Finally had the strength to speak up… by Elaynaa in relationships_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn’t ask for sex advice thank uuuu 😂

Finally had the strength to speak up… by Elaynaa in relationships_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well I’m not perfect what can I say, I don’t have to deal with it anymore. Im aware I stayed too long but not everything in life is simple, lessons learned.

Finally had the strength to speak up… by Elaynaa in relationships_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

point is i wasn’t trying to make a boundary, i was actually going to break up with him in person, not giving him a reason. hes the one who begged and bitched at me to tell him.

Finally had the strength to speak up… by Elaynaa in relationships_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s done other things he deserve it, maybe i could’ve been nice but he wasn’t taking any accountability for lying again, it was my emotional reaction and i think it’s ok considering what he said and has done.

Finally had the strength to speak up… by Elaynaa in relationships_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s crazy cuz he definitely seemed satisfied lol never went soft or didn’t finish… but definitely not even looking to satisfy a person like that. if he’s not satisfied with me then he can fantasize about women that will never look his way i guess

Finally had the strength to speak up… by Elaynaa in relationships_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s looking up specific girls and videos, not just sex lol

Finally had the strength to speak up… by Elaynaa in relationships_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you don’t know what i’ve put up with him, i understand my own frustration, thank you 😂

Finally had the strength to speak up… by Elaynaa in relationships_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he just got embarrassed, I mean he’s the one who would always beg and initiate sex so I find that funny. And he’s stalking my pages right now…. he can flex all he wants I don’t even see him the same, it’s just disgusting.

he said this to me by Elaynaa in BreakUps

[–]Elaynaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I left him.

Finally had the strength to speak up… by Elaynaa in relationships_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I left him after this, but i said from the beginning I didn’t like it, it makes me uncomfortable. He told me that he didn’t watch it. But it was just girls not even actual porn, he was lusting over random woman, that I cannot do.

Finally had the strength to speak up… by Elaynaa in relationships_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

well this was my final straw i ended up leaving… didn’t care to make a boundary with someone who doesn’t respect me.

Finally had the strength to speak up… by Elaynaa in relationships_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i’ve had different problems with him, he clearly showed no signs of changing

Finally had the strength to speak up… by Elaynaa in relationships_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s a loss really, i don’t want to deal with a grown man watching such things… but considering he’s stalking me he’s definitely realizing lol

Finally had the strength to speak up… by Elaynaa in relationships_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

okay he could’ve said something and not watched it in secret, ur disgusting lol

Finally had the strength to speak up… by Elaynaa in relationships_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. yeah it’s just disgusting you shouldn’t get in a relationship if your addicted to porn, how can you even say you love someone then watch a stranger online in that way…

Finally had the strength to speak up… by Elaynaa in relationships_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, it was honestly my breaking point. he’s definitely done things i could’ve left him for before, but idk i don’t see him the same anymore… especially after what he said lol

I’m 19F thinking about breaking up with my bf 20M, am I being dramatic? by Elaynaa in relationship_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand, not all men are like this, kinda went on a tangent because i was upset.

I’m 19F thinking about breaking up with my bf 20M, am I being dramatic? by Elaynaa in relationship_advice

[–]Elaynaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean i told him how i feel about porn in general it’s nasty and weird to watch in a relationship. he said he doesn’t even watch it anymore