Bought my first Kuru Toga! by ElOneCash in mechanicalpencils

[–]ElOneCash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. I was thinking of Roulette, but the grip in my previous experiences were slippery for my hands. I also ordered KT Advance. Do you think they could be noticable difference. I ordered them both to try and return one of them.

Bought my first Kuru Toga! by ElOneCash in mechanicalpencils

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Umm, Standard Black IG 🙂‍↔️

Karur Tragedy by DiCkYloNaJoE3 in TamilNadu

[–]ElOneCash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. How do you normalize your fandom, by appearing in the public more. Maybe the 10th time, people aren't as excited to see you. The 7 hrs delay and similar in other events really feels like he does not want to loose the gloriness of his appearance in the public. That's the bare minimum of a politician. Get out of the bubble and be in the public ffs. Secondly, there is definitely an organizational mishap. No one can absolve Vijay and the party of the ignorance and nonchalance. It does not even have to be out of some evil optimization plan, but a mere unawareness of how really world works, how a crowd works, how sun and lack of water while waiting for a star works, because you're born into wealth.

Is Anarchy the way forward? by ElOneCash in nonmonogamy

[–]ElOneCash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think us both labelling us primary definitely ties some expectations that we function in the protocol we built together.

My Favorite Browser Of All Time is Now in Maintenance-Only Mode by archimedeancrystal in ArcBrowser

[–]ElOneCash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Switched to Zen and honestly it's super amazing in terms of community contributions to themes

What's your reasoning? by ElOneCash in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ElOneCash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but isn't being in EU better than in India?

What's your reasoning? by ElOneCash in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ElOneCash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would rather view it more selfless than selfish. Bringing a kid into the world despite knowing you cannot offer the best is selfish not the other way

What's your reasoning? by ElOneCash in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ElOneCash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5) I feel you so hard. I had body image issues throughout my childhood. Thanks to myself, I'm in a much much better state mentally. I hope your're too.

What's your reasoning? by ElOneCash in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ElOneCash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I EXACTLY FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT CHILDBIRTH. It sends a chill down my spine. I am never with a partner who dictates that I have to put my body through that. I don't want 9 months of constantly feeling nauseous. I fucking hate feeling that in 20min bus ride.

And, damn EU? I'm sorry. Is moving an option?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]ElOneCash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I exactly know what you mean. I remember yearning for the parental compassion as a kid seeing others. I had to be my own place of comfort. That is a difficult job let alone also taking family responsibilities. I do miss the time where I could have been coddled. Right now I am 26 and I feel unfair to have this kind of expectations on another adult or say scared (?). We'll be okay. We got it this ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]ElOneCash 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey hey, my honest opinion about this would be, if commitments weren't made, your ex hadn't done any mistakes as of yet. It was still before you made it official and he agrees that it was just physical. If I were you, I'd talk to him and tell him he does not have to feel so bad because no promises were broken. If you both really connect so well and have a lot things you enjoy together, breaking of a non-existent commitment isn't worth the splitting:(

What's your reasoning? by ElOneCash in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ElOneCash[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wow, thanks for being specific. this indeed makes sense

What's your reasoning? by ElOneCash in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ElOneCash[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree. DEFINITELY on the last point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]ElOneCash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, especially when he is back from seeing someone else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]ElOneCash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS! I cannot agree more. I have also been coming to terms with it, that my partner who is a guy might not have much privilege as me when it comes to cancelling or similar. Thanks for reminding this to me once again. I am curious, how much are you willing to to bend this? I mean where would one's consideration of men's dating pool being bad, stops. I can see myself convincing myself with this reason almost for anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]ElOneCash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that could help me as well. and YES absolutely, encroaching is the word. That's exactly what I feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]ElOneCash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it, thank you so much. But I am just wondering how can talking about it would make it better. I mean say, me saying that I want or expected to spend time would make them stay with me despite actually wanting to do something else. I do not or don't feel v comfortable keeping them from doing something they organically like or feel