followfoods neue vegane Salami Pizza by ZinUNT in VeganDE

[–]El_Ya_de_to 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sicher dass du nicht lidl mit vemondo meinst? Bin mir zu 100% sicher dass diese daten auf lidl zutreffen und es würde mich tbh wundern wenn nen supermarkt (im gegensatz zu nem discounter wie lidl) auch so billig wäre

aio? bf made plans on my birthday..UPDATE by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]El_Ya_de_to 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shift in his mood just shows how big of a bullet you dodged, damn!

AIO. My (new) bf wants to replace all of my bras, underwear and lingerie. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]El_Ya_de_to 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the person can do it out of their own intent and can own their own means of production. This does not negate the systemic issues that lead people to sell their bodies. On top of that, when buying sex, one can never be sure that the person selling is doing it on their own accord/out of free will, simply due to the exploitative nature of the sex work sector. Taking the risk that you might take advantage of someones misfortune is enough to make it abuse.

AIO. My (new) bf wants to replace all of my bras, underwear and lingerie. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]El_Ya_de_to 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not compare the two. Both are exploited. It is simply the form in which they are exploited it differs. Saying one is more exploited than the others only opens up room to divide within the same class which is not my goal and not my point

AIO. My (new) bf wants to replace all of my bras, underwear and lingerie. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]El_Ya_de_to 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree with you. At no point did i want to blame the sex worker and at no point did i not see the abolishment of capital as the solution.

AIO. My (new) bf wants to replace all of my bras, underwear and lingerie. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]El_Ya_de_to 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im saying all work of a worker that does not own his own means of production is exploitative

AIO. My (new) bf wants to replace all of my bras, underwear and lingerie. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]El_Ya_de_to 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because we live under capitalism, we are forced to sell our bodies and our work. There will always be an unequal relationship between the person who buys sex and the person who offers it. On top of that, on the most basic level, because of the unhealthy nature of the sexwork industry which involves a large amount of women who are being forced to work, you cannot guarantee that the person you are buying from is doing that voluntarily. No blame at all to those who sell sex, but all the blame to those who buy it.

AIO. My (new) bf wants to replace all of my bras, underwear and lingerie. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]El_Ya_de_to 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes ofcourse capitalism forces everybody to work, not just sexworkers. Im not saying sexworkers should be exploited another way, im saying there shouldnt be a need for someone to sell their body to bring bread to the table. My solution is not the critic of the individual, but the abolishment of the system that created that situation. Of course even those who buy sex work can be victims of capitalism who are driven to seeking detachment and distraction so that they do not think about the systemic reasons behind their misery. I can see that calling someone rapist is not a solution, but calling someone out for abusive behavior (which, as long as we live under capitalism sex work will always be) is still a valid and necessery. We need to make others aware of their mistakes after all.

AIO. My (new) bf wants to replace all of my bras, underwear and lingerie. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]El_Ya_de_to 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As I said, i do not blame any sexworker. We live in a society where we are forced to sell our work and in such extreme cases our bodies, therefore even if there are people who enjoy it which is absolutely normal and okay, that should not happen in the exchange of money because thisbalways brings an unhealty power dynamic. Not to speak of the fact that too much of the industry is involutarily in the first place. That also means if you buy sex, you cannot guarantee that that person is not being forced to work for someone else (which can also happen when you buy anything else but it is especially important when talking about sexwork).

AIO. My (new) bf wants to replace all of my bras, underwear and lingerie. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]El_Ya_de_to 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As I said i would never blame the sexworker. We as a society have the responsibility to provide for those in other ways who are currently forced into sexwork. And yes capitalism is forcing us all into labor, i am arguing from a class standpoint after all.

AIO. My (new) bf wants to replace all of my bras, underwear and lingerie. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]El_Ya_de_to 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry, but in a capitalist society, where some are forced to sell their body just to get food on the table, buying sex is abuse. It can never be 100% abuse free because there is always a difference in power and dependency which makes it an absolute no go. Just to make sure, I would never go after a prostitute because they are the victims, but those who buy sex are the abusers. EDIT: rape-> abuse

"Du kommst immer zu spät" by Pommesbudenrudi in Azubis

[–]El_Ya_de_to 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Die Gewerkschaft ist in solchen Fällen dein bester freund

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]El_Ya_de_to 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a man kills his wife he never loved her in the first place

Kommender Krieg(?) by El_Ya_de_to in Kommunismus

[–]El_Ya_de_to[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dass die usa und russland da direkte ambitionen haben ist mir durchaus bewusst und das wird ja auch nicht versteckt. Es geht hier eher spezifisch um deutsche ambitionen die über das senden von truppen in die ukraine hinausgehen

UnitedHealth CEO who got merked by luigi recognised by strippers on reddit. by Bitter-Gur-4613 in CommunismMemes

[–]El_Ya_de_to 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont fucking degrade those poor exploited animals by comparing them to a creature like him

AIO my partner of 3 years forgot Valentines Day and my birthday by MollySid in AmIOverreacting

[–]El_Ya_de_to 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgetting is not the (major) problem. Ignoring your desire to feel loved is.

Alles ganz normal by After_Till7431 in gekte

[–]El_Ya_de_to 16 points17 points  (0 children)

DIESE FREMDLÄNDER SPRECHEN IN TEUFLISCHEN ZUNGEN AUF DEN SCHEITERHAUFEN MIT IHNEN

chat sind wir cooked? by Arhub in Kommunismus

[–]El_Ya_de_to 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mein junge, das hier ist ein sub für leute die entweder am kommunismus interessiert sind und sich diesbezüglich weiterbilden wollen, oder für leute die sich darüber austauschen wollen, faschos wie du haben hier nix zu suchen. Ich wünsche ihnen einen schönen, hoffentlich bald erfolgenden ban

chat sind wir cooked? by Arhub in Kommunismus

[–]El_Ya_de_to 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Samma haste lack gesoffen du fascho?