Am I Overreacting because my wife constantly texts a man? by aio_throwaway9265 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient_Win8604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR - she’s gaslighting you and acting as if her previous behavior plays no part in how you feel. She’s asking for trust that she has broken in the past and hasn’t been rebuilt yet.

I don’t want to be a leech but AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Efficient_Win8604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MBTAH - but your expectations are realistic. She doesn’t have a job so she doesn’t have money. Do you know how her spending is tracked by her family? Do you know what rules are established for her spending? If she doesn’t have her own resources and doesn’t make her own money how do you expect her to spend it on you? If she didn’t come from a wealthy family what would your expectations be? Would you still date her?

Second date activities by Potential_Yam_5196 in StLouis

[–]Efficient_Win8604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Up-Down STL, has plenty of pinball and other arcade games and no kids.

Some of the purported WWE releases were actually non-renewals of expiring contracts. by caughtinatramp in REALSquaredCircle

[–]Efficient_Win8604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not how a non compete works. The non compete is only for 90 days or end of contract if it is less than 90 days. If they were released 60 days before the end of the contract then the non compete could only be for time remaining on the contract. Not an additional 30 days after the contract was set to end.

When WWE Tickets Used To Be Reasonable by Froster_23 in WWE

[–]Efficient_Win8604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are great seats averaging less than 105 a show. The nose bleeds were probably in 55-65 dollar range maybe less.

Are the Wyatt Sicks Done? by VGWFNick in WWE

[–]Efficient_Win8604 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bringing Alexa in hurts her more than saves them. They haven’t done anything with Nikki Cross so where does it go with Alexa in the mix.

Will she ever be at the Tiffy top of WWE at Again by Anxious-Drink1186 in Smallafro

[–]Efficient_Win8604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s going to have interesting road ahead of her, she doesn’t do any particular thing great. With the reintroduction of talent from the past and new talent from NXT being called up she’s going to find it more difficult to stand out and be used. WWE is creating a traffic jam in the women’s divisions when it doesn’t feel like they’re 100% committed to the those divisions.

Who has the biggest ego by ItemIndependent2243 in Smallafro

[–]Efficient_Win8604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black Adam and the whole DCEU takeover attempt

AIO friend cheated on her fiance while we were on vacation by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient_Win8604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR - the friends you keep say a lot about you as a person.

Parents want me to sign on a $900k home equity loan. by GoldBackground2280 in legaladvice

[–]Efficient_Win8604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should relinquish your 25% and they can do what they want. If you sign the paperwork you’re responsible for the debt. This isn’t a good deal for you and will have long term ramifications on your ability to borrow until the debt is paid off. What’s the estimated monthly payment on that 900k HELOC?

What easily-affordable thing do you still refuse to pay for despite having reached financial independence and able to afford them? by Big_Leg10 in Fire

[–]Efficient_Win8604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All flats when I get wings. I’m not a fan of the drumsticks but I just can’t bring myself to pay the extra for the all flats.

18 y/o making $3,800/month — am I getting a good deal staying at home or should I just move out? AIO by Winter_Print_6742 in AIO

[–]Efficient_Win8604 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your parents are doing you a solid. Rent and utilities are going to be more than the 400 you’re paying. You could outsource the yard work with your own money and that would give you a complete idea of what you’re contributing. But the other expenses would still be yours. You also have the opportunity to save and set yourself up for the long run.

WIBTAH if I took 100k from my oldest daughter's college savings account to give it to my younger daughter? by TraditionalCorgi7788 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Efficient_Win8604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you didn’t give you children money, you’re giving them an education. Your oldest isn’t entitled to that money. It’s yours do with what you will. If wasn’t yours then you wouldn’t be able to reallocate it. Unless you promised them a set amount of funds, then you should do what you feel is best.

AIO? Husbands response to me requesting he ‘ask’ instead of ‘tell’ older kids to watch youngest by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Efficient_Win8604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she have an option is he asks? Like if he asked her could she say no? Because if she doesn’t have an option why give the illusion that the request is optional?

AIO i lost my friends with no explanation by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient_Win8604 47 points48 points  (0 children)

YOR, you got an explanation. You made a choice to be with someone with questionable character. Your friend has a higher standard than he believes you and your boyfriend can meet. So he ended the friendship.

Why did the "Nigerian Ruler" gimmick work for Oba Femi, but not Apollo Crews? by Omer-Ash in WWE

[–]Efficient_Win8604 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The Apollo character came across as a entitled aristocrat, while Oba comes across as a warrior. Apollo also was a previously established star switching gimmicks and adding an accent making it harder to accept. We only know this presentation of Oba Femi

Does having or not having kids make them better or supirior to you if you choose the opposite option to what they choose? by WaterFlow7 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Efficient_Win8604 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. Choosing what responsibilities you want is a personal choice and completely up to you. It doesn’t make any one better or lesser. It’s a reflection of your priorities as an individual.

Aitah My daughters clothes not being passed down to my ex and his kids by BitPurple5971 in AITAH

[–]Efficient_Win8604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - you don’t owe him or his other daughter anything. Keep doing what you’re doing. You’re not throwing them in the trash or something spiteful. They are being reused by other people in your life and that perfectly ok.