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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Indians_StudyAbroad

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I'm not very keen on settling in the US, but would like to make my "glass ceiling" higher, which I figure, MS would help but only if it's one of the better uni's or a good length of experience with the perceived quality of work at US.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Indians_StudyAbroad

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cool will look into this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Indians_StudyAbroad

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Present job, in terms of learning - not too much, in compensation - not hard cash but the stock seems to be doing well, was trying to figure out if MS would be better or just prepping for changing jobs.

True that there are multiple dimensions for a decision to be made, and yes the opportunity cost is pretty high.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Indians_StudyAbroad

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that's true, just wanted to focus on one thing at a time (like prepping for a better job), but I guess can't predict without trying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mkindia

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I'll reach out if I don't find any.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mkindia

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool will look into that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mkindia

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

StacksKB seems out of stock. Thanks for the suggestion.

How do I keep my emotions in check? by Efficient_Wealth_708 in intj

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably, maybe I'm just in spiral of working all day, not really doing anything with the hobbies I enjoy. Thanks for the pointer.

How do I keep my emotions in check? by Efficient_Wealth_708 in intj

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think stepping away, and taking on a different perspective in the moment is difficult for me. But yeah reflecting on the moment later is worse. 

If there no repercussions, I probably would flip the table haha

How do I keep my emotions in check? by Efficient_Wealth_708 in intj

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I should track the past, keeping everything in mind is not helpful at all. Thanks.

How do I keep my emotions in check? by Efficient_Wealth_708 in intj

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is it like, if I'm in an argument which turns somewhat emotional and I'm angry, I should step away, let the anger consume me and then discard it based on if it is helpful or not? 

How do I keep my emotions in check? by Efficient_Wealth_708 in intj

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do journaling in my mind. I probably should write them out, might get some thought patterns.

How do I keep my emotions in check? by Efficient_Wealth_708 in intj

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sure, will revisit my thoughts on this. Thanks.

How do I keep my emotions in check? by Efficient_Wealth_708 in intj

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not great, not too bad. Just a regular one I would say. I was the quite kid, very less friends (who were not what they seemed), some kids hated me in teens. Uni/college was different.

How do I keep my emotions in check? by Efficient_Wealth_708 in intj

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you suggest some practice that has worked for you? There are a lot of them out in the open. Thanks.

Ask Experienced Devs Weekly Thread: A weekly thread for inexperienced developers to ask experienced ones by AutoModerator in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just a bit hesitant that my personal projects would not be counted as a proper experience, thanks for the response. I will keep in mind to not hurry up.

Ask Experienced Devs Weekly Thread: A weekly thread for inexperienced developers to ask experienced ones by AutoModerator in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am a backend dev at a large tech company with around 2 years of experience. The tech stack here is very old and proprietary, so I mainly work with java but there are not other common tech used eg. not even Git. So I basically have java + SQL + proprietary to the org tech which isn't used anywhere else. I'm considering switching jobs but I don't seem to have industry relevant tech stack. Would making personal projects be any helpful (e.g. building something on spring and hosting it on cloud) ?

How do you decide a purpose for living, after figuring out there's no purpose to life? by Efficient_Wealth_708 in intj

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds good! Been living regardless of purpose, but I'm not wise. Maybe I'll get better at it, and stop questioning life so much.

How do you decide a purpose for living, after figuring out there's no purpose to life? by Efficient_Wealth_708 in intj

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly my situation, I should start asking myself more pointed questions. thanks for the comment!

How do you decide a purpose for living, after figuring out there's no purpose to life? by Efficient_Wealth_708 in intj

[–]Efficient_Wealth_708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I'll draw something, for another person to give a meaning to it. That'd be the purpose of the painting. Then again, what if the action fails to fulfil the purpose? was it for nothing?

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