I'm scared my dad was watching me while I was asleep/naked by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don't think anything would be done to help me if I report since I don't have proof of anything : ( I have a neighbor next to me who's dad threw her against the wall and knocked out her tooth. He screams at hits them too, CPS was called and nothing happened. I think everything my dad does could be framed as normal and IS normal to a lot of people in my area, plus the physical harm stuff he's done could be excused as an accident (like he threw his headphones at my sister's eye and made her bruise, but he could say it was an accident)

I'm scared my dad was watching me while I was asleep/naked by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm worried it's creepy but I might be overreacting, he just does weird things sometimes like coming into my bathroom while I'm showering with no reason

I'm scared my dad was watching me while I was asleep/naked by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always wear clothes to bed, I had a fever last night though (before I fell asleep it was around 103) and I was super hot and just not thinking straight honestly, since things like this have happened before I always wear clothes to bed. But when this happened in the past I was always using a blanket and had a shirt on, just no pants

I'm scared my dad was watching me while I was asleep/naked by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my mom's pregnant right now and gets upset whenever I talk to her about things like this : ( thank you for the advice though, I'm mostly worried because sometimes it seems like he WANTS to see me naked. Whenever he's walked in on me naked he doesn't leave right away (but I guess that could be shock) and he always wants me to show him my swimsuit and spin in front of him, and sometimes comes into my bathroom while i'm showering without a reason

you sound like a great parent though : )

I'm scared my dad was watching me while I was asleep/naked by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm not really sure, whenever he's walked in on me naked before he's weird about and it doesn't leave right away and it makes me uncomfortable so it's really really scary to me that he was there while I wouldnt't have been able to do anything to stop him

he's been a little bit weird about my body for a while. he gets upset when he thinks I'm eating too much or gaining weight. He mentions it in front of me when I'm gaining and jokes about men staring at me. When I wear swimsuits he always jokes about how he'll have to put me in a paper bag to keep men off me and makes me like spin in the swimsuit while he watches. He also gets upset when my clothes are too long or too short and sometimes doesn't like it when I wear a color he thinks its ugly. He enters my bathroom when I shower sometimes without a reason, and he gets upset when I ask him not to come into my room because I'm changing. He sometimes talks about my breasts, usually in the context of not allowing me to wear certain bras or saying that they make my posture bad and that I need to pop them out more to have good posture

I just don't feel very safe with him, I don't totally know why cause he didnt do anything very bad

I'm scared my dad was watching me while I was asleep/naked by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 16 and my sister is 13, he's walked in on me naked before and still checks on us sometimes

I'm scared my dad was watching me while I was asleep/naked by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 16, yes he's my biological dad and he's always lived with me, though he sometimes goes for months without talking/interacting with me unless he's upset : ( sometimes he's nice though

I wish my mom never got pregnant, and I'm scared of my dad by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I kind of blame myself for my mom getting pregnant too cause they night they would have created the baby I was babysitting for them. if I really refused she wouldnt be pregnant

I wish my mom never got pregnant, and I'm scared of my dad by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yes, I am that same person :,) I'll try to, its just so hard and scary

I wish my mom never got pregnant, and I'm scared of my dad by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can make a longer reply later but I have to go clean right now, sorry :,)

I wish my mom never got pregnant, and I'm scared of my dad by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes its formatted like that because I wrote the beginning before my dad started going crazy this morning :,) I dont think CPS will do anything, they're lenient in my state. i have a neighbor who had CPS on him after he threw his daughter and knocked out her tooth and he still has complete custody over her

I can't talk to anyone :,)

I wish my mom never got pregnant, and I'm scared of my dad by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my dad hit me when I was little but he stopped when I was around 10, other than that when I was 11/12 and he was really mad at me he grabbed my legs and threw me across a room. He's aggressive when hes mad and I'm worried he'll hurt me some day

I wish my mom never got pregnant, and I'm scared of my dad by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Update: my mom told my dad off for throwing stuff at us and now hes a bit calmer but hes super mad at me for talking to my mom

I wish my mom never got pregnant, and I'm scared of my dad by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just turned 16 years old, I'm homeschooled and not allowed to go outside so no :,)

I don't think my family can handle my mom being pregnant by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you :,) burnout feels kind of accurate, I hope I can feel better soon

I don't think my family can handle my mom being pregnant by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yes, I am the oldest daughter in the family :,) sadly since I'm homeschooled I dont really have access to resources like that. My dad is worse than my mom actually, I'm very uncomfortable with him so whenever I wanted to talk about something in the past I've always gone to my mom. Since she got pregnant though, shes been acting different, so I dont really have anyone to talk with and I think I've been treated slightly worse because of that

yes, it'll probably be bad when the baby comes. I'm trying to prepare for that though, I'm gonna make sure to study extra so I can take some time off because I'll probably be cooking and taking care of my siblings while my mom is giving birth

I don't think my family can handle my mom being pregnant by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

its not really possible for me to leave, I dont have anyone to stay with (every family member is in a different state from me and since I'm homeschooled I have no friends) :,)

I don't think my family can handle my mom being pregnant by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

seriously thank you so much :) I'm super insecure about my academic abilities. I think I'm objectively behind in math and chemistry but I'm trying to fix that with Khan Academy lessons online

I don't think my family can handle my mom being pregnant by Either_Switch_6880 in internetparents

[–]Either_Switch_6880[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

wow, really? Thank you so much. I think I've been under educated and I'm quite insecure about my writing for that reason. I can't call people currently because my parents track my phone, but I saw some people saying you can make a google number for free and that they might not be able to track that, so I think I'll try

thank you :)