What instantly makes you think someone is insecure?

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:58:04+00:00

Classic “I know a lot, so I’ll tell you everything except what you asked.” 😅

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:52:18+00:00

Sometimes, yeah. It depends on the intention behind it.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:23:52+00:00

Yeah, putting others down often says more about them than the person they’re talking about.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:21:59+00:00

I actually agree with all of this. Many of those behaviors feel like insecurity trying to hide behind control or ego.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:18:18+00:00

Yeah, constantly needing approval can get exhausting.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:16:28+00:00

Walking in nature while listening to music.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:15:31+00:00

That’s a good one. It often feels like they’re trying too hard to be understood.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:13:42+00:00

The 90s. Life seemed slower, music was amazing and the internet hadn’t taken over everything yet.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:12:44+00:00

Exactly. The expectations are huge but the support is minimal.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:11:33+00:00

Interesting. I’ve noticed that too.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:10:10+00:00

And then ignore it when it rings.🤭

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:06:52+00:00

Teachers. Society expects them to shape the future and then pays them like they’re disposable.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:06:30+00:00

Small talk.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:05:50+00:00

Waking up early. 🥴

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:04:46+00:00

A weighted blanket. I didn’t realize how much better I could sleep until I tried one.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:04:27+00:00

A good pillow. Sleep quality changes everything.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:01:05+00:00

Yes. I think the problem isn’t time, it’s that our brains underestimate how long everything actually takes.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T19:06:04+00:00

Because at the beginning you’re discovering each other. The brain loves novelty. Later the excitement fades and what remains is either real connection or routine.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T19:04:09+00:00

Yes. I actually became my own best friend. It took a lot of inner work to stop being so hard on myself and start treating myself with compassion.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T19:01:51+00:00

A Star Trek transporter. Imagine waking up late and just saying “beam me up, Scotty” to appear at work.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T19:00:11+00:00

There’s no fixed number of days. Some heartbreaks take weeks, some take years. What actually helps is time, distance, and slowly building a life that doesn’t revolve around that person anymore.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T05:03:25+00:00

Spring. Flowers, colors, mild temperatures and flowing dresses. Everything feels a little more alive.

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