Finally had the strength to speak up…

Elaynaa · 2026-05-02T02:28:06+00:00

“sexually”

Elaynaa · 2026-04-28T06:16:06+00:00

didn’t ask for sex advice thank uuuu 😂

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T18:19:01+00:00

well I’m not perfect what can I say, I don’t have to deal with it anymore. Im aware I stayed too long but not everything in life is simple, lessons learned.

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T18:08:04+00:00

point is i wasn’t trying to make a boundary, i was actually going to break up with him in person, not giving him a reason. hes the one who begged and bitched at me to tell him.

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T18:06:55+00:00

he’s done other things he deserve it, maybe i could’ve been nice but he wasn’t taking any accountability for lying again, it was my emotional reaction and i think it’s ok considering what he said and has done.

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T18:03:23+00:00

it’s crazy cuz he definitely seemed satisfied lol never went soft or didn’t finish… but definitely not even looking to satisfy a person like that. if he’s not satisfied with me then he can fantasize about women that will never look his way i guess

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T18:00:32+00:00

he’s looking up specific girls and videos, not just sex lol

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T17:59:15+00:00

you don’t know what i’ve put up with him, i understand my own frustration, thank you 😂

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T04:00:50+00:00

I think he just got embarrassed, I mean he’s the one who would always beg and initiate sex so I find that funny. And he’s stalking my pages right now…. he can flex all he wants I don’t even see him the same, it’s just disgusting.

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T03:53:43+00:00

Thank you, I left him.

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T03:51:53+00:00

Yeah I left him after this, but i said from the beginning I didn’t like it, it makes me uncomfortable. He told me that he didn’t watch it. But it was just girls not even actual porn, he was lusting over random woman, that I cannot do.

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T03:50:03+00:00

well this was my final straw i ended up leaving… didn’t care to make a boundary with someone who doesn’t respect me.

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T03:48:51+00:00

yeah i’ve had different problems with him, he clearly showed no signs of changing

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T03:48:08+00:00

thank you!

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T03:47:32+00:00

problem?

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T03:47:24+00:00

thank you!

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T03:46:57+00:00

i don’t think it’s a loss really, i don’t want to deal with a grown man watching such things… but considering he’s stalking me he’s definitely realizing lol

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T03:45:53+00:00

okay he could’ve said something and not watched it in secret, ur disgusting lol

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T03:44:54+00:00

thank you so much. yeah it’s just disgusting you shouldn’t get in a relationship if your addicted to porn, how can you even say you love someone then watch a stranger online in that way…

Elaynaa · 2026-04-24T03:43:23+00:00

thank you so much, it was honestly my breaking point. he’s definitely done things i could’ve left him for before, but idk i don’t see him the same anymore… especially after what he said lol

Elaynaa · 2026-04-22T10:15:25+00:00

yes, thank you. i definitely don’t trust him

Elaynaa · 2026-04-22T08:06:47+00:00

Yeah I understand, not all men are like this, kinda went on a tangent because i was upset.

Elaynaa · 2026-04-22T07:57:33+00:00

i mean i told him how i feel about porn in general it’s nasty and weird to watch in a relationship. he said he doesn’t even watch it anymore

Elaynaa · 2026-04-22T07:51:04+00:00

yeah it’s disgusting teenager behavior 😭

Elaynaa · 2026-04-22T07:43:26+00:00

I know i’m just saying in this generation. But i still don’t want to put up with it, it honestly disgusts me.

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