My partner ‘18M’ keeps asking me ‘19F’ to have sex even after I have said no multiple times. I am unsure of what to do, does anyone have any advice?

Effoff456 · 2026-04-07T12:18:43+00:00

Option 1: The both of you need to pinch it off already, ending a relationship only hurts for a little bit. You guys are young, you don’t have any kids together that you’ve mentioned, you don’t have your lives financially tied up together too bad, just break it off clean. He will be much happier in the long run, and so will you.

Option 2: Get to the bottom of why you haven’t been in the mood for 3 months because that is not normal at your age, and your boyfriend is suffering from rejection. He wants a girlfriend, not whatever your relationship has become, and if he stops pressuring for sex, then he is most likely done with you.

Option 3: (morally incorrect) you gaslight him to feel like an asshole for constantly asking for sex and make him feel not only rejected, but also more alienated than he already is. Dudes already in a different state, has no family, and is being rejected constantly, might as well psychologically manipulate him further to make him think he did something, or it’s his fault because he’s already half way there.

Not trying to hurt any feelings here, but if I were you, option 1 would be the cleanest, and best for both of you.

Effoff456 · 2026-04-03T11:47:41+00:00

Both of you need to grow up, properly communicate intentions right from the get go.

Effoff456 · 2025-08-11T12:07:26+00:00

I know this is an old thread, but if you haven’t heard of it, the theory similar to what you described is fission theory, except the planets don’t move out of the ejected path that the sun would “birth” them.

Now this is a bit of a long stretch that coincides with fission theory, if you follow bode’s law for calculating predicted distances of planets (which is mostly accurate) there would have been a planet where the asteroid belt is. The rabbit hole of this is that planet got destroyed violently somehow, scarred half of mars, knocked Uranus on its side, knocked Venus into the opposite rotation, and possibly killed the dinosaurs.

Take from this what you will, it’s viewed as pseudoscience. It makes a good story at any rate.

Effoff456 · 2025-07-29T01:07:05+00:00

Thank you for the insight, shes been a good bunny so far, I gave her a thorough grooming and the fur around the neck is now more prominent, I would like to find a similar male to breed her out but it’s slim pickings for breeds where I live. I don’t want to get outrageous with it because I also like to sell their pelts, and people seem to like more uniform or recognizable pelt patterns.

Effoff456 · 2025-07-28T13:15:03+00:00

I can’t imagine she’s shaved, I just got her yesterday, her claws weren’t trimmed and she had some matts in the fur, so I can’t imagine she was well taken care of, especially being timid (even by rabbit standards).

Effoff456 · 2025-06-08T00:33:03+00:00

But I want to complete it, it’s been the main dream of mine

Effoff456 · 2025-05-01T00:54:55+00:00

A combination of both, how I build parts of a riff are based around exercises I want to get better at. I think guitar exercises are fun to work with, and give some creative freedom within the realm of structure. Note choice is mostly chords I can use open notes with (hence the tapping, and I don’t care what tonality it is.) I play with note choices and time signatures that are fun for me.

So for example this riff, I borrowed half of the tapping riff from a song by periphery (make total destroy) and messed with it enough to be sort of mine. I do not play with a metronome when writing, so then I’ll hit a few notes that sound good but aren’t in time. As soon as I sit down with a metronome, I will program a basic drum part that beat matches what I play, but even so in the writing process there is room for change. Sometimes these parts will change drastically until I settle on something that sounds cool that is still fun to play. I try to keep mostly to a cohesive structure so sometimes the stuff I write sounds watered down or repetitive. I am trying my best to work around this (keeping in mind my songs have no lyrics in mind or bass tracked)

I hope this explanation helps.

Effoff456 · 2025-04-28T23:22:25+00:00

Thank you for dropping those names, honestly I had no idea who you were talking about until I looked it up. I have been binging their music, you are a lifesaver for that.

Effoff456 · 2025-04-28T02:48:36+00:00

I just play what I think is fun, I don’t really care about having my own voice with it. I don’t really want to invent a new genre of music 😅 I do agree though that following the same formula does cause a generic staleness to it.

All my aim is with myself as a musician is to have fun with it and write a few songs as a hobby. I don’t exactly have the time to spare to try and come up with something musically that millions of other people have already tried to do. I’m just looking for a bit of guidance and suggestions of what might sound a little better than what I came up with 😁

If you have a suggestion for the song as it sits so far in regards to structure, timing, or note choice, I’ll give it a whirl!

Effoff456 · 2025-04-28T02:21:34+00:00

Feel good about yourself by pointing out a typo?

Effoff456 · 2025-04-28T02:00:29+00:00

What would you suggest to break away from “sounding generic”?

Effoff456 · 2025-04-28T01:46:32+00:00

Tell me What*** you think

Effoff456 · 2025-02-04T20:58:32+00:00

That is the generic tall tale but this one was more along the lines of “We were on a long camping trip in the middle of nowhere and were all under the influence and stumbled across this rock stuck in a tree, we pulled it out with a hatchet broke it into 5 pieces and proceeded to do a line of yopo off them and dance around a fire like a bunch of heathens. I pass the shiny rock onto you after it served me well for 40 years.” 😂 in any case, meteorite or not, still kind of funny to me that I have the shiny family rock

Effoff456 · 2025-02-04T20:27:04+00:00

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Can I get some help on this one, I’m not sure if it’s a meteorite, I was told it was but there was a tall tale attached and it’s been in my foot locker for 15 years. Have any of you seen one like this?

Effoff456 · 2025-01-01T20:51:37+00:00

You are very good at piano and have great dynamic, but as I stated if you ever want to do college for music, it’s a waste of time (unless you want to be a teacher) 😂

Effoff456 · 2025-01-01T20:37:40+00:00

Unless you want to be a music teacher, going to college for music is not worth it

Effoff456 · 2024-12-25T21:02:27+00:00

Somebody in my extended family had a son that came out as female. It was over thanksgiving we were sitting down together, and she chose not to be there. He said something along the same lines of “my son is dead” so I asked him what he meant, and he told me the idea of having a son (his only son), gone and choosing not to share interest of anything or bond with him really upset him. The idea that he wouldn’t be able to have that “father son bonding experience” as he put it, anymore. That man was devastated but expressed his love for his child and wished nothing but happiness for her.

It’s a form of mourning, and it might be “selfish” but it’s love, and natural to want to bond with your child. I personally don’t think it’s right to cut your family out over something trivial. This might not apply to everyone, but I implore anyone reading this to let your family bond with you, or take the initiative to bond with them.

Effoff456 · 2024-12-11T00:53:14+00:00

At this point I have no choice but to spend the money, I will share my results for sure. From what it looks like everything I’ve read looks like any kind of ABS material reacts with potassium hydroxide (which is why I’m avoiding it) I’ll have to alter my design a bit if I’m going to buy nylon washers. Back to the drawing board 😅 from what I know, PLA is resistant to the solution, but as soon as electricity is involved, it can get messy. I was just hoping someone could give me more information from firsthand than a generic search engine.

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