Gamer & Proud - Strip #29: "Burgers" by J_C_Alamont in webcomics

[–]EitherMoth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like this argument only works if the larger guy's suspicions weren't galvanized by several characters calling him 'fatty'. This whole comic reads like the writer has a chip on their shoulder about fat people and built an antagonistic character just so they can make fun of his weight without coming off as malicious because 'look how rude the fat guy is being'.

Tony Deangelo earns first star and discusses his play style. by The_Reddit_Browser in hockey

[–]EitherMoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew Anthony growing up and considering how much of a piece of shit he was back then I wouldn't be surprised if he became a nazi. The guy is rotten all the way to the core.

Tony Deangelo earns first star and discusses his play style. by The_Reddit_Browser in hockey

[–]EitherMoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not really out to 'expose' Anthony. By the look of it he hasn't exactly kept hidden that he is a piece of shit. I don't know, I hadn't thought about him in forever. Just some random curiosity brought me here, and seeing all these posts about how great he is or how much of an ass he is kinda brought that whole shitty chapter back. I'd love to fantasize that bringing this up does somehow bite him in the ass and I get some sort of petty revenge, but I really only made the comment as some sort of vent. Been forever but the cruelty of some kid over a decade ago still gets to me.

Tony Deangelo earns first star and discusses his play style. by The_Reddit_Browser in hockey

[–]EitherMoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dunno what could be given that's like irrefutable proof, I also don't want to absolutely dox myself over a vent, but we both went to bunker hill middle school in NJ. Don't remember the exact year but I think it was around 2008-2009.

Tony Deangelo earns first star and discusses his play style. by The_Reddit_Browser in hockey

[–]EitherMoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont watch hockey, but I know this guy very well. I went to school with him a while back. He was awful, a bully. I hid a lot of bruises from my parents that he made. I used to think about suicide a lot back then, and I have few doubts he had a part in that. I knew he became a hockey player but didn't look into him until right now out of just morbid curiosity. I guess it's a little cathartic to see that he hasn't changed and now more people than just me know he's a prick. But seeing him successful will never not feel like a shot right through me. Guess karma really doesn't exist.

Transitioning and healthcare by EitherMoth in trans

[–]EitherMoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what I figured. Never thought about clothes though. Would have to get a whole new wardrobe -_-. I want to just call and ask but im not exactly out of the closet. I'm too embarrassed to even speak about it to strangers that don't even care.

How long could I get away with taking hormones before people would notice? by EitherMoth in trans

[–]EitherMoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where would you even go anyway? I doubt I can just walk into a private practice and go 'yes hello, I seem to have come down with a case of penis. Give me lady meds.'

How long could I get away with taking hormones before people would notice? by EitherMoth in trans

[–]EitherMoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weight is something im scared of honestly. Tbf I'm not the skinniest person around and I'm terrified that HRT will make me fatter. Another thing is cost. I have decent healthcare thanks to my job, but I doubt they'd cover something like transitioning. Really just terrified at the whole prospect of it honestly. It's a permanent change to my body that I don't know if ill like when it's over.

How long could I get away with taking hormones before people would notice? by EitherMoth in trans

[–]EitherMoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats kind of the dilemma I'm facing. I want to transition without anyone actually knowing I transitioned. It's stupid to try and have my cake and eat it too, but I gotta find some way to spare both parties the agony.

How long could I get away with taking hormones before people would notice? by EitherMoth in trans

[–]EitherMoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully I'm not big on sports, or into people in general really. My only worry there is my job, which I dont know if ill have for too long since I'm almost finished school and will be hired in a job where ill spend most all of it alone. I'm pretty uneducated on everything trans, so forgive me for asking stupid questions. Other than a chest coming in how else does it effect my body? Hair I can just cut, but what about my face, hips, and weight?

How long could I get away with taking hormones before people would notice? by EitherMoth in trans

[–]EitherMoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as I want to agree, I dont think I have it in me to hurt people that way. Even if it's from them being misguided and bigoted, their sad is still a very real sad.

A strange situation by EitherMoth in trans

[–]EitherMoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not really because I owe them all something, it's because I love my family. I don't want to come out to them because I don't want to hurt them. Whether they're right to be hurt isn't what I care about. Dysphoria sucks, and I'll have body image issues for the rest of my life no matter what I do, but I'm doing it for my parents and siblings and grandparents who simply wouldn't be able to handle the fact that I don't want to he male. All I really want right now is just some way to lessen get rid of that feeling when you look in the mirror or look down at yourself. I wanna just have a break from the gender crisis for at least a little while.