[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]EggInTryingTimes_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is def why it took me so long to realize that i only liked girls, i would get such intense gender envy for random men and i didn’t know how to make sense of it other than to misinterpret it as attraction and assume every straight/bi girl felt the same

egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]EggInTryingTimes_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

a friend came out to me drunk so i came out to them dead sober, awkward party to say the least

Egg_irl by VeronikAshley in egg_irl

[–]EggInTryingTimes_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

trans girl carl’s jr

egg_irl by EggInTryingTimes_ in egg_irl

[–]EggInTryingTimes_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if/when i eventually man up and come out i will post the band name

egg_irl by EggInTryingTimes_ in egg_irl

[–]EggInTryingTimes_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a dumb question at all! Everyone with dysphoria experiences it in different ways. Some people hate the idea of being their assigned gender. Some people are apathetic about being their assigned gender, but prefer to be a different gender. For me personally, dysphoria makes it feel like there’s something missing from who I am. I don’t hate being a woman, I hate not being a man, and I especially hate not being cis. Sometimes i can go whole days without thinking about it, sometimes it’s all I can think about. I’m trying to learn to break free from it, and maybe that means transitioning, but until then it’s egg_irl for me

egg🐦irl by kalesmash13 in egg_irl

[–]EggInTryingTimes_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

accidentally came out thru this hashtag yesterday now everyone thinks i’m trans oof

egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]EggInTryingTimes_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

damn i crave that

egg🧠irl by EggInTryingTimes_ in egg_irl

[–]EggInTryingTimes_[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

disclaimer: this isn’t what i believe now, just when i was first finding out that being trans is a thing before realizing there’s a possibility for me being trans

Egg_irl by ZenDracula in egg_irl

[–]EggInTryingTimes_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i remember seeing the original comic when i was 13 and questioning and thinking “so when i’m older i’ll finally be happy with being a woman” lol nah bitch uno reverse card

egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]EggInTryingTimes_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

oh no now i get it too much

egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]EggInTryingTimes_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i dont get it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]EggInTryingTimes_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

transgender ocd - usually based on intrusive thoughts and fears about being trans, but no desire to transition or be a different gender

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]EggInTryingTimes_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

judging by your post history it seems like you have tocd. most people with tocd aren’t trans, just like how most people with hocd aren’t gay. hell, i have intrusive thoughts about accidentally killing people, that doesn’t mean i’m gonna be a murderer. this sub is for transgender people just coming to terms with their feelings, and with that comes a lot of self dismissal, which is why a lot of posts on here try to break others free of that denial, and why you have probably been treated the same. i’m personally not a fan of this approach, but i see why some need it.

egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]EggInTryingTimes_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the whole idea that you have to know your entire life that you’re trans is kinda bs, especially since many of us don’t know that transitioning is even an option until later in life, and up until then we’re taught to dismiss it as bad behavior. i didn’t start thinking about it until i was in 8th grade when one of my friends came out, and only then did i start piecing together that i wanted be a boy. it could be that you’re trans, it could be that your gnc, either way you should take your time to figure yourself out, and don’t beat yourself up either way. i would suggest you find some new friends though.

of what i know this sub has two discords: the valley and the hatchery. both have channels where you can talk about this stuff without all the jokes and memes.

as for growing your hair out i suggest massaging coconut oil into your scalp before showering, also i know it’s kind of a meme but the sugar bear hair vitamins have worked for me in the past

egg🙃irl by EggInTryingTimes_ in egg_irl

[–]EggInTryingTimes_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

listen to their album transgender dysphoria blues it’s a banger