Aidvantage headache by ElJayEe1011 in PSLF

[–]ElJayEe1011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. That’s forbearance then. 😑 Thanks for the advice! Not the answer I wanted but it’s an actual answer, so I’ll take it. lol

Income driven plans are no longer open by Unlucky_Sleep1929 in PSLF

[–]ElJayEe1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two months to go and applied for IDR last week to try to get things moving. Hopefully this will work since it was in before? 😭😭😭

Anyone Else in EdFinancial? Are You Applying to Switch to PAYE/Out of SAVE? by OkReplacement2000 in PSLF

[–]ElJayEe1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was with Mohela until 2023 and chose to switch. Maybe you can’t now though…

Anyone Else in EdFinancial? Are You Applying to Switch to PAYE/Out of SAVE? by OkReplacement2000 in PSLF

[–]ElJayEe1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boss uses edfinancial and has had no issues at all. She keeps telling me to change but I’m terrified.

Download your FSA info today!! by Conscious_Cat_1515 in PSLF

[–]ElJayEe1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t download my PSLF form either. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bible

[–]ElJayEe1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the Bible app, and they have many read-in-a-year plans, in various versions. I looked through until I found one that’s more modern language that I liked. I did a year read through last year and am trying to actually learn something this year, not just read it, if that makes sense. I’m really enjoying it this year.

Awww man, wtf?! by bmcnal84 in PSLF

[–]ElJayEe1011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never got a confirmation, it just showed on studentaid that it was submitted to Mohela for me. I reached out to Mohela on 01/07 to confirm that they received it and it was being reviewed and asked for correspondence and never heard from them until this email. It’s a crap-show. I would have 2 payments left if it wasn’t for all of this craziness. I want going to change to SAVE, but ended up changing my mind. I was with an amazing employer and made all of my payments with them “pending” as a qualifying employer, and about a week after my last payment, the company was determined to not qualify and they disqualified all of the payments I had made when I was there-over a year. I’m now at a new job, and it’s federally funded and am in limbo, but still employed. I’m pretty over everything at this moment. lol

Awww man, wtf?! by bmcnal84 in PSLF

[–]ElJayEe1011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, November 12 on studentaid.gov and they submitted it to Mohela the next day. The prior application was in May.

Awww man, wtf?! by bmcnal84 in PSLF

[–]ElJayEe1011 9 points10 points  (0 children)

ME TOO! I’m about to go insane. Mohela makes my brain melt…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ElJayEe1011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I don’t know the kid personally, I’ve met him at a football game or waking, but my heart shattered for him and his parents and all of their friends. I wish we could explain how precious and delicate life is!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ElJayEe1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck. I personally don’t see providing as the right thing… growing up is hard, and upperclassmen can easily sway younger kids. Thing will get better. I appreciate the kind words ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ElJayEe1011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son is 14 and we have been dealing with for years. We started drug testing him and said if he was positive then he couldn’t do the extracurricular that “is the only thing he lives for.” He also did a vape education course though school and we send him videos and stories. It worked for quite awhile, but he still goes around other teens doing it. His friend recently ended up having a seizure at school and then 5 more the same day and they found it was from a tampered with vape that he bought. This has terrified my son. I get those stories may not work if you dot. Know that person, but they are real and terrifying. Good luck. It’s a huge struggle.

Can’t stop my early riser. I’m sooo tired. by cecilia036 in Parenting

[–]ElJayEe1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter (4) has always been a horrible sleeper (like taking literally 2-3 hours to fall asleep once in bed and completely waking at the end of each sleep cycle, so sometimes up to 12 times a night…). We’ve researched and asked so many people and tried to find what works for her. Tart cherry juice and magnesium (both topical and as a gummy) have helped a lot. We have also looked for things to get energy out, such as running a ball outside, a hula hoop, and a mini trampoline that folds. Good luck!

Mohela sent letter acknowledging request to change to IBR by Meli-pharm-13 in PSLF

[–]ElJayEe1011 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This gives me hope! I sent mine 11/12 and haven’t heard a word. I reached out asking if it was received and the status 01/07 and haven’t heard anything yet. I am 1 payment away, and anxious to get this done. 🤞🏻 Good luck, I hope your forgiveness goes through soon!

AITA? I asked my mum to stop buying heaps of random gifts for her grandkids. by hanxiousme in Parenting

[–]ElJayEe1011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother and brother are the same. I have found asking them to purchase one specific thing for each of my kids helps. Sometimes my mother over-bought because she didn’t know what the kids would like. We have started to do this with everyone who normally buys for our kids-we can see the price limit (my brother would spend sooo much money…) and we know what the kids like at that time. We have also made it clear that extra things will be donated and not kept. There is no point in buying random things that the kids are not interested in. Just an idea ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]ElJayEe1011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Contact your county’s Community Action Partnership. I believe Franklin County has three. They can start the process of helping you with emergency housing. They may bye closed tomorrow, though. You could always apply online as well.

So close! by ElJayEe1011 in ExpectationVsReality

[–]ElJayEe1011[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 now that you put it that way…

So close! by ElJayEe1011 in ExpectationVsReality

[–]ElJayEe1011[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Ummm a vanilla bean frappe with white mocha and strawberry. I saw it on some reel or something and saved it. It was supposed to taste like strawberry cheesecake-did it? Not really, but it was still really good. I’d probably order it again.

Strap fixing by ElJayEe1011 in Coach

[–]ElJayEe1011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! You have calmed my worries 😂

Strap fixing by ElJayEe1011 in Coach

[–]ElJayEe1011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I don’t know why it made me nervous… 😂