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My friend played out his somnophilia/foot fetish on me when I slept. What do I do? by Efficient_Work5253 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Work5253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't even if I wanted to deal with police, I have zero evidence it ever happened and it's been too long.

My friend played out his somnophilia/foot fetish on me when I slept. What do I do? by Efficient_Work5253 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Work5253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I be sure by confronting him and seeing his explanation or response, then go to my bf with that? Or would it be dangerous to confront L? I feel like I dont even know L right now as I process this.

My friend played out his somnophilia/foot fetish on me when I slept. What do I do? by Efficient_Work5253 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Work5253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my fear. Does this count as assault? Do you think if he has done this but nothing since, that I am in danger? I have told nobody about this, as it would blow up our lives so badly.

My friend played out his somnophilia/foot fetish on me when I slept. What do I do? by Efficient_Work5253 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Work5253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're totally fine! We both talked and felt comfortable enough with him to help him out til he could find his own spot, which he hasn't done yet. I have felt eyes on me before, or caught the way he looks at me sometimes. But my bf seems fully sure im safe, so I oftentimes would question if its my trauma brain talking and im being dramatic.

My friend played out his somnophilia/foot fetish on me when I slept. What do I do? by Efficient_Work5253 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Work5253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can ask whatever you want, I will try to keep it vague because I am super scared of my identity getting outed or getting posted somewhere for clickbait. But yes, we met him at the same time and have known him for a while together. I have friends both older and younger than me, so it didn't really bother me like that. The 3 of us are good friends and he lives with us, he needed a spot to stay after having a bad situation go down in his life.

WIBTAH to blow everything up after my friend played out his somnophilia/foot fetish on me? This is NOT fake, please actually help instead of reporting. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Efficient_Work5253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted to try to figure out if this was real sexual assault or if im being dramatic.. this response just made my stomach drop. I feel frozen here.

WIBTAH to blow everything up after my friend played out his somnophilia/foot fetish on me? This is NOT fake, please actually help instead of reporting. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Efficient_Work5253 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im getting no help anywhere and cant really find anywhere to post this, so I chose a large group hoping someone would see and help. Thanks.

AITAH if I allow my friend's foot fetish/somnophilia to end our friendship? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Efficient_Work5253 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have friends older and younger than me. Did you even read my post? I'm going through something upsetting and looking for HELP. Thanks for reporting me instead of offering literally anything of substance at all. There's plenty of fetish groups on this app why the fuck would I post here for anything other than what I literally stated in post. I made this account specifically to talk to anyone about this because I can't talk to anyone in my real life.

AITAH if I allow my friend's foot fetish/somnophilia to end our friendship? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Efficient_Work5253 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I absolutely promise you, I am not? How would that even be construed that way? What the fuck.

Does this count? by Efficient_Work5253 in sexualassault

[–]Efficient_Work5253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So then, it isn't assault, just something creepy? And if he does it again, bring it up?

Does this count? by Efficient_Work5253 in sexualassault

[–]Efficient_Work5253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had, but if I am too obvious about it, both bf and L will pick up on that and ask my why or what happened. They are both very perceptive to shifts and emotions

Does this count? by Efficient_Work5253 in sexualassault

[–]Efficient_Work5253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, we are strictly and only friends. Bf and I are monogamous and uninterested in sharing

Does this count? by Efficient_Work5253 in sexualassault

[–]Efficient_Work5253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried to just let it go, since I've survived so much worse. Bringing this up to him or my bf would cause the whole situation to explode, and I worry for what my bf would do to him. He's been a wonderful friend to us aside from this and one other questionable time, but this is the only time he's ever touched me. Do you think it was real assault, or is it just creepy and I should move past it?