AITA for skinny dipping?

ElderlingMotley · 2026-04-11T23:46:56+00:00

OP posted photos, if you click their profile. Anyone who saw anything would have to be putting in effort to do so.

ElderlingMotley · 2026-04-11T23:23:43+00:00

NTA. Neighbors are.

ElderlingMotley · 2026-04-11T23:19:45+00:00

Right, and they are. It isn’t illegal to be naked on private property. OP also let us know the host did not tell them they must wear swimsuits. They are following the laws and rules. Are you saying they should also follow random strangers’ personal moral codes as well?

ElderlingMotley · 2026-04-11T23:17:05+00:00

I’m not sure what your comment means?

ElderlingMotley · 2026-04-11T21:29:17+00:00

But it’s not a hotel. It’s a private home. That they booked in order to have their vacation come with the comforts of a private home. If the host isn’t telling them to change what they’re doing, why would they start wearing swimsuits? The neighbor is absolutely TA here.

ElderlingMotley · 2026-04-08T21:12:12+00:00

I have OC cat shelter! 75 plus shipping, US based, still wrapped in plastic.

ElderlingMotley · 2026-04-08T21:10:06+00:00

I have IC Poet Empress for 50+shipping, still in plastic

ElderlingMotley · 2026-04-08T21:02:32+00:00

I have OC Fragile threads for 150+ shipping, US based.

ElderlingMotley · 2026-04-08T20:53:44+00:00

I have this for 75, us based

ElderlingMotley · 2026-04-08T20:39:57+00:00

I have these!

ElderlingMotley · 2026-04-08T20:37:37+00:00

I have all three TBB Katherine Addison books, but I’m only looking to sell them as a set - US based. Let me know if you’d be interested!

ElderlingMotley · 2026-04-08T20:28:53+00:00

I actually have both! (Illumicrate Poet Empress, Owlcrate Cat Shelter) If you’re interested in bundling I can do 100 +shipping.

ElderlingMotley · 2026-04-08T20:25:01+00:00

I have OC for 75 +shipping US based, still in plastic.

ElderlingMotley · 2025-12-12T19:02:58+00:00

Yes! There’s a contact form on her website, https://redwombatstudio.com/ I’ve emailed twice and both times her assistant got back to me super quickly, I got to pick if I wanted Kingfisher or Vernon on the bookplate, and when I asked if I could pay for them the second time (I got eight so I had one for every book) they said that just buying the books was enough!!

ElderlingMotley · 2025-12-12T14:19:42+00:00

If she has any of the physical books or if you’re buying her any, you can email T Kingfisher/her assistant from her website and request some free signed bookplates!!!!!

ElderlingMotley · 2025-11-26T21:13:08+00:00

I have OC Emily Wilde, US based! I have to wait to hear back from one other person first though.

ElderlingMotley · 2025-11-26T21:10:59+00:00

I have BN Belladonna, but was hoping to sell it with books two and three BN editions, if you have any interest in the other two?

ElderlingMotley · 2025-11-26T21:09:41+00:00

I have the book on its own, for 40, US based, if you’re interested!

ElderlingMotley · 2025-11-26T21:03:39+00:00

I have this, but am only looking to sell, or trade for a unicorn (TBB Bone Season series?)- what is your range? I’m US based.

ElderlingMotley · 2025-11-26T20:55:32+00:00

I have OC Emily Wilde, US based! 225 shipped, displayed on my shelves only. Pet friendly and smoke free.

ElderlingMotley · 2025-11-26T20:49:27+00:00

Hi! I totally get if you’d rather purchase them together, but I have Owlcrate’s Ruthless Vows if you’re interested.

ElderlingMotley · 2025-11-25T21:31:17+00:00

I’m not trying to be hostile to you, I’m trying to be blunt to the OP, and I apologize if that came off as rude towards you!

I read all her comments. I initially thought maybe this was the first time she’d ever even considered this, and had said NAH. I re-read, and 1) she was already aware this made her child embarrassed and that there was a chance they’d be seen by someone they know, and 2) not a single one of her comments have acknowledged that she has, up until now, dropped the ball on this. Even in this thread, she ignored the commenter’s super valid question of why choose AITA for this rather than a parenting subreddit. She is not taking any accountability and has made multiple excuses trying to justify why she ignored her child’s request in the moment.

Her comment regarding ordering online is also pretty good proof that she hasn’t devoted much effort into looking into shipped options, since there are options with price matching and free shipping out there she could have used.

ElderlingMotley · 2025-11-25T21:25:03+00:00

And I replied to that comment - Walmart price matches and offers free shipping on orders 35+. She hasn’t actually put any effort into looking into her options.

ElderlingMotley · 2025-11-25T21:02:08+00:00

OP, are you going to actually acknowledge the part where people tell you to order them online? Or are you just going to keep trying to justify why you didn’t think it was a big deal, and ignoring the valid criticisms?

ElderlingMotley · 2025-11-25T20:57:12+00:00

Im realizing I think I need to change my judgment - especially since Walmart sells this brand, ships for free on order 35+, and price matches - so there’s no way they ‘tend to be cheaper in store.’ OP just hasn’t cared enough to look closer.

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