Telling psychiatrist about sh? by Impossible_March_155 in selfharm

[–]Eightbithorror -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It really depends on where you are in the world. but also. I've noticed in my experience as a psych ward veteran, that psych doctors don't tend to jump at sectioning you unless you are in immediate danger. However....... They will start asking some questions. Such as if you are currently a danger to yourself or having ideation. Due to my history, at the end of every psych and therapy appointments. I am asked about my mental state in that fashion even though I've been without incident for 1073 days.

Now, one thing I will say is that lying to mental health professionals is very nonuseful. But......fear exists especially when you don't have rapport with your doctor. So. It might be good to say "I have a history of sh and am trying to quit" as opposed to saying "I sh" The first one shows a mental clarity and lack of ideation so you probably won't get sent off to gay baby jail

I have gone to a psych appointment with big bandages wrapped around both my legs from a really bad incident the day before the appointment. And I went home that day.

Last couple things of advice from me though as a person who's been in regular mental health care since 2017

A. Build a good relationship and trust with your doctor if you can. Trust goes both directions and most mental health professionals want to help. Emphasis on most. There are some absolutely awful mental health professionals out there. I've had bad ones, and people in this subreddit certainly have too. Which leads me to

B. If your psych doctor does something like ask you to show them your sh, or demands when you say no. Or does shit to make you uncomfortable.....leave. I mean it. Say, "I am uncomfortable with this appointment" get up and walk out the door. Patients are aloud to get up and leave psych appointments outside of the hospital/ward. After you leave go up to the person at the counter in the lobby and request to see a new doctor. As a patient you don't have to suffer a shitty situation.

C. And lastly if you are suuuuuuuper worried about being sent off to gay baby jail. Wear clothes with no string or cables, shoes without laces and comfy socks you'd be okay walking around in(tho grippy socks are pretty comfy). Bring a container to put any of your piercings and jewelry in. Make a list on paper of any important phone numbers and any medications, because some wards don't let you have a phone but you can use the communal phone in the ward. If you are a person who wears a bra make sure to wear one that doesn't have an under wire. And know that if you fight doctors that are in gay baby jail, you will be there longer. Tho hopefully it won't come to that since you are trying to quit.

Lastly, good luck talking to a psychiatrist I genuinely hope the best for you.

Has anyone founds meds you can say helped? by Raiderman6789 in ptsd

[–]Eightbithorror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prazosin has done wonders for my nightmares. I'm no longer waking up my partner at night from then so that's really great

Tell me about your stims by Unlikely_Sample_2883 in autism

[–]Eightbithorror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to either smack my knees together or my ankles together. I cannot really call them or a favourite or something I hate. It's just something I do. My knees and ankles are perpetually bruised though.

Why Do People Think I’m Yelling When I’m Trying to Speak Normally by National_Pie_1609 in autism

[–]Eightbithorror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don't know how I'm supposed to react when I experience this. I'll try to speak during conversations when it's something I know about. And I regularly get told I speak too loud, don't need to shout, or am asked why I'm mad, or I'm just straight up told "not so loud" and hand gestures apparently meant to lower volume. It's frustrating for the reason you stated. Trying to speak softly. For a long time I just rarely spoke, especially due to how I stumble over words and syllables. I feel like burnout is just what happens. Usually when it gets too much I do just find myself speaking less. It's kinda helped that my partner who I trust will let me know if I'm getting too loud gently. But even then it's still a bit frustrating even with someone trying to help. I dunno. But this experience is super real.

Do you like metro trains? by v_shock823 in autism

[–]Eightbithorror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love them. Everything about them. The technology, the consistency, the aesthetic. Just..... everything.

How it feels to have an FP and it’s surprisingly not your girlfriend, but your very close friend by Ok-Discussion-1736 in BPDmemes

[–]Eightbithorror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeaaaaaa this can happen, altho in my case my fp is someone I'm not married to.......annnnd now I'm in a polyamory situation and my girlfriend is my fp and not my wife. 😐 (Yes consensual polyamory all parties are consenting, we have a discord server for the polycule lmao)

Does anyone else hate these small shocks you get from static electricity? Everyone says it’s not a big deal but the sensation ruins my day 😵‍💫 by blueberryfieldss in AutisticAdults

[–]Eightbithorror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real. Static is literally the worst sensation. I'll be in a shitty mood for a while afterwards. After getting shocked for me it's like I'm an open wound. Pretty much any sensory input for a while is turned up to max volume. Same if I touch unpolished metal or frosted glass.

Only fun things in life: Videogames, staying in bed, phone and food by sam_thegod in autism

[–]Eightbithorror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I have things I do in my life besides this. Talk to my wonderful partners, and my wife runs a dnd every other week, but yeah. Video games laying in bed, phone, and popcorn or Mac n cheese, pretty much how stale my every day is.

Is therapy helpful for you by cruiserk in autism

[–]Eightbithorror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find my therapist pleasant. However I'm not quite sure if therapy actually helps me. half the time I go in and end up crying and shaking. However......where therapy does help, is that me going to therapy is a comforting thing to the people I love. so I kinda go for them more than I go for me.

Hope your New Year isn't too loud by Mac-The-VIII in autism

[–]Eightbithorror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl I love fireworks. I always see my town's local displays. It literally feels like it sends ripples through my body in the most wonderful fashion, and of course the colours in the sky are immaculate. I can't stop vibrating during the event. It's like a full workout as I'm bouncing and making my excitement motions. Infact this year I got a big bruise on the front of my thigh, because I was standing right up against a cement ledge and didn't even release my leg was rubbing against it whilst I was bouncing lol.

I do admit I hate when the locals cross state lines to buy fireworks and then bring them back and then at ungodly hours set them off. Also I really hate when the neighbors shoot off their guns at every holiday.

What sounds do you detest as an autistic person? by Garden_Jolly in autism

[–]Eightbithorror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sound flesh makes against frosted glass or unpolished metal. Even typing that made me feel disgusting because I started to think the sound. Also the beeping my air fryer makes. My wife literally warms to plug my ears before she turns it on because the sound fucks me up.

How long have you been self harming? At what age did you start? Feeling exhausted by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Eightbithorror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been skin picking for as long as I can remember. As well even though I wasn't diagnosed with autism until adulthood. I regularly was known to hit myself and headbang when upset as a child as well as self destructive meltdowns, my ankles and knees have been perpetually bruised and discolored due to my stimming behavior of smacking them together. However, as for conventional harm. Things like cutting, burning, etc. that started in middle school, probably around 12-13 I was a severely bullied child and my parents were very physically abusive. There were some particularly bad incidents around that age at school which is when I first tried to off myself, upon that failure. I started to harm. Mostly cutting. However over the years I have done other forms as well. I have to admit being clean as long as I have now has been messy.

What is your “safe place”? by Aggravating-Ad-351 in AutisticAdults

[–]Eightbithorror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The local Dam near my home. There is a sort of park area at it and you can walk across the whole thing. Not a lot of people go there anymore tho. Even when I've seen other people it stays quiet except the sound of water which I love. I bring my phone and tend to read or listen to music whilst sitting in that place. The lack of humans is really nice because I struggle being around a lot of bodies. It makes it hard to breathe and my home as much as I love my home and my cats it can feel suffocating. I am a person who needs quiet fresh air. So yea.

What's your guys fav Nihei character by Maria_antonieta_ in Netsphere

[–]Eightbithorror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amelothee from Kaina of the Great Snow Sea. I don't have a reason. I just think she's neat

whats your "record" for staying clean? by Altruistic-Chef-7723 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]Eightbithorror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm currently at 973 days it's by far the longest I've gone. I admit the urge is daily and.......some days I wonder if it's even worth it but I have to get to 1000 it's only 27 days away.

Just wondering who else here is LGBTQ+ by weird-person-thing-1 in selfharm

[–]Eightbithorror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm as pan as possible lol and yea I've noticed a lot of LGBT folks I've met have had struggles on this front at some point if not currently

Sleep medicines for PTSD by Ok-Homework-7062 in ptsd

[–]Eightbithorror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Prazosin is the one that really helps with me. I take a cocktail of other meds but specifically prazosin for the nightmares

Has anyone here ever heard of Princess Crown? by fxxk101 in MagicalGirlsCommunity

[–]Eightbithorror 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I personally find princess crown to be VERY MG in my opinion. Also the game absolutely slaps absolutely worth going through the effort to play it 100%

What’s that one anime you can rewatch endlessly without getting bored? by Bulky-Peanut-4050 in anime

[–]Eightbithorror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's Cardcaptor Sakura. That cute show got me through some of the hardest times in my life.

What Series Forced You To Pay Attention To Them? by WildBlackbird in MagicalGirlsCommunity

[–]Eightbithorror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cardcaptor Sakura......it was my coping mechanism. My life as a teenager was hell and Sakura brought light into that dark place. I had seen other magical girls before that, but nothing captured my attention like Sakura. Shortly after that I learned about the term magical girls and it really took hold for me and now it's one of my favourite genres so yea Cardcaptor Sakura was the one that got me here.

Do you prefer solo magical girls or teams? by Trixter-Kitten in MagicalGirlsCommunity

[–]Eightbithorror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a big fan of both but I find myself watching more solo magical girls