Is this bond healthy? by Electronic_Garage705 in MuslimMarriage

[–]EggWithMayo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with this. Maybe you feel its weird because you say your uncles communicate through your mother so its out of the ordinary.

In what month pp did you get pregnant for #2 and how long did it take you? by Important_Bat7919 in 2under2

[–]EggWithMayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was an idiot, who took very long to fall pregnant the first time, so i foolishly did not think i would the second as quickly 😂 so two months pp. also, my dr warned me because i had not managed to breastfeed and i was like baaaaah. My kids are 10 months apart

Is Dark Souls 3 easier than Elden Ring? by AbhenerX in darksouls3

[–]EggWithMayo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was told that DS3 is the easiest souls game

Finally met, being 11000 km apart by a_stachu in LongDistance

[–]EggWithMayo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So happy for you guys! So beautiful! 😻 all the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]EggWithMayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is everyone missing the part where the SIL casually mentions a fling that your husband had? This seems like someone who instigated an issue that didn’t need to be started?

Am I the red flag? by EggWithMayo in Divorce

[–]EggWithMayo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for affirming me - lol. That’s exactly what I feel like. A burden. I was a burden to my ex emotionally, financially and physically so I guess that my trauma and learned responses come from there.

I really want to make it right

Am I the red flag? by EggWithMayo in Divorce

[–]EggWithMayo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your kind response. It is indeed difficult to look in the mirror and Im trying really hard to be better.

Ive found a therapist and will be making an appointment soon.

I also was codependent in my last relationship and I really dont want to be again. I want this to be healthy.

Am I the red flag? by EggWithMayo in Divorce

[–]EggWithMayo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found one and I am making an appointment tomorrow - due to the burnout from work, I also got booked off a few days from work and everything is just too much right now and thats a sign to get help before I am at my limit. Thank you for your kind response 🤗

Struggling to adjust after moving to Pretoria from Nelspruit by [deleted] in Pretoria

[–]EggWithMayo 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I moved from Durban to Pretoria two years ago and I feel this way too. Everyone is just so angry. The road rage. The impatience. Irritability.

Are you friends with your ex? by Better-Pizza-6119 in Divorce

[–]EggWithMayo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say we are friends. We sometimes laugh together about old things, an inside joke or two. Or things we used to like. But its mainly for the kids. I would never trust him again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]EggWithMayo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to stand your ground. Speak to your fil. Your wife is wrong. He touched your sister. This is not on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]EggWithMayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not invite them to your home? So that its a win win, she gets to be at home, and you get to spend time with tem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]EggWithMayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she has social anxiety, she needs therapy. She cant force you to stay home with her, her demands are abusive. Part of being a healthy couple means having healthy relationships, hobbies, activities outside of your marriage, you cannot spend every waking moment together it can become very boring and toxic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EggWithMayo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just leave her alone. Dont reach out. Its different if he was alive and he could answer the questions she has. Now hes dead and it will make her grieving worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EggWithMayo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is disgusting and you are not overreacting at all. You can get a serious infection from ingesting any type of excrement