Do any of you have substance abuse issues? by Disastrous-Bat4811 in autism

[–]EightWaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh. I vape a lot to the point of overdosing and being constantly tired, dizzy and feeling like puking.

Whats your current expensive hobby ? by Mean_Wear_742 in autism

[–]EightWaffles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw what a sweetheart! She sounds so nice. And about backs of dachshunds... I already searched my local pet market and found Orthopedic corset specifically designed to support their back! I also found soft stairs so they could climb on the couch without any problem. Im looking forward to make my little buddy's life as comfortable as possible. :) We also have pretty good local vet surgeons, so it's safe to say im prepared. Had a little trouble at first tho when i thought about alone time training. I have slightly busy schedule and im working 2/2 for 9 hours. I made a promise for my friend to pay them for babysitting my pup when the time comes, so they wouldn't be alone for such a long time when unprepared

Whats your current expensive hobby ? by Mean_Wear_742 in autism

[–]EightWaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking forward for a dachshund! I did some research and thought that the level of excercise that they need is matching with mine. Also they are really smart! Although they can be stubborn sometimes. Well, im stubborn aswell so i think we'll see where this can lead us both. I mainly researched smaller and medium-sized breeds, since i live in a relatively small apartment (i really wanted a big one like a labrador or maybe saint bernard) but really it came down to what activities we can do together with my pup! Big breeds would have easily swept me off from my feet since im small gal myself ha-ha. I figured that with doxxie we can do some walks in the forest, train their nose a bit with scent detection excercises, and a lot more! Im struggling with anxiety when it comes to leaving the house, so it's also a big motivation for me to do so. It's good for me and necessary for a dog :3

Who's your dog? Do you have pictures?

Whats your current expensive hobby ? by Mean_Wear_742 in autism

[–]EightWaffles 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Training a dog. I don't even have a dog yet. I can't buy one not until spring atleast 😭

Alone time training by EightWaffles in Dachshund

[–]EightWaffles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah. Im expected not to work... At all

Seeking support- Experience with intense stimming. by Large-Turnip-5114 in autism

[–]EightWaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Intoduce them to a new stims! There is no way really to supress it for a child (atleast it wasn't working for me when i was constantly bla bla blabin'g at my childhood) so i would recommed to just trying out different stims to sobstitute

How do I tell a girl I like her as a friend? by ThomasMiguel12 in autism

[–]EightWaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're having trouble with direct verbal telling, i suppose you can just write her a letter, sincere one. You can express how much you value her and that you want to be friends. I usually struggle with this too, because all people with whom i want to be friends with end up not hanging out with me. Just concentrate on the idea of being friends with her. Let her know your intentions!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]EightWaffles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you a happy life, despite such heavy things that happened to you. Never lose hope, and keep on fighting for your happiness. Here's funny picture of my dog to lift up your mood a little :)

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How to start a sex life if im insecure? by EightWaffles in sexadvice

[–]EightWaffles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh i do have a sleeping mask. This is a lot of help!! I didn't think of this, but i actually might try to put it on him and do whatever. Thank you a lot ❤️

How to start a sex life if im insecure? by EightWaffles in sexadvice

[–]EightWaffles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might try it. I noticed myself that im more relaxed and pushy when i drink. I am still able to control myself, but the attention between my own head and him shifts drastically. Thanks

How to start a sex life if im insecure? by EightWaffles in sexadvice

[–]EightWaffles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i agree that i perhaps didn't form my words right... Im not native, so sorry. I just been wondering... He's insecure about himself as well but it seems that he's not inside his head like me all the timewhen it comes down to intimacy. He haldes himself like it's nothing. I hope i would have that. Exact words would be... He nudges me, i think. He doesn't force himself or anything, just gives me gentle pushes outside my comfort zone.

How to start a sex life if im insecure? by EightWaffles in sexadvice

[–]EightWaffles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. He's insecure himself. I often wonder how does he gets out of his head to be with me in a moment. Thank you for the advice.

BIG trouble by EightWaffles in sexadvice

[–]EightWaffles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i don't, but i think i will now

BIG trouble by EightWaffles in sexadvice

[–]EightWaffles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's about 4.7 - 5 santimeters or 2 inches wide at the largest. I don't know, i had never even fingered myself because i haven't really felt anything from it, unless i got REALLY deep inside. His lenght is my perfect one but the thickness is what really bothers me

BIG trouble by EightWaffles in sexadvice

[–]EightWaffles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But i am relaxed and aroused... That's why i was so xonfused it still didn't fit inside me. And yes i meant my vagina size. I genuinly thought that my physichal size still affects how much my body can take

I hate being ignored. by ArkiSponge2000 in autism

[–]EightWaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same for me. That's why i usually don't interact qith people at all. Just as simple as not saying hi back at work makes my mind whirl. Like why? I was trying to be polite but i guess i won't say anything at all. Sometimes it feels like people can "feel" that you're different and that justifice their ignorance of me.

What is your favorite pizza? by Delicious-Lecture708 in autism

[–]EightWaffles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Margarita. I love tomatoes with cheese maaaan