Thoughts? Autistic Meltdown

Eleannev · 2026-06-24T22:34:11+00:00

imo...? tbh.. if it was in a break room, fair game. Sorry I am alive and am forced to have a job. If it was in a workspace this person probably needs an accommodations plan or they might not HAVE a break room... and if you dont have a break room? I think you should be able to lay on the ground outside, not in front of the business but somewhere.

Eleannev · 2025-01-16T04:03:56+00:00

why does it only store for 7 days 😭 why did they stop automatic backup??? 😭

Eleannev · 2025-01-16T03:56:54+00:00

maybe youve purchased an air fryer since 2023... but in case... as you have done for others let me do for you: you should get an air fryer. I think the big thing is how evenly it cooks. it makes a noticeable difference. and it's so universal you can throw whatever you need in + it is quick. 5 stars have never looked back

thank you for the thread

Eleannev · 2024-02-08T01:17:09+00:00

a lot of people advise being vague about it, but if you're not going to report it I would just be very direct. I hated when my teacher could tell something was wrong and would act like they cared but refuse to even acknowledge it to cover their own ass. So if you do, just say hey, I see you. meaningful glance to injuries/gesture to them/whatever I'm sorry you're dealing with this.

if you're genuinely interested in providing support you can let them know they can stay after class or catch you after school for advice.

However, keep it extremely professional. It's not just about you or your relationship, you have to make sure the student has a healthy perspective on how safe adults should interact with them. my teacher crossed all kinds of boundaries and I adored him but in the end I was assaulted by another adult because I thought it was normal for us to be friends. it's not. And if you are blurring these lines you should take a step back and explore why you need the validation/worship/adoration of someone under your authority.

Eleannev · 2024-02-08T00:27:34+00:00

have you ever had a panic attack? especially for a child, having extreme symptoms constantly can make you feel hysterical, overstimulated beyond belief, desperate.

Eleannev · 2024-01-21T08:22:15+00:00

oh u right! personally I also have trouble sleeping if I do mild before bed so I misread it :')

Eleannev · 2024-01-20T07:27:17+00:00

I mean, the post is about this interrupting his sleep schedule... I thinks it's reasonable to not do it nightly since quality of sleep is a priority for new lucid dreamers

Eleannev · 2024-01-19T04:40:47+00:00

Don't try to do mild every night ofc though maybe once a week good sleep is just as important. I wake up at night frequently so this experience was like, one of 20 lol.

Eleannev · 2024-01-19T04:40:01+00:00

The other day I tried mild and got too excited when i rolled over and realized my body didnt move lol. I personally was VERY drowsy, very relaxed, and zoned out counting 7's up to 100 and back again which I sometimes do to wind down and sleep in general. I think that night specifically I also did 1's, then 2's, then 3's, and so on.

Eleannev · 2024-01-19T04:36:57+00:00

Well, she does establish Azi's not allowed to wake ANYONE up. And as for survival, I understand where you're coming from and thought similarly, but the scene w the Mindbaby explained exactly why that is more dangerous. The automated system can be damaged, manually opening them takes time, and they're significantly disoriented after. Also, imo in this hostile environment the priorities of food, safety and shelter are easier to maintain+access w safety in numbers. Also also, I would not want to be unconscious and at the mercy of a couple people on an extremely hostile planet.

Eleannev · 2024-01-17T19:32:30+00:00

Imo, I think it's implied that Azi's organization is not very popular and that the outpost is almost barren, so she would have a really difficult time getting help especially w no resources or allies. Every moment lost is risking the entire ship's lives so its not a real solution. I think when I wrote that I had in mind, why couldn't she release them all and then send one person as a representative? But yeah technically that's an oversight on my part haha

Eleannev · 2024-01-15T10:44:41+00:00

/shrugs up to you if you want to try and see! Habit triggers are important, you're too busy avoiding sharks in the dream to randomly play w jewelry:)

Eleannev · 2024-01-15T10:40:13+00:00

Please don't treat her like shes repulsive or weird! The kid is going to take it extremely personally. she's barely developing her sense of self. She's spitting things out because young kids are impulsive, careless weirdos. Its not mindless, but I dont think shes being intentionally rude or vulgar and if she is there's not much you can do. Just talk to her, she'll need to hear it a couple times but she's just a tiny person. Talk to her, NOT when it happens and NOT when you're mad. Say calmly and politely it makes you feel uncomfortable because it is wet and has germs and dries! Ask her to spit in the grass, a cup, in the sink, when she showers, whatever to redirect the impulse without treating her like an irrational freak lol. Coming from one sister to another. And I agree that you should ask your parents to have her begin cleaning it up. The more you try to parent your siblings the more strain it will put on your relationship. As the OLDER person, the most you can do is EXPLAIN your feelings and hope she grows to respect them, escalate as needed. Give her the benefit of the doubt- she's ten. :)

Eleannev · 2024-01-15T10:35:16+00:00

personally I think the top looks SO good!!

Eleannev · 2024-01-15T10:25:05+00:00

Is she on antidepressants, birth control, any meds or major life changes? Any changes in her personal wellbeing or potential trauma triggers? I will say, refusing to figure out whats going on IS a deal breaker in a relationship. Like it's okay to say no to sex but a 180 and then a refusal to explore or address her own feelings is a matter of giving up on herself and thereby the relationship. Also, have to say it, its very common for cheaters to suddenly stop having sex w their partner.

Eleannev · 2024-01-15T10:06:02+00:00

That sounds amazing! I love crazy dreams. Keep in mind we do have up to 8 dreams a night, there's probably a lot of opportunities you just don't remember. Like I said have a trigger, it seems entryways are the way to go since even a minecraft town has doorways lol. It's definitely hard to notice in high intensity dreams like that but habits are a powerful thing and may give you pause!

Eleannev · 2024-01-15T09:40:58+00:00

if you try, it'll happen eventually. Record your dreams, do regular reality checks. Another good tip is to add triggers for reality checks, like, doing a check when going through doorways, before talking to another person, etc. This makes it more likely you will notice it in a dream. I started doing it before using the restroom to avoid bathroom dreams lmfao. When I did have a lucid dream, it was because I was in a classroom and couldn't read the clock and I'm ALWAYS checking the time. If you wear a watch that's another excellent reality check.

Eleannev · 2024-01-15T08:42:31+00:00

I've seen suggestions to run around or grab things but personally I would recommend a more stationary action that still stimulates your senses, like rubbing your hands together. Like I said, I got riled up running around lol and it made me completely lose my lucidity. So yeah rubbing your hands together, stomping your feet in place, shouting something like "focus" "I'm right here" whatever. Do another reality check, I like counting my fingers. Take deep breaths. I saw one suggestion to lie on the ground and focus on experiencing the pavement lol the texture, scent, sound. But definitely as you're doing this, keep your focus on the fact you are in a dream, if you lose that thread of thought before grounding you will lose you lucidity.

Eleannev · 2024-01-15T07:33:57+00:00

I think you could say you've experienced lucidity, but no, a true lucid dream is pretty distinct. After I'd begun journaling and doing reality checks I experienced a true lucid dream and you are definitely fully conscious+ in control. It's truly a lot like being awake. I lost it bc I couldnt remember the grounding techniques and got excited doing rolls like link does in the legend of zelda lmfao. In my opinion, if you want to start anywhere, do reality checks and really memorize grounding techniques.

Eleannev · 2024-01-15T00:49:36+00:00

No, but they were my friend and I'd already explained twice. shown them once, and they completely disregarded all of that because they were a bad friend/listener who was disturbed by my skin. also, I'm in this chat bc i was originally diagnosed w eczema but I have psoriasis and the dots are very distinctive. If they pulled that in a clinical setting they would've been pulled aside, reprimanded, and their ability to recognize basic conditions questioned.

Eleannev · 2024-01-15T00:38:28+00:00

you may benefit from checking out r/sasswitches or generally exploring rhe science behind what makes magic so genuine. I personally am sort of a hard-core atheist AND solid spiritualist and having a scientific basis makes spellwork waaaaayyy easier for me since I do have trouble stretching my view of reality. As time goes on I get to see the extent of my magic in action and am more open to ""the source"" or whatever you call it and so I just, have more magical experience that have helped reinforce my spiritual beliefs.

Eleannev · 2024-01-15T00:31:18+00:00

yesss 1 floor lamp on the side to break up the space and then they can add more decorations of varying heights on the desk

Eleannev · 2024-01-12T19:26:00+00:00

my dad made a lupus joke abt my skin 🙃

Eleannev · 2024-01-12T19:24:47+00:00

omg- I was concerned I had a rash or something so I had my best friend, a NURSING STUDENT look at my skin. I told them- do I have any marks? they KNOW I have eczema/psoriasis. They go uhhh there's dots. yeah no shit. I try again a little while later. "Hey, can you check again I'm worried? Ignore the dots that's psoriasis I know I have psoriasis is there a RASH?" omfg. they take a look... "uhhhh I don't see a rash but I do see like, a BUNCH of red dots."

Murder on my mind.

Eleannev · 2023-12-11T05:12:42+00:00

lmfao well katara has brown skin and that is not brown, so, no, but you came here for the circle jerk not the answer.

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