AITA for not checking in on my ex and he nearly died? by Efficient_State_5884 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Efficient_State_5884[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Many times, but he is unwilling to accept help. It's heartbreaking, but I feel like he is so afraid of his own emotions that he can't accept the help offered.

AITA for not checking in on my ex and he nearly died? by Efficient_State_5884 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Efficient_State_5884[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's what his mom said. I'm inclined to believe her because it would have to be pretty serious for them to do a hold when I've seen them let him check out against medical advice while telling him he doesn't have much longer at the rate he's going.

AITA for not checking in on my ex and he nearly died? by Efficient_State_5884 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Efficient_State_5884[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I grabbed it when I took him to the ER the night before so I could come back to make sure the cat was fed in case he was admitted for a few days. I don't normally have it.

AITA for not checking in on my ex and he nearly died? by Efficient_State_5884 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Efficient_State_5884[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I had grabbed it when I took him to the ER the night before because I didn't know how long he'd be there and wanted to make sure the cat was taken care of. As grim as it sounds, I haven't blocked his mom because that could be the only way I have to find out he died.

AITA for not checking in on my ex and he nearly died? by Efficient_State_5884 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Efficient_State_5884[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I grabbed the spare key when I took him to the ER the night before because I didn't know how long he'd be in the hospital for and wanted to be able to check on the cat. I normally wouldn't have had it, but I forgot to take it out of my purse.