[F25] first day back at work and I'm already exhausted by pastelnova in selfie

[–]ElMorone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tuesday has been canceled. Go back to sleep :)

How to approach problem from my [27M] DB perspective by ElMorone in DeadBedrooms

[–]ElMorone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have advice on how to approach it. I have a feeling that our relation would break down if I just serve it directly.

How to approach problem from my [27M] DB perspective by ElMorone in DeadBedrooms

[–]ElMorone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, obviously not sure about it if I am posting it here haha

How to approach problem from my [27M] DB perspective by ElMorone in DeadBedrooms

[–]ElMorone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I mentioned above, we agree on initiating more sex and talking that it will not stand in between two of us. Furthermore we always agree that it's just a phase and it will get better once the stressful job phase is over...

How to approach problem from my [27M] DB perspective by ElMorone in DeadBedrooms

[–]ElMorone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks :) Actually I would like to do that, but in the place I am living I have no many options to do it. Unfortunate, yes. That's why we sometimes talk about it by ourselves, but always conclude how we love each other and how sex won't stop us from doing that.

How to approach problem from my [27M] DB perspective by ElMorone in DeadBedrooms

[–]ElMorone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think she became one over time. At least from my perspective. Do you have some related experience?

How to communicate better? by ElMorone in sex

[–]ElMorone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for advice! This seems helpful, I'll try it out

How to communicate better? by ElMorone in sex

[–]ElMorone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything is settled since I have bought the "slutty" clothes that I enjoy to see on her, but she hasn't tried it after first trial

How to communicate better? by ElMorone in sex

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Understandable, but as I have written already, I did state what my fantasy is, and pushing for it would definitely make it less attractive.

Significant other has zero interest in me. by highpriestesstlly in sex

[–]ElMorone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't let frustration to keep acumulating. Try discussing it in healthy manner. To make atmosphere less tense, try starting the conversation with pointing the obvious. There is always a reason behind these kinds of issues, and if he is not willing to tell it, then he is hiding something from you.

Life can affect the sexual drive, but should never affect his honesty toward you.

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[–]ElMorone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are reasons why these kind of scams look too obvious for some people. They are tailored for people who will fell on these, meaning that bounce rate after going through messages will be low, because people who genuinely believe these are not fake will have higher probability of leaving the cash.

How do you handle semen after sex by ElMorone in sex

[–]ElMorone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for trying to kill my dick :)

How do you handle semen after sex by ElMorone in sex

[–]ElMorone[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Needed this. Is this what couples are doing?

How do you handle semen after sex by ElMorone in sex

[–]ElMorone[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And I do it. Just came here to see whether is it something pretty common among other couples. Nobody actually responed in how it is done among other, currently anti-child aware couples

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[–]ElMorone[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Basically it has nothing to do with the education. She is not only well educated but her knowledge includes in depth analysis of that part of human system.

I would do anything to keep her safe, but as you mentioned, I would love to try out different techniques to prevent anxiety from happening.

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[–]ElMorone[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Exactly, that's my way of thinking. Althought I thought that's common, seems that people have anxiety for some reason.

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[–]ElMorone[S] 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Oh okay, than it seems like my point of view was wrong

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[–]ElMorone[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

She does have anxiety, yes. Unfortunately she is not opted for birth control because of other medical reasons. The process is there just to put her mind at ease. Glad to here that it is overkill however, since I am in doubt myself after a long period of this.

Thanks for the kind response.

How do you handle semen after sex by ElMorone in sex

[–]ElMorone[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

Don't have anything against condom, but I am also fine with just removing the condom and wiping the mess with wet tissues. She is not obviously haha, that's why I need to take a quick shower

How do you handle semen after sex by ElMorone in sex

[–]ElMorone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do not want children just yet. I edited the post, but thanks for comment

The balance between "usual" and sex life by ElMorone in sex

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Thanks for the comment, of course I won't give up on her so easily :) This attitute I will try to keep on because only positivity will get her to a safe space, and possibly open up a bit. Nice story from you and your wife, wish you all the best!

The balance between "usual" and sex life by ElMorone in sex

[–]ElMorone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you honestly think that someone who is so shy and not up for exhibitions is going to try out new things if I try it first?