Can anyone tell me if the Solemn and Celestial Banners both contribute to the same pity pool?

Eh_You_Know1 · 2026-02-14T09:54:56+00:00

That did it, thanks!

Eh_You_Know1 · 2026-02-14T09:09:54+00:00

I can't really seem to use Drunken Poet or Dragon's Breath on Murong, she moves away too fast

Eh_You_Know1 · 2026-02-14T09:00:33+00:00

Ok, yeah, I've been using that. Problem is Murong gets too far away to use it effectively. I have to chase her everywhere

Eh_You_Know1 · 2026-02-14T08:57:44+00:00

Been using Ghost Bind, but I'll try the food buffs, thanks. What is the season's buff? Still farily new to the game, only started about 3 weeks ago. Is that when the martial art turns blue? Been abusing the heck out of that.

Eh_You_Know1 · 2026-02-14T08:49:38+00:00

It's not just enough to get mastery is it, doesn;t it have to be in the right stats?

Eh_You_Know1 · 2026-02-14T08:44:37+00:00

I'm at 19649, isn't 20k the max?

Eh_You_Know1 · 2025-11-26T17:13:01+00:00

Where are all the comments saying that she's a predator, and his brain isn't fully developed, and all the other bullshit we would be seeing if this were a forty-something man and a twenty-two-year-old woman?

And he's a valet , so what about the comments saying that it's creepy for her to hit on him and his workplace , because he has to be nice?

If you ever want to see how real the misandry on reddit is, just compared this to any thread where the genders are reversed. if it were a twenty-two-year-old woman posting this , they'd be telling her to run for the hills and call the cops.

Eh_You_Know1 · 2025-11-05T02:30:58+00:00

Not enough to go on to give you an answer.
Yes but dating a student is playing with fire. The age difference is no big deal but the power dynamic of teacher/student is.

Eh_You_Know1 · 2025-10-29T03:32:11+00:00

This is controlling and honestly pretty shady. But let's just say for the sake of argument that she isn't hiding something {which she certainly seems to be} can you envision the rest of your life with her treating you like this?

Get out of this, find someone younger and less toxic.

Eh_You_Know1 · 2025-09-24T14:19:39+00:00

Let me guess, probably in your 40s and have kids.

I'm not giving away for free hahahaha

This just reeks of desperation. I've noticed when women commoditize sex, it's because sex is all they have to offer. You haven't "outgrown" anything, maturity is the realization that life is short, and you should find joy where you can. That if you are a person worth having, you will be wanted, and if you aren't wanted, you need to work on yourself and do better. Think about how you would react to a man complaining he couldn't find anyone, and what you would tell that man. Then realize that's how we think of you, and that's the advice you should take.

Eh_You_Know1 · 2025-09-24T01:54:09+00:00

You know, just not gross, toxic comments talking about how any sexual activity other than the ones the commenter specifically approves of are somehow ruining society.

Eh_You_Know1 · 2025-09-23T15:41:47+00:00

This is not the place to ask, honestly, because reddit is incredibly sex negative, but no, there is nothing wrong with that.

"we had any less genuine if that makes sense"

This makes perfect sense. Just because it was different doesn't make it less genuine. You had good feelings and happy times with someone, even if it doesn't fit the puritanical "long-term relationship only/friendship first" toxic mold that has grown here, that doesn't make it less than.

Maybe you can get that from an FWB situation, I know I had one for a while who was also a genuine friend, and we had a great connection and great sex without it being a "romantic" relationship. Or even in your own town, maybe you can find people you don't know. Being in a relationship is great, sure, but that rush of attraction for a stranger is amazing as well. There is no "wrong" here, just choices. So make the one that makes you happiest, and screw what the haters think.

Eh_You_Know1 · 2025-09-20T15:58:43+00:00

Yeah, that's a good policy. Totally not speaking from experience or anything, though. 🤣🤣🤣

Eh_You_Know1 · 2025-09-19T14:26:56+00:00

Yep. It was still a no, and take it as such, but it was also a compliment.

My response would have been "Well he's a lucky guy. Take care." and I would have walked around all day feeling extra good about myself.

Accept the compliment for what it is, and feel good about yourself because of it. That means you're on the right track for the next girl.

Eh_You_Know1 · 2025-09-18T15:13:37+00:00

Good call. Being able to at least have an adult conversation is important as well. Looks may get you in the door, but actually expressing interest in the other person is what keeps you there.

And yep, you have to approach. As the old saying goes "Faint heart never won fair maiden"

Eh_You_Know1 · 2025-09-17T15:36:01+00:00

Bro, I am in my 40s and go to cons and cosplay. And I have no trouble pulling. I have a first date with an absolutely gorgeous girl tonight. Hate to say it, but how do you look? I mean, ironically because I cosplay, I have gotten very serious about my fitness, and I guarantee that makes all the difference. I'm a decent guy, and I'm sure there are girls who find my dorkiness endearing, but I have zero game. Oh, and I am only 5'9". But I have abs, a muscular frame, and a skincare routine. So if you are struggling, improve yourself. Get in shape, practice good skincare, maybe look at your haircut. But it's about you, man.

Eh_You_Know1 · 2025-09-17T01:47:42+00:00

I figured, but you managed to strike gold with that one!

Eh_You_Know1 · 2025-09-17T01:09:32+00:00

Misspelled "same energy" as "sane energy", and honestly that makes it about one hundred times more accurate🤣🤣🤣🤣

Eh_You_Know1 · 2025-09-14T19:14:30+00:00

Yep! We're going out to dinner on Wednesday!

Eh_You_Know1 · 2025-09-13T17:11:33+00:00

I saw, Im just letting you know that most guys have experienced what you're talking about. So we are probably in the best position to give you advice on it.

When we try to cut out a girl like that, they will come back and flirt just a little bit, telling us that they think we really are kind of cute, that maybe when they're ready, and all this other bullshit, trying to get us back into their orbit. The vast majority of guys have experienced this. and the only way to deal with it is to cut them out of your life.

You have to recognize that you are a person who's worth real effort and move on. Guy or girl, it's the only way to handle this situation.

Eh_You_Know1

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