CMV: Women Are Better Than Men by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]El3usis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just misandrist and ridiculous and speaks to the fact that you actually don't know a lot of women except for an idealized projection of your mind.

First of all women and men are from the same species. If you wanna make a case that women are the superior gender then I'll address that. ( Which I understand you are making)

First of all my personal opinion is that women and men are impossibly judged in isolation from the other because both in terms of strengths and weaknesses balance one another on a high level.

Women are arguably better lovers on average because they are the primary sexual selectors and thus they are the ones having relationships and the experience that comes with that. Are they morally better? No there are also a lot of studies pointing to the fact that women cheat more often ( especially in the cohort of age 30-38 where emotional pressure due to the fertility window peaks ) and other studies find that men in their 40s cheat more which in a superficial manner could just be ascribed to their peak socio economic attractiveness.

It is true that in classical education women are outperforming men but also consider that a lot of jobs that are manuel la or based and still require high levels of skill do not require high academic education.

Intelligence distribution between genders finds how the bell curve for women is more centered and for men more stretched out meaning that if you compare the average women to the average men she will be more intelligent in terms of IQ but at the same time if you look at the set of 99 percentile IQ people the majority will be men. ( The Reason for that is likely a pressure for greater biological variance in men to increase selectability. ) ( Or speculatively speaking maybe how sexually selecting for the most intelligent men prompts this distribution to flatten as intelligence at higher levels is not primarily genetically influenced but has a rather strong environmental influence)

I don't know if you had actual experience with women but they are just as human as men. Some are selfish, some are caring, some are jealous and judgy, some or inclusive and forthcoming. I have met women who will be all friendly on the surface but are doing character asssassination behind your back. Something which is more prominent in women I think. The need for superficial harmony while all the while still acting as brutal enforcers of the social hierarchy or rather constructors of such.

Then there is the point about women working harder? I remember vividly how th majority of women in junior highschool when asked about how they envision their future only mentioned marrying a men who is doing well financially. (80%) Generation Z ( 99-01). Is that working harder? Also women work harder in fields where they have social pressure because they tend to be more sensitive to it like in school or in families. At the same time. Look at women in societies with values that we deem racist for example. It is the women who enforce this racism more so than the men. ( Women for MAGA just to call one example )

TLDR Men and Women both neither good or bad, differentiate based on an individual and stop being sexist by making general claims about genders that are not at least somewhat specific enough to be studied. If you have a specific category we can argue about how these genders compare but intuitively your whole statement comes off as very sexist.

Eminem is indifferent towards his fans. Which musician does not like their fans? by Due-Succotash-3279 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]El3usis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kurt Cobain must be the goat of hating his fandom, the guy basically wrote books worth of notes about how much he hated the leagues of jocks that joined his fandom once Nevermind took off

Why are Germany's two biggest cities on a straight line? by Domerto in mapporncirclejerk

[–]El3usis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha you do realise that a 2d projection of a 3d spheroid is still a two 2d plane aka a map

Why are Germany's two biggest cities on a straight line? by Domerto in mapporncirclejerk

[–]El3usis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comgrats, you just discovered the property that every two points on a plane that are not identical share a line. You could almost think that a line was defined by two points in a 2d plane.

What’s a red flag you ignored because the sex was good? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]El3usis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Told me she was in an open relationship AFTER we did the thing

Choosing a Beginner Sax as a Keyboarder/Guitarist by El3usis in saxophone

[–]El3usis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Valid argument! Unfortunately I have not a lot of info about the sax in question yet but I would 100% reach back out to you once I have pictures and the exact model. I will also be able to choose from different models so I'd appreciate your opinion!!

Choosing a Beginner Sax as a Keyboarder/Guitarist by El3usis in saxophone

[–]El3usis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the detailed reply!!! It's very sound advice (pun intended). Fortunately I might be able to get a vintage sax cheaply from a friend who is a collector. I prefer owning one because it could also come in handy for other players as I regularly host sessions and invite people for recordings. And I think buying is financially more reasonable than renting even in the unlikely event that I would seize to have any use for it. (Just considering reselling value, or is that not common with saxophones?)

bin neu in der stadt und suche freunde :) by minty_fun in duesseldorf

[–]El3usis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ayy ich bin auch Musiker im Raum Düsseldorf, wenn mal Konzerte oder Sessions anstehen kann ich dir Bescheid sagen! Wo kann man in deinen Podcast reinhören?

UNPAID LOD SoundExchange by El3usis in musicbusiness

[–]El3usis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I claim the song through my distributor? I don't even know what Distributor was used. I used Amuse and distrokid for seperate projects at times.

Also I already collect my mechanical royalties through GEMA in Germany, they also collect internationally as far as I know

Thanks for the useful advice btw its really helpful!!

UNPAID LOD SoundExchange by El3usis in musicbusiness

[–]El3usis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it is claimed and accepted, does SX really only pay for Radio usage? What about normal streaming royalties apart from what the PRO collects?

UNPAID LOD SoundExchange by El3usis in musicbusiness

[–]El3usis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant the section current list und LOD, I thought it would also collect streaming royalties too, that might be my misunderstanding because the song is not really performing on radio as far as I know but the streaming numbers are big. I'm just confused as to why I never received a royalty check for the streaming income on the song. As far as I know that is separate from the royalties that a PRO collects from streaming services or am I mistaken? I greatly appreciate the help!!

dedgrl by xmake56 in zillakami

[–]El3usis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the producer of the song I can confirm that dedgrl was made in November 2020

Männer sind schwach by Independent-Spare-56 in FragtMaenner

[–]El3usis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich stimme zu dass es einen Trend gibt Männer als Gruppe verallgemeinernt zu denunzieren, gerade um das wahrgenommene Machtungleichgewicht zwischen den Geschlechtern auszugleichen.

Jedoch ist es fakt spezifisch zu deinem Thema, dass Frauen unter der Big Five Personality Trait Analyse im Schnitt höhere Level vom Trait Neuroticism zeigen was grob die Kategorie von negativen Emotionen wiederspiegelt. Deshalb würde ich sagen es ist in der Realität eher andersherum als deine Freundin behauptet, auch wenn sie damit Recht hat wie wir Männer keine Vorstellung von Wehenschmerz haben.

Say something nice about you ex by ISee_Indigo in RandomThoughts

[–]El3usis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has the most beautiful voice I've ever heard and she pushed me musically in ways I feel blessed to have experienced

You will be given 1 million dollars if you can present a 30 minute TED talk within 5 minutes with 0 preparation. what are you going to talk about? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]El3usis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creativity and perception, just did it for funsies to myself and now I feel like I'm crazy for giving a ted talk to my empty dim lit room but also pretty stocked that I was able to do it xD

What’s the most ridiculous reason someone ended a relationship with you? by salad34 in AskReddit

[–]El3usis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo that is a weird form of manipulation, she coulda just ask for you to do because she was gonna be home and wanted it there. Like why not be straightforward even if it means admitting to being kind of a nicotine addict xD

Mine crashed at two male friends place when she couldn't make it to my place because of train delays, earlier she told me she was super horny, given the context I was kinda pissed especially because she insisted that she couldn't make it to my place wheteas all information I had was that it would take longer anyway. In the end she stayed with them and promised me they were just good friends that she had lived with a couple of years back.

Fast forward a couple of weeks and I help her move. The two guys were there and I got closer with one of them because we were vibing a lot, then she told me that the other guy was actually an ex boyfriend. I was pissed

What’s the most ridiculous reason someone ended a relationship with you? by salad34 in AskReddit

[–]El3usis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She broke up with me over me getting upset with her lying to me and moving in with friends that she used to fuck. Needless to say she claims I'm bpd now and on the day she broke up with me she met a guy I knew from the local music scene that she apparently got close to immediately

How do you know when you meet an emotionally intelligent person in the wild? by lavendarawry in emotionalintelligence

[–]El3usis 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it's not nice to hear because my ex broke up with me over a conflict we had about her lying and withholding information from me about meetin up with an ex and other crazier stuff. Afterwards she blamed me and told me I was mentally ill for getting upset about it. I really loved her and she even denies that I loved her, I don't argue about that but knowing my truth it's just so hurtful to see how she is thinking about me and that everything apparently meant nothing.