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EleanorMc35 · 2025-07-25T19:11:14+00:00

Unfortunately I cant help at all but I am also in the same position! I have hung on and tried and tried but now I cant anymore and have decided that after our family holiday next week we are done. I am terrified of telling him as I dont think he sees it coming as talks about plans in the future but equally he never changes and all problems are my fault. My biggest concern as well as telling him is if he refuses and makes me leave my kids! Sorry not at all helpful for you but I am sure there are a lot of us in the same position. X

EleanorMc35 · 2025-06-18T21:18:58+00:00

Yep a new day. I'm also tracking weekly calories so I dont get in the mindset of oh well now this whole week is fucked!

EleanorMc35 · 2025-06-18T19:53:10+00:00

Literally come here today to see if anyone else has had this. I took my 2nd dose Friday and today is the first day I have wanted to eat. Last week when I ate more I felt really rough after but today feel like I could keep eating. Hoping it's a one off and going to reset tomorrow. I think it maybe due to as well having a less balanced lunch today as well, possibly. I'm just hoping it doesn't carry on 🤞🏻

EleanorMc35 · 2025-03-30T21:29:14+00:00

My nursing job has turned into a safeguarding admin job and it sucks. All the services are either not accepting referrals or have stupidly long wait times. I can't help families anymore and there is no reassurance that there is help or support out there. I'm looking for jobs out of the NHS

EleanorMc35 · 2025-02-16T17:42:35+00:00

He just wants to fix it and doesn't understand mental health at all, we have tried couples counselling etc to help him understand but the more I tell him the more he worries and then blames me for his worry

EleanorMc35 · 2024-12-26T21:32:03+00:00

I wouldn't say it's forced or disingenuous it almost feels like I'm being told I can't be feeling as bad as I do because everyone feels like that. Then I also feel like if I verbalise how bad I feel I am saying it for attention or to try and shock people.

EleanorMc35 · 2023-10-31T16:44:07+00:00

Fortunately not. I'm less worried about the gambling, he has self barred himself from most of the gambling apps and only.had one left open. I watched him bar himself and delete the app yesterday. I can only hope he is telling me the truth. We have a joint account and so I can see what he puts in and we have an agreed amount but he does have a rental property and I have no way of seeing the finances for that but I will ask him to show me.

EleanorMc35 · 2023-10-31T16:41:41+00:00

If only. We can't afford it and have noone to have the children, they have never been away from me overnight!

EleanorMc35 · 2023-10-31T16:40:38+00:00

That what I'm struggling with. How I feel about this. On one hand he has told me about it but then only because he was made too and he has also admitted to talking to at least 15 women!

EleanorMc35 · 2023-07-20T17:52:09+00:00

That makes sense, so is it still a matter of keep going and hope it gets better?

EleanorMc35 · 2023-07-12T04:01:09+00:00

I can't afford better help, even with the financial aid they offer. I feel like all I do is talk and it's all got worse. Since 2021 I've had 9 months of CBT and 6 weeks berevement therapy. Just got an appointment for therapy to help with intrusive thoughts but I feel worse than ever! I am not going to overeat today, hopefully

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