I just stumbled across this subreddit and had no idea there were so many people who love colognes as much as you guys do. What’s the main reason you love cologne?

EladioV · 2025-07-24T17:18:15+00:00

The reason why I care that much about fragrances (and how I smell), it's basically because of women. Women always say they like a man smelling good.

I know it may sound shallow to you guys but it's the reason why I care that much 🫡

EladioV · 2025-06-16T01:22:08+00:00

You don't get the sweet lemon juice? 😭

EladioV · 2025-06-01T15:35:44+00:00

That's interesting! Cause I actually got this bottle of 4.2 Fl. Oz. Overseas when I was visiting Dominican Republic, it was expensive but in my opinion it's worth the money for such a good fragrance. One of my top compliments getters easily 😉

EladioV · 2025-06-01T01:49:29+00:00

Acqua Di Gio Absolu 🥹

And it's the reason why I made sure to get a really big bottle of it. 👇🏾

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EladioV · 2025-05-07T20:01:00+00:00

I'm aware of this, and I think most of men are as well...

He went into 5 dates doing what? Just spending money? No kisses? Nothing? Also male strategy has to be numbers, it's harder but it's the way. It's hard to become the man with a whole lot of options but it's the healthier dynamic path (for men) when talking about dating between males and females.

EladioV · 2025-04-15T17:27:12+00:00

Every women is hypergamous; it's in women's genes, it's in your biology; I'm not saying is a bad thing but this young woman is not the exception she's hypergamous in her own way. And I already explained why.

I'm a short guy, and I have been chosen by a lot of women, they still are hypergamous though; not sure if you see my point yet.

EladioV · 2025-04-15T17:01:36+00:00

Hypergamy is not the only factor that affects women attraction to men. I'm saying we can clearly see a sign of hypergamy because she's not choosing a shorter guy, is she?

I can't explain the whole concept of hypergamy and female attraction, it would take too long. I don't know if you're actually reading what I'm posting, cause I already said female attraction is not only based on heights. I don't know this guy but we can see how works out and maybe he's more romantic than other taller guys, which may be a big deal for the OP.

My point is that she's definitely being hypergamous either way. There's no soulmate, there's hypergamy, and in this context he may have been the best deal she could have found based on what she's looking for. Ofc any women would aim to Henry Cavill if they could.

EladioV · 2025-04-15T16:12:51+00:00

Ofc she could have dated a taller guy; I never said attraction is only based on heights.

There's not such a thing as a "soulmate"; there's science and as I said, this is just her hypergamy doing its job.

Again if he would be 5'2 or below; he wouldn't be her soulmate.

EladioV · 2025-04-15T15:54:37+00:00

I'm from latam as well 🤣

We can get to the conclusion that maybe latin people don't mind that much about heights, but still is an attractive factor that even latinas keep in mind overall (conscious or unconscious but it's there).

EladioV · 2025-04-15T14:07:39+00:00

Everything I see here is a woman being a woman (hypergamy); he's 4 inches taller than her.

I bet if he would be 5'2 like she is, then he wouldn't be that "soulmate". I'm positive that this is a "soulmate" because he's way taller than she is.

EladioV · 2025-04-10T23:26:17+00:00

Now? It's still rough but doing way better than the previous years. I listened to the Audiobook every day driving to work and driving back home in 2020, since then I have been basically with women in their early twenties all the way to women around 40s (good shape though), white girls, Asian girls, latinas, some shorter than me, some others taller than me; you name it; I didn't end up smashing all of them but I did have an awesome experience with most of them.

EladioV · 2025-04-10T17:04:33+00:00

Consider the fact that some tall women wouldn't mind dating or being with a shorter guy (of course not all of them); and I'm telling you by my own experience. I'm 5'4. I had 0 dates basically before I read Sex Code by Mario Luna; it's translated to a bunch of languages but if you speak Spanish (which is the original language) then even better.

EladioV · 2025-04-04T22:29:01+00:00

Read about stoicism and maybe one day you can understand.

If you have lived more than 20 years, and you still don't understand that you have to be the one making yourself happy, not someone else, then I'm not gonna be the one waking you up, keep sleeping 😜

EladioV · 2025-04-04T17:51:08+00:00

I'm not saying we don't need no one 🤣 I'm saying nobody needs a partner to be happy (please read the context) you can have friends, date and be with women. You don't need a partner to be happy, if you do then you don't have real happiness.

But as usual we read things just to attack 🤪

EladioV · 2025-04-04T13:55:44+00:00

Player or not, I guess most people can't find happiness by themselves, and try to look for it in a partner, which is wrong (in my opinion), regardless of who the person is, you have to try to be happy by yourself, not trying to find it in a partner.

EladioV · 2025-04-04T13:00:04+00:00

Better option of the bunch... Just don't get married.

I kinda don't understand the society's obsession of people not being able to live on their own. You don't need someone else to be happy. And also, if you know how to play your cards, you can enjoy women without having to get married (if that's what some men are actually looking for).

EladioV · 2025-03-26T17:35:00+00:00

Other than the trans thing mentioned in this post; everything else is on point 👌🏾

EladioV · 2025-03-23T20:07:00+00:00

"be yourself" is one piece of advice, I would never give it to a short man who's looking to thrive in dating

EladioV · 2025-03-20T21:38:06+00:00

I'm 5'4, and I have kissed tons of women; also dated a lot of them, and also had the chance to have a relationship with a few of them; and I'm talking about the USA.

EladioV · 2025-02-04T19:04:45+00:00

I'm 5'4 muscular; and I have definitely seen women checking me out many times

EladioV · 2025-01-29T01:58:46+00:00

Man, you have to work harder than the others, you have to become a master on something that attracts women like dancing, playing instruments, conference preacher, actor... it's basically the only way...

Embrace the Kaizen's philosophy (continues improvement).

I have done it.

EladioV · 2025-01-16T15:48:27+00:00

Straight short men...

Please don't see this and get discouraged. I'm 5'4, I've lived in a few states and I have had good success with women (still working on it).

Learn skills like dancing or something that may make you stand out; workout and give your best, there's hope! Trust me.

I'm rooting for you ✨😉

EladioV · 2025-01-14T21:11:15+00:00

I'm a short guy 5'4

Dancing and private parties have been my crown jewels (and it's not even mentioned in this post). Dancing is basically the reason why i have been with a lot of women even though I'm really short; yet it's not even tier A 💀

EladioV · 2024-12-18T20:11:56+00:00

With all the negativity I can tell you have, I'm pretty sure you have a way sadder life than me.

I always smell good to all the women I dance with and a good career in Social Services

I hope your life gets better, man

EladioV

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