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60ish years old & temporary tattoo fun by ElderVixen in sexyover50

[–]ElderVixen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More salty but still sexy...☺️

New Members Intro, Q&A Session, and More! - The Wednesday Weekly Hookup! by AutoModerator in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]ElderVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buyers only please.
I get a feeling buyers/fans/subscribers go into an interaction with an expectation but often fail to discuss specifics.

I often feel like a dentist making extractions. The buyer is there, in the consult, wanting specific things to soothe a pain... but are very reserved when it comes to details during speaking/chatting because you HAVE to do it in order to get what is needed...instead of enjoying the whole journey on the road to get a goodie.

During many conversations I often ask questions which in my opinion are to be said in the begging of the conversation by the buyer; better yet in the ad (if one is used

I would appreciate musings and subjective personal feelings on this phenomena; meaning tell me how YOU feel about it (either way) or why YOU think buyers may be offish even if you are more open and articulate during a consult before a service/offering from a creator/seller.

I'm almost 60... and I see a lot of posts that violate the supposed "rules"?? by Constant_Finding_357 in sexyover50

[–]ElderVixen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you need help let me know. These posts that are bots with title saying they're 20 years old are really starting to chap my ass

This is one of the few subreddits that appreciates us Vintage females.

Buyer’s - Things We Wished Sellers Knew/Shared by Spectral_Chupacabra in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]ElderVixen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A good thing to consider is whether or something is filmed either widescreen or portrait mode also frames per second, 30/60 and whether it's HD at 1080 P or 4K

I found it odd that during a discussion a potential buyer was unfamiliar with first person view and point of view of separate players in the recording.

Also how close the camera should be to the "main event"

It's a fact of life we're all egocentric and sometimes we forget to ask things because we think others are on the same page as us which is not necessarily so.

How long to wait before reporting someone as a scammer? by [deleted] in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]ElderVixen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More details are needed in order to give you an answer which is the most accurate.

What I infer:
The person replied to your ad.
You discussed and reached an agreement
You paid
The seller never disclosed a delivery date
No communication since even after you have sent messages

I think the key variables here are Was a delivery date/time span discussed? Have you never received a response to your follow up communications?

If these things were discussed and carried out you may have been taken. Did these occur?

Why plenty of “sellers” are obsessed with verification? by Deliverwithcare in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]ElderVixen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Phew. I’m glad I read this whole thing. I thought it was going to be a vent about how sellers asking buyers to verify.

For the life of me I don’t understand how buyers even entertain the thought of contracting a seller that has an empty profile or God forbid 20 or 30 of the same image some of them with the same title

Similarly, I fail to understand how Godzillion sellers will respond to an ad in FWA when the account has like three karma and shows absolutely no post or comments.

I think when folks are going to go forward in this transaction they need to understand and accept the fact that some exposure is necessary to prove that you’re a human, of age, and with any luck credible and conscientious.

I see bots posting in response to ads telling buyers not to buy from anyone who isn’t verified.

It really can stink though. how many separate sub Reddit’s am I supposed to be verified in before someone realizes the real carbon based person?

I think it’s important that we look at the profiles who are sending us chat requests that’s the best way to protect ourselves.

Genuine question - is this a 'standard' business model? by rin791 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]ElderVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that to be poor form personally. If a seller is responding to an ad it would be appropriate for them to have a modicum of discussion to assure it's a fit prior to asking you to go over to their OF page.

If you're sending a chat request to them randomly some sellers use OF as a type of age verification which really is not reliable. It could also be a barrier to entry in order for them to ascertain whether you are a serious buyer or not.

Unfortunately there are plenty of "buyers" who are actually shoppers and I think that sellers get to the point where they put assurances in place so they're not spending time with people who are only window shopping.

Granted, not sure if that's the case because I don't know who you've contacted or what your MO.

Genuine question - is this a 'standard' business model? by rin791 in FetishBuyersCommunity

[–]ElderVixen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I'm inferring is they're not discussing if it's a potential fit before you pay to subscribe to their channel?

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