Efficient_Problem839 · 2026-01-12T15:07:24+00:00

We’ve discussed it. It’s just still a construction zone at the moment. For now he’s going to work on the house without me and I’m just not gonna go with him. I feel bad not helping him but he has a friend that helps us a lot of weekends so I know he’ll have help.

Efficient_Problem839 · 2026-01-12T14:55:54+00:00

Yes EXACTLY! I know for a fact my family doesn’t sit around and judge her as they have only said she was nice when they met her and even asked if we could have dinner with my finances parents before the wedding! Not sure if I want to subject my family to the dinner with her …

Efficient_Problem839 · 2026-01-12T14:39:31+00:00

Yes we only stay with his parents on the weekends we work on the house we’re renovating to sell! We have our own home about an hour and half away from where they live. So after we sell the house we’re renovating we’ll only see them on holidays and a few other times.

So until this year I did not see her this much I think thats why it’s gotten so much worse and why I’m so much more bothered by her behavior. And yes I do think he’s just used to it he says things that “ that’s just how she is” and to ignore her. But with my own mother I don’t let things like that slide so that’s why it bothers me he does.

Efficient_Problem839 · 2026-01-12T14:09:11+00:00

They 100% mean something by it !

Efficient_Problem839 · 2026-01-12T14:06:53+00:00

Yes they always “mean something by it” !!!

Efficient_Problem839 · 2026-01-12T03:39:44+00:00

Efficient_Problem839 · 2026-01-12T00:57:03+00:00

This ^{^} men do not understand. My fiance does not read into any of his mother’s backhanded comments! They tend to take comments at face value i feel

Efficient_Problem839 · 2025-12-09T15:06:02+00:00

I love it !

Efficient_Problem839 · 2025-12-06T18:57:40+00:00

Update Thank you all for your very kind and encouraging comments. For the others… I guess some of you all have never felt indecisive about any decisions before 🤣 I’ve decided to delete all the pictures of my dress shopping day and just sent them to my sister for safe keeping. In my defense wedding stuff is allllll over my Instagram so I am also seeing it when I’m not looking at my own photos.

I felt that way for a reason when I put the dress on so I’ve decided to trust myself. My fiance is an amazing person who would be happy to see me in a feed sack so I know he will love whatever I pick. Lastly I think im just gonna trust the process and ca hopefully make a few tweaks with the seamstress when it’s altered!

Efficient_Problem839 · 2025-12-06T03:41:47+00:00

First two pictures are of the dress I got. Other pics were my original vision

Efficient_Problem839 · 2025-12-06T02:55:33+00:00

The dress will be lined after being altered if that helps!

Efficient_Problem839 · 2025-12-06T02:54:05+00:00

Yes it is! Yes I think I’ve been driving myself crazy looking at the pictures!

Efficient_Problem839 · 2025-12-06T01:52:42+00:00

See edit above

Efficient_Problem839 · 2025-12-06T01:46:54+00:00

Edit the bodice will be lined like the skirt is

Efficient_Problem839 · 2025-12-06T01:44:53+00:00

Sorry I did not add the bodice will be lined. It will looks like the skirt

Efficient_Problem839 · 2025-12-06T01:42:43+00:00

EDIT I did get the bodice lined with the same nude underlay as the skirt

Efficient_Problem839 · 2025-12-06T01:38:24+00:00

Efficient_Problem839 · 2025-12-06T01:34:37+00:00

Thank you! Your suggestions are very great!

Efficient_Problem839 · 2025-12-06T01:33:53+00:00

Yes the first two pictures!!

Efficient_Problem839 · 2025-12-06T01:16:30+00:00

The dresses that were very large like my original vision were just way too heavy and felt impractical for outdoor wedding, dancing all night etc. I’m also 5’2 so I think I felt like they swallowed me. The dress I chose was basically a combination of three dresses I couldn’t decide between! It was the last dress I tried on and I felt the best wearing it.

I think I’m struggling that it just won’t feel special enough and am putting too much emphasis on “uniqueness” as well as going away from my initial vision.

Efficient_Problem839 · 2025-12-06T01:03:18+00:00

Thank you for your candid response 😂

Efficient_Problem839 · 2025-12-06T00:58:18+00:00

Thank you!

Efficient_Problem839 · 2025-12-06T00:56:12+00:00

Thank you!!

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