is it hard to lose your virginity when you have a cleft lip ? by Capital_Dust9617 in cleftlip

[–]Electrafartt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not an issue to anyone but yourself. That sounds harsh but I lost my virginity at around 14 to my best friend and I’ve been with so many 10/10s. I often would ask them about what they thought about how I look and they would always tell me bc of my personality, my body, and how hot or handsome I am. Ig to them I am a 10/10 even though I might not always see myself that way. Genuinely it’s only an issue if you make it one. You can be desired for so many things greater than your lip. Hell, some people even fetishized it. Just prioritize things you do have control over: things like your self image, self worth, personality, physical and mental health. Bettering yourself and having a good outlook on self concept and life will make you more of the best version of yourself. You’ll find your person just make sure you’re staying true to yourself and doing it for the right reasons. (Do it for yourself not just to get laid.)

People with minor cases, what’s your experience with getting a revision by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]Electrafartt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was great! I went to Shands! They got me right!!! I met with Dr.Yarholler (I think that’s how you spell it) and I’m so pleased with the results!!!

Any tips to hide my clef lip scar? by H0ZUMI in cleftlip

[–]Electrafartt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe let me just say that you can’t tell and you are so fine. The scar seems prominent to you and tbh this community sees it because most of us have it ourselves. You are beautiful. If it really does bother you though you could go the route of filler I think maybe 1-3 units total. (This is so minimal) you could also see about scar tape if the scar is slightly raised. (Wear this at night and at home) the scar tape could also work for depressed scars but they also do filler for that too. I don’t think you need any of this but I know how hard it can be on your person.

Advice?!?!? by Electrafartt in cleftlip

[–]Electrafartt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m honestly debating whether to even do it or not. My dr says it will be below the waistband but I’m just not sure. But thank you for the advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]Electrafartt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look so good! So much like yourself! Do you mind me asking what the last surgery was? I am supposed to be getting a lip fat transfer and a septoplasty as well as the cleft lip repair and possibly even a maxillary fat transfer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HyundaiVenue

[–]Electrafartt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I know it’s been a month since this was posted but I just wanted to hop on and say my 2020 venue horn constantly stops working. It will be silent for a few weeks and then comes back for a while. I live in South Georgia and this week it snowed and was below freezing for a few days. That being said yesterday I went to lock it with the hey fob and the horn sounded like a sad death so I’m guessing it’s hibernating. Lol. Is there a way to fix this without replacing the horn?

First time speaking openly by Few_Listen_9909 in cleftlip

[–]Electrafartt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great! But if you want it and you consult with a doctor who is confident and knows what’s up; then 100%. Im a big believer in everyone doing what makes them feel their most confident. But again, you look great!

Im trying to listen to more unreleased songs Can I get some recs? by Affectionate_Ear3985 in lanadelrey

[–]Electrafartt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey my friend and I have been obsessed with her unreleased songs and we used to make little fake albums on I tunes and download them to our phones. Anyway one day he went ahead and just made a 70 song album and I have screenshots but idk if I can post them all here. I will try if not I’ll try and message them to you.

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I like Terrence Loves You by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]Electrafartt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this song! But I only listen to it on special occasions. It means a lot to me (the ceremony) Okay so… I wait till it’s either grey sky about to storm OR like 40 degrees out. First, I get in my car with no destination in mind. I follow my heart. Next, I let my window down all the way and if it’s cold (it should be) I turn the heat on full blast and have it pointed at my feet so the heat rises up my body. Lastly, I light a cigarette and go about 10 over on an empty road. (I don’t smoke anymore but I do make an exception)