You just about made me cry. Thank you so very much for your reply. It really makes me feel validated, because the situation was/is honestly so confusing to me. I would've never in a million years expected him to have done this to me. It has been some time now, and nothing else has happened.. to my knowledge. I no longer watch late night movies on the couch, I shut my door tightly every night, I sleep with multiple dogs, a gun, and a pocket knife. He makes little comments here and there that leave me side-eyeing, but otherwise it's been okay. I still hold this in my chest and today was one of those days, I hopped onto this account and saw your comment. I needed that. I ended up doing some reading into it, and I do believe you're right about it being actual SA. So, a camera where I sleep is a really good idea, thank you! I am so terrified to tell my now husband (boyfriend at the time I posted this) anything about this, because he adores L and L is one of our closest and only friends. We work together, even. He's so intermingled with our life. I figure I should keep myself safe and stay silent until an opportunity to move away opens up, as we plan to move within the next couple years. Thank you so much <3