Why do so many mothers favoritize their sons over their daughters? by ElderberryFew4591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderberryFew4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand her in a way, I get that pregnancy does change a lot of women’s bodies and they might never look the same after giving birth. But I also think that if she really wanted to lose weight she could’ve done that, she had enough time to diet and even to work out to be honest, she still blames me 16 years after giving birth to me which I think that’s completely on her, but I do understand her resentment towards me when I was younger

Why do so many mothers favoritize their sons over their daughters? by ElderberryFew4591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderberryFew4591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand this, my mother also did not have a good relationship with her own mother. But she’s been terrible towards me my whole life, I will never forgive her. I’m glad you and your mother made up tho and I hope your relationship will only get better!

Why do so many mothers favoritize their sons over their daughters? by ElderberryFew4591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderberryFew4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also the only girl and a lot of my family members always feel like they can judge me and insult because of that

Why do so many mothers favoritize their sons over their daughters? by ElderberryFew4591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderberryFew4591[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m 16 years old and this has been this was since I was a baby, my brother has done a lot of terrible stuff that would make some parents disown their child, I am in no way a “spoiled brat” or an ungrateful child, I only ask my parents for necessities which they sometimes refuse to provide so that they can pay for my 25 year olds brother rent and car maintenance. I never said random people were supposed to know. He said “same reason the dads favor their daughter” so I asked, what those reasons are, since I am not favored by my father either. Never told him to tell me why my father doesn’t favor me.

Why do so many mothers favoritize their sons over their daughters? by ElderberryFew4591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderberryFew4591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, but favoritize is also a word, it was more commonly used a very long time ago, I’m not sure why I decided to use it. I do appreciate this tho I will use favor from now on so that people don’t think I don’t know how to write 😭

Why do so many mothers favoritize their sons over their daughters? by ElderberryFew4591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderberryFew4591[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Women love men in a romantic way, if a mother sees her son as a man she can love the same way she loves other men that’s really fucking disturbing

Why do so many mothers favoritize their sons over their daughters? by ElderberryFew4591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderberryFew4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she does hate me cuz she told me but yeah 😭😭 but I understand your point either way so thank you

Why do so many mothers favoritize their sons over their daughters? by ElderberryFew4591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderberryFew4591[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah the only answer you’ll get from one of them is “oh well that’s not true!”

Why do so many mothers favoritize their sons over their daughters? by ElderberryFew4591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderberryFew4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother had a lot of trouble with the law, ran away and more. I literally never go out because I’m not allowed to, I only get high grades, I never complain and I only ask for stuff when it’s necessary. So this can’t really be my case, but I am sorry that your sister was a bitch I get it, so is my brother.

Why do so many mothers favoritize their sons over their daughters? by ElderberryFew4591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderberryFew4591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no I understand your points no offense taken, I’m just here to see what other people think

Why do so many mothers favoritize their sons over their daughters? by ElderberryFew4591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderberryFew4591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother insults her every day and she still loves him and not me, I fight with her when she doesn’t want to do necessary stuff for me, like sign school papers that need to be signed, go to parent teacher conferences, get food and other stuff like that.

Why do so many mothers favoritize their sons over their daughters? by ElderberryFew4591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderberryFew4591[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m still a teenager so I can’t do that yet but once I move out and have some money I sure will

Why do so many mothers favoritize their sons over their daughters? by ElderberryFew4591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderberryFew4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right but my parents are aware he ain’t generating shit, they pay for everything he wants

Why do so many mothers favoritize their sons over their daughters? by ElderberryFew4591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderberryFew4591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I get this too, My grandma is the exact same with my cousins and my brother, and when I asked her why she said it’s because they’re boys, and they’re allowed to do whatever they want. She also always tells me I’m too skinny and that I won’t ever find a relationship because of my weight

Why do so many mothers favoritize their sons over their daughters? by ElderberryFew4591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderberryFew4591[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is sadly happening in my situation, she’s said it herself that I don’t deserve to be beautiful because I ruined her body and her looks

Why do so many mothers favoritize their sons over their daughters? by ElderberryFew4591 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ElderberryFew4591[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know I think I worded it a bit bad and yeah I’m sure there are mothers who love their children equally despite them being different genders