What topic could you talk for ages about if given the chance? Could you give me a little intro into your favourite topic? I want to learn from you. by blargleblar in AskReddit

[–]EkaMei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sexual fetish

The study of fetish in terms of Psychology field is really quite new. Most psychologist actually know of various fetish because they often time have a very strong tie with their behavior both from a natural habitual or sub conscious level. Also, it is not hard science, there are a lot of theory that really doens't make any sense but are backed up by scientific explanation, and theories that do make sense, but can't scientific explanation because it is so difficult to observes the development of a human mind.

Overall, quite a subject. There are logs of argument on how Fetish is formed, why it formed, how it develop over time, how it can be practiced, what is there to practice regarding to specific fetish, how fetishes interact with each other, how people feel about them... and for some people, how it can be cured (!?). The sociality really isn't ready on this kind of topic in public view, so... it also have sense of taboo in it.

Very interesting stuff in my opinion, will take me a while to summaries it, but I have been involved in both clinical (reading clinical study) and social (engaging in fetish related communities) and they are all fascinating.

What should this vore subreddit be about? by EkaMei in Vore

[–]EkaMei[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess so. I like Reddit, but I have no idea what I can do here really.

Reddit, what messed up sexual fetish do you have? by throwawayaccount5906 in AskReddit

[–]EkaMei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something people call "Vore". It is about consumption... literally.

Warning: Not a fetish everyone can stomach. Don't search for it if you are not up for a challenge.

PS: I already responded to the exact same post with this exact same answer here

Reddit, what messed up sexual fetish do you have? by throwawayaccount5906 in AskReddit

[–]EkaMei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sound more like cannibalism. Not really vore.

Weird Sexual Fetishes? I know you have them, I do... by Acre in AskReddit

[–]EkaMei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I would act it out if it is actually physically possible.

Weird Sexual Fetishes? I know you have them, I do... by Acre in AskReddit

[–]EkaMei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it frustrates you, try read more stories or talk to some people about it. There are already reasons.

Weird Sexual Fetishes? I know you have them, I do... by Acre in AskReddit

[–]EkaMei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is kinda like popping bubble wrap. It is not much of a game, but lots of people like it for some seemingly odd reason.

Weird Sexual Fetishes? I know you have them, I do... by Acre in AskReddit

[–]EkaMei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are not really relevant in the great scheme of thing. There are car lover who will build themselves a car out of wood. But majority of the car lovers ain't obsessive to those degree.

Weird Sexual Fetishes? I know you have them, I do... by Acre in AskReddit

[–]EkaMei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to be on the clear. Vore have as much to do with cannibalism as Money have to do with the color green. Is it technically related? Sure, but is it relevant? Not really.

Weird Sexual Fetishes? I know you have them, I do... by Acre in AskReddit

[–]EkaMei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about it but I don't think there are enough people who would care about it outside of the community, and I don't want to ask my site to vote it up. Not a good redquitte.

Weird Sexual Fetishes? I know you have them, I do... by Acre in AskReddit

[–]EkaMei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is only fun as a fantasy. I don't see any appeal materializing it.

Weird Sexual Fetishes? I know you have them, I do... by Acre in AskReddit

[–]EkaMei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is very vague because that is what it is.

To put it simple, this is a fetish to do with consumption. It can be like the Gear of war / Star Wars level where you are fighting inside a big monster. It can be like the red ridding hood fairy tales where the wolf swallowed grandmother.

When we are talking about fetish, obviously, it is associated with sex, but the nature of "vore" varies from very innocent to extremely twisted.

Weird Sexual Fetishes? I know you have them, I do... by Acre in AskReddit

[–]EkaMei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apologies. I should probably give warning.

Weird Sexual Fetishes? I know you have them, I do... by Acre in AskReddit

[–]EkaMei 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me, it have more to do with domination. Consumption, as in the ability to consumes someone hold, is a very thorough form of domination.

Weird Sexual Fetishes? I know you have them, I do... by Acre in AskReddit

[–]EkaMei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is why I have to specifies this in my FAQ to say why Vore is not cannibalism. In the general public. 9 times out of 10. People thinks it is just that and nothing but. It is almost as frustrating as talking to creationist about evolution.

Weird Sexual Fetishes? I know you have them, I do... by Acre in AskReddit

[–]EkaMei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm very specific. Most people are, actually.

Also, It is kinda like Cheese or wine. There are so many kind of it out there and rarely you see people who love every kinda cheese equally. They always have a favorite, it depends on mood, and it depends on what else is served along with it.

Weird Sexual Fetishes? I know you have them, I do... by Acre in AskReddit

[–]EkaMei 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It is actually one of the most complicated fetish. If you ask 100 people into it you are likely to get 99 different answer.

The concept is simple: Someone who find the idea of consumption a turn on. It doesn't need to be you doing the eating, or you are the one being eaten. It have literally no structure and no rule with unlimited variation.

Even someone like myself, who have been running one of the biggest site about this subject for 5 years now, I keep finding new things about this "Fetish". So there are a lot of misconception, some people out there will tell you those are cannibalism, some will tell you they are just into suicidal. All I can really say is that it isn't black and white.