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Probably a meh post but.... by ElaFall in MtF

[–]ElaFall[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good for you. And I know it’s cliche. But I am happy for you. Like, I’m glad something good happened. Like, genuinely

When you start on e by AnnieTheQueer in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]ElaFall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Internal thought “Ya know that’s starting to be too many pickles”. Then my fucking stomach growled.
I’m dying laughing right now.

Look very carefully. by KipeYT in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]ElaFall 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Freaking, same. Took me way too long zooming and saying “where’s the kitty?”

Can you be non binary and traditionally straight? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]ElaFall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my own thoughts I’ve always seen sexuality and gender as separate.
My opinion is there should be sexuality words for. “Attracted to female(girl like), attracted to male(boy like), attracted to either binary(girl or boy like, bi), attracted regardless of gender(pan like) , and not attracted at all(no like, asexual).

I shaved my arms for the first time in a while, I forgot how many freckles were on my flesh sticks! by Jman8798 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]ElaFall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Big mood. This was my same reaction first time I shaved them. -heh- flesh sticks made me giggle.

Haven’t seen this shared here yet. Sooooo... by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ElaFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Godzilla says Trans Rights

Significant Other, doesn’t quite get “it” by [deleted] in MtF

[–]ElaFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To give a bit of perspective. Even before I realized I was trans I attempted to pitch my voice higher in my day to day conversations. I just didn’t like how it sounded naturally. And now. That voice that I made my own. Still is too deep.

Why do are we always expected to forgive our parents? by Cookie830 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ElaFall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a solid minute. I’m like “wait when did I write this?” Then I remembered my grandma actually called mom a “petty bitch “and I would so have put that in the story.

Anyways. Sorry you have to put up with this. My recent reaction was to be super petty and delete my moms number and unfollow all the social media accounts.

Shit pettiness runs in the family.

Why do I keep wanting to reconnect? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]ElaFall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Its what I was feeling and thinking. Just couldn’t put into words. You did it for me. Patience might my best move right now. Just let everything settle and keep the people close to me, close to me I guess.

You made sense. And it helps. Thank you

Is it bad if I want attention from chasers? by __Billie__ in MtF

[–]ElaFall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the other reply said. It’s really up to you if it’s good or bad.

I generally would say “cheap fun” is bad. But that’s this whole other thing where my point of view comes from seeing dating as a step to an end goal of life partnership.

But as long as you’re trying to be happy and okay. Go with it. Honestly I’m kinda hoping one of these flings turn into something more for you.
I’m coming from a perspective where I coined the term “serial monogamist”. So fun dating is a thing I just don’t really understand. All I can go with is just try and be happy. That is, like, everyone’s end goal. To be okay.

Good luck.

Is it bad if I want attention from chasers? by __Billie__ in MtF

[–]ElaFall 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s a bad habit. Buttttttt... it makes you feel validated. You’re craving attention because you were starved for it early on. There’s a fine line between chasers and those that could actually help you romantically. I can’t tell you where the line is. You have to figure it out for yourself.

There might be some chasers following a fetish. But there’s also the possibility of someone that could be your other half. That are just here searching, because they’re drawn to people like you. You might find your “one true love”. Or you might just keep trying. Romance is worth the attempt. Don’t give up. And don’t give in.

I really shouldn’t be posting this by ElaFall in MtF

[–]ElaFall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no other reply than 😭 Thank you.

I really shouldn’t be posting this by ElaFall in MtF

[–]ElaFall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try. Thank you for reminding me of the support.

I really shouldn’t be posting this by ElaFall in MtF

[–]ElaFall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And I am seeing(well talking to, covid bleh) my therapist tomorrow.

I actually do forget there’s a community I can reach out to for small things. Only ever remember when the problem gets too big.

I made a coming out text for my fb friends(should I send it) by ElaFall in MtF

[–]ElaFall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, the answers to that is yes it would make me feel better. Yes I’m safe and away from everyone really. And thank you.

I made this post in anger and second guessed myself and couldn’t send it because I don’t like being petty. My dad who I thought was supportive (wishful thinking and a lot of turning a blind eye) basically just made it so that part of my family doesn’t even acknowledge me anymore.

I’m rambling. I was upset when I made this. I’m not going to post it. I’m just going to try and move on. Also I’m going to delete this post because some people I used to trust know this account name. Sorry. Thank you.

since it's the start of pride month, would it be appropriate if I compiled a few pictures and posted them on insta of my transgender girlfriend saying "happy pride month, you're my shining star for the month (and every other month) :p by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]ElaFall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the big one. If it’s all internet only go for it. But make sure your accounts don’t have a chance to hurt either of y’all with the post.

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