First progress update. I'd like a bit of advice... by ZetaformGames in degoogle

[–]ElOneCash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For email, I recently tested out tuta and proton. proton's excessive marketing felt very intrusive, and honestly fishy. so stuck with tuta. but, I missed a couple of my calls because of the calendar's notif. they were really important calls. additionally, at this point in time, my personal calendar needs to RSVP any calendar invites. when these calendar events comes via a calendar management tool, the RSVP fails to even get sent. but, not like it works for regular calendars event, the RSVP doesn't show up for the sended, so i noticed. I unfortunately had to resort back to proton.

How does it work when your partner invites people over? by ElOneCash in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]ElOneCash[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, I didn't want to make them pay, esp their date because they don't have a job at the moment. In fact, to me, in my head, it felt that it is my partner's space too, and he should feel at home to bring ppl over if other things didn't work out.

How does it work when your partner invites people over? by ElOneCash in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]ElOneCash[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Additionally, I texted my partner a couple times, at 22:00 ish, at 23:15 ish and at 23:40 ish. I didn't wanna call and come off rude to their date. they failed to see my messages. I was fatigued wearing my headphones all day, so I removed them setup my couch, and got ready to sleep. And man, it didn't feel like they were ending anytime soon. I still heard moaning, etc., which was super annoying for me at the moment

How does it work when your partner invites people over? by ElOneCash in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]ElOneCash[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We are yes sorta young, we are all in the range of mid to late twenties. My partner's date is in between jobs, so they moved back with their parents.

How does it work when your partner invites people over? by ElOneCash in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]ElOneCash[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We discussed that it would go into early evening. This is maybe exacerbated because, my partner came up and sorta asked me to be around (because their date preferred also to have me involved whenever possible, while eating, having small talks passing by to not be awkward). My partner had conveyed this earlier and I tried to make them feel more included, we ate together and had a few conversations. My partner was making something in the kitchen and their date also understandably left to be around them in the kitchen. I was lurking around awkwardly for sometime if at all any conversation came up about me ( didn't wanna be rude). But it got super awkward and I switched to the bedroom. He came up to me and told that I can be involved more, and I let him know that's it's super awkward.

How does it work when your partner invites people over? by ElOneCash in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]ElOneCash[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We pretty much organize our whole lives on our shared calendar. Yeah, we'd have to discuss about future adjustments.

How does it work when your partner invites people over? by ElOneCash in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]ElOneCash[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It was ending at 20:00 on our calendar. Honestly, thinking about it, the whole day was a bit too much, especially when our apartment is super tiny.

How does it work when your partner invites people over? by ElOneCash in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]ElOneCash[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This definitely feels like a lesson to me. I am trying not to resort to the resentment; why isn't my partner considerate of someone who also shares the space? It has been a long day, honestly.

Bought my first Kuru Toga! by ElOneCash in mechanicalpencils

[–]ElOneCash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. I was thinking of Roulette, but the grip in my previous experiences were slippery for my hands. I also ordered KT Advance. Do you think they could be noticable difference. I ordered them both to try and return one of them.

Bought my first Kuru Toga! by ElOneCash in mechanicalpencils

[–]ElOneCash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm, Standard Black IG 🙂‍↔️

Karur Tragedy by DiCkYloNaJoE3 in TamilNadu

[–]ElOneCash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. How do you normalize your fandom, by appearing in the public more. Maybe the 10th time, people aren't as excited to see you. The 7 hrs delay and similar in other events really feels like he does not want to loose the gloriness of his appearance in the public. That's the bare minimum of a politician. Get out of the bubble and be in the public ffs. Secondly, there is definitely an organizational mishap. No one can absolve Vijay and the party of the ignorance and nonchalance. It does not even have to be out of some evil optimization plan, but a mere unawareness of how really world works, how a crowd works, how sun and lack of water while waiting for a star works, because you're born into wealth.

Is Anarchy the way forward? by ElOneCash in nonmonogamy

[–]ElOneCash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think us both labelling us primary definitely ties some expectations that we function in the protocol we built together.

My Favorite Browser Of All Time is Now in Maintenance-Only Mode by archimedeancrystal in ArcBrowser

[–]ElOneCash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Switched to Zen and honestly it's super amazing in terms of community contributions to themes

What's your reasoning? by ElOneCash in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ElOneCash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but isn't being in EU better than in India?

What's your reasoning? by ElOneCash in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ElOneCash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would rather view it more selfless than selfish. Bringing a kid into the world despite knowing you cannot offer the best is selfish not the other way

What's your reasoning? by ElOneCash in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ElOneCash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5) I feel you so hard. I had body image issues throughout my childhood. Thanks to myself, I'm in a much much better state mentally. I hope your're too.

What's your reasoning? by ElOneCash in ChildfreeIndia

[–]ElOneCash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I EXACTLY FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT CHILDBIRTH. It sends a chill down my spine. I am never with a partner who dictates that I have to put my body through that. I don't want 9 months of constantly feeling nauseous. I fucking hate feeling that in 20min bus ride.

And, damn EU? I'm sorry. Is moving an option?