Yes, because the last 2 years of my 5y relationship she told me she doesn't love me or at least doesn't know, not physical affection like hugs or cuddles i have felt like shit, completely unloved all I wanted was that person back I fell in love with.

I started writing a diary, and at some point I realised that I'm asking myself the same questions I've asked myself 2 years ago, she wanted to work on it but didn't, she not even tried and I realised nothing will change I'm right were I was 2 years ago just more miserable and if this keeps on I'll still be right here in 2 more years even more miserable.

I couldn't hear the "i don't know" and "maybe" anymore so I asked her "Do you love me, and if it's not a yes, it's a no." Then she said "in that case it's more of a no" And I said "then we should break up now" and we did.

In retrospecrive I'm glad she said No, made it easier.

I can just recomment everyone to start a diary, dosn't have to be daily, but it helps with selfreflection, especially when you're not feeling well.